Empowerment is a feel good term in social work. It's code for I will help you and give you feel good platitudes. A person thinking themselves as a king or queen likens to being self referred as alpha.
Women with extremely high standards
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Lol... If she doesn't offer to pay half on the first date(which I will take gladly) red flag.
I see it differently. If I get into a relationship with someone presenting specific attributes or behavior and that shit slides and they are not living up to the agreement. If their needs are always increasing then the terms are not fair. Not to say this is not negotiable but compensation for such an upgrade is required.
I'm all about being taken care of staying at home and the little woman slaving at work. Then reality hits....
I see it as contract stipulations. Gents always read the fine print in all your endeavors
I hate using this term but some men are simps. They are thirsty as fuck and will lick the anus of a woman that fulfill their need for validation and to avoid being lonely. Men except for the gays are biologically driven to want women. Women know this and use it to their advantage. Why wouldn't they? I would. I like it when I get things paid for by my girlfriendsAll I'm going to say is you need to read the research on who provides most of the domestic and emotional work in relationships as well as the research on who benefits the most from heterosexual domestic relationships, then come back and talk to me about equality.
My partner pays for all of our dates, and if he didnt i wouldnt date him, he had to make the decision whether that was worth it to him, but honestly it was never a discussion, he has never once even hesitated to pull out his wallet when the bill arrives. If on the first date there had been an issue there just wouldn't have been a second one. Women arent forcing men to pay for anything men who do so are choosing to, knowing that it increases their odds with that woman. But I know plenty of women who don't have these requirements, maybe the men who encounter this a lot are trying to date outside of their tax bracket, and if thats not the case, then maybe they are looking in the wrong places
I would call it almost an addiction.
Hey I'm willing to clean the toilet if shes willing go climb on the roof and fix it. Fat chance. That was the traditional gender role in my house. Im curious if the study includes home maintenance and other more laborious activities. As described before Mom ain't going on the roof, physically interceding an attacker to prevent injuring the family. Many duties that men do, do not involving housework. If dad was growing veggies in the garden mom was canning. Sometimes one has to do more than the other. Sometimes harder work or longer.
I don't feel bad for people. Everyone is the captain of their own destiny, some just choose not to steer and pick a direction. The sea or life chooses for them. There are going to be people at the bottom. There always have and always will. A woman can always find a guy. It may not be the guy she wants but she has the option to pick and choose. Bottom men don't have this option. Around 60% or men never passed on their genetics and had children. If I remember correctly 80% of women passed on theirs.
My mom told me a story from when she was a young women about 2 men who lived togther who were not related. She thought they were gay, when in reality or possibility they were the "incels" of the 1950s and part of the 60% who were never attractive to women and never made the cut. These men have always been around. Were not referred to as incels but that's a shaming word.
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There are very few dissenting voices re:Ali.
Of all professions, a lawyer ranks right near the top in terms of need for proper spelling and grammar.
That was clearly not a typo and if you're going the "auto-correct" route, don't you proofread?
I think that you were spelling it phonetically. Sort of like I would of....LOL
Yes because no one in the world of writing has ever accidentally used the wrong phonetic word. And no I don't proof read on terb, many of my posts have little errors that show that, not worth the time lol
The problem is that we are holding up broken people as role models. Note that I used the non-gendered term ‘people’ because it applies to both genders. Narcissism has been elevated to a virtue. We have people who genuinely believe that the rest of the world owes them servitude. The advent of the misandric ‘Queen’ culture is how this manifests in females while the ”Self proclaimed Alpha” is the male counter part. Both are a personality disorder.
With regard to the topic at hand, there is a small subset of women to whom the misandric mind set appeals. The chance to use their sexuality to control others affords them a sense of power. That sense of power is the key to understanding this; it’s what motivates them. Just like the sense of power the self proclaimed alphas get from intimidating people. If this sounds familiar to you, it should; these are both forms of the bully mentality.
To understand how this works in society at large you have to understand that people fall into three broad groups. A small group are actual alphas (both male and female). They won’t tell you that they are an alpha because they don’t think of themselves as alphas; they simply think about arranging the world the way they want it to be, and then they make it happen. A small group, the narcissists, tell themselves they are alphas, and may even believe it, simply for the feelings of empowerment it gives them. This group includes your ‘Queens’ and self proclaimed alphas. The vast majority of people don’t think of themselves as alphas and aren’t alphas.
Self proclaimed alpha males can usually get away with their behaviour for periods of time. The vast majority of people, when confronted with a low intensity bully won’t get in their way. They will continue this behaviour until they come into conflict with an actual alpha (the extreme edge of the alpha spectrum is a psychopath). The self proclaimed alpha will always loose this confrontation because the actual alpha will not be intimidated.
Self proclaimed alphas generally attract omega females. Alphas are at the top of the human social hierarchy, omegas are at the very bottom, and, everyone else forms a spectrum between the two. Omega females have low self esteem and are attracted to the projection of power because of the perception that it will offer protection. Omega females are also attracted to actual alphas, but actual alphas reject them due to the limited value they bring to the relationship. In essence, you have narcissistic men attracting women with low self esteem/IQ and using them for sex. This is why trailer parks and inner cities are overrun with human trash.
Similarly, self proclaimed ‘Queens’ attract omega males. This is what drives the phenomena the OP was talking about. Narcissistic women attract low self esteem/IQ men and use them for money. The women derive a sense of power from it as well as financial gain. It’s especially easy for younger women to do this because as men grow older, (and have more money), their standards for physical beauty in a woman drop; I.e. a woman who wouldn’t catch the eye of a guy her own age is going to turn the head of a guy 20 years her senior.
With regard to the topic at hand, there is a small subset of women to whom the misandric mind set appeals. The chance to use their sexuality to control others affords them a sense of power. That sense of power is the key to understanding this; it’s what motivates them. Just like the sense of power the self proclaimed alphas get from intimidating people. If this sounds familiar to you, it should; these are both forms of the bully mentality.
To understand how this works in society at large you have to understand that people fall into three broad groups. A small group are actual alphas (both male and female). They won’t tell you that they are an alpha because they don’t think of themselves as alphas; they simply think about arranging the world the way they want it to be, and then they make it happen. A small group, the narcissists, tell themselves they are alphas, and may even believe it, simply for the feelings of empowerment it gives them. This group includes your ‘Queens’ and self proclaimed alphas. The vast majority of people don’t think of themselves as alphas and aren’t alphas.
Self proclaimed alpha males can usually get away with their behaviour for periods of time. The vast majority of people, when confronted with a low intensity bully won’t get in their way. They will continue this behaviour until they come into conflict with an actual alpha (the extreme edge of the alpha spectrum is a psychopath). The self proclaimed alpha will always loose this confrontation because the actual alpha will not be intimidated.
Self proclaimed alphas generally attract omega females. Alphas are at the top of the human social hierarchy, omegas are at the very bottom, and, everyone else forms a spectrum between the two. Omega females have low self esteem and are attracted to the projection of power because of the perception that it will offer protection. Omega females are also attracted to actual alphas, but actual alphas reject them due to the limited value they bring to the relationship. In essence, you have narcissistic men attracting women with low self esteem/IQ and using them for sex. This is why trailer parks and inner cities are overrun with human trash.
Similarly, self proclaimed ‘Queens’ attract omega males. This is what drives the phenomena the OP was talking about. Narcissistic women attract low self esteem/IQ men and use them for money. The women derive a sense of power from it as well as financial gain. It’s especially easy for younger women to do this because as men grow older, (and have more money), their standards for physical beauty in a woman drop; I.e. a woman who wouldn’t catch the eye of a guy her own age is going to turn the head of a guy 20 years her senior.
Are you going to tell a judge with a dissenting opinion that you're using phonetics?
Those could be the men who had ”hot Wives” whatever they define that to be and then got them to trust them and then had children. And then he got bored. Called her ugly. He got fat. Blamed her for wanting “fancy dinners” (according to other poster here ) and yells at her and then goes to the store for cigarettes and Doritos in his sweatpants and then is angry she doesn’t care to shave her vagina for him to use his cheesy tongue on her and mad she won’t lick his unwashed balls and she has lost the energy to be ambitious and is hopeless and had dreams but has been told they are worthless and stupid and of no value etc
The men who do this should be blocked. It’s sad and inhumane. Do they also only provide tap water ? Pathetic. Sounds like the men who also expect you to have sex 6 times in those 6 hours and they don’t shower in between those times. Have no ambiance and no ability to carry a conversation in between
Oh please. Doubt you ever have or will. lol. Women won’t wait around and can be resourceful and call someone to fix the roof …
all that traditional list making and admin work sure comes in handy
not sure how to respond to the story from your mom. They were either roommates or related or halfway house or gay. Sounds like she was a curtain peeker or neighbourhood watch
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