Women with extremely high standards
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My partner is in his early 40s, and he is very secure in himself because he knows he has a lot of qualities that are desirable in a partner and he is very attractive. He is very self assured but not arrogant. We talk a lot about how a lot of misogyny comes from insecurities men have.
He also grew up in the hood like me so he gets having to do what you have to do. i think people who come from more middle and upper class families often have the "well you can do something else" mentality because they don't understand the barriers people from lower income families deal with. He's also a first generation immigrant like me and understands the commitments I have to my family back home, where Canadians always tell me those people aren't my responsibility. So really, it comes down to understand each other.
It also obviously helps that I'm beautiful, intelligent, well educated and in law school. By this time next year I will be retiring as articling approaches and I'll have other income. Or, since we've been dating 1.5yrs at this point, I'll retire if we move in together because I won't need the extra income, my scholarships and onlyfans are more than enough money if I'm not paying rent which I imagine, from knowing the living arrangement he had with his ex, he wouldn't expect of me while I'm paying off student loans and what not.
My boyfriend knows our sex is spectacular so he doesn't have any reason to insecure about what I get up to with clients. He also knows it's different because of our connection.
So I think it is both understanding each other and I'm sure he is aware that it would be hard for any woman to find someone who is all around better, though he would never say that, he is well aware of what the competition looks like lmao. Plus the dick heavy
It must really hurt you to know that a hooker has a great partner, and that makes me very happy, but not as happy as my partner makes me
He sounds wonderful. Handsome, wealthy, kind etc... Almost too good to be trueIt must really hurt you to know that a hooker has a great partner, and that makes me very happy, but not as happy as my partner makes me
I, personally, prefer Sex Worker vs Hooker, but whatever. If you wish describe yourself as such, who am I to argue.
A man discussing other men's misogyny with his woman is something I find difficult to believe. Sounds like something a woman would make up, thus my assumption that such boyfriend might be a fruit of imagination.
I use hooker in situations where it's clear someone is implying we are less than, which assuming I'm lying about my partner in this instance seems like you think I couldn't have such a partner because of my job.
My partner is different, what can I say. We've talked about how with certain friends he grew up with, he tries to keep the conversation away from women, and steers it away if it goes that way, because he knows they will say things about women that will make him respect them less. But they are childhood friends so he wants to maintain those relationships, which I don't particularly like, it would be like me telling him I have friends who are racist to black people and I just don't discuss race around them to avoid a problem. But I also understand having a life long bond with people you now don't see eye to eye with, so you try to keep things superficial because you care about them as people, this is my relationship with a lot of my family who are in fact racist, and I would never bring him around them because if they said some shit that would probably be the last time they saw me.
So yes, we do talk about misogyny, and other social issues. Just like above I texted him about the incels, we've talked about them too, how it's a real problem, and a difficult one to solve and we both have some sympathy for them, but ultimately think they are human garbage
A pig is not something I'd ever call him, we broke up for a couple months somewhere in the middle of our relationship, and I didn't have anything bad to say about him and was actually a pouty mess the whole time because I know how hard it is to find someone like himAll women brag about their boyfriends. Until they break up with him and then he is a pig.
it was our one and only fight, and we haven't had any issues since we resolved that one.Listen, if you truly found someone wonderful, someone that makes you feel great - good for you!I use hooker in situations where it's clear someone is implying we are less than, which assuming I'm lying about my partner in this instance seems like you think I couldn't have such a partner because of my job.
My partner is different, what can I say. We've talked about how with certain friends he grew up with, he tries to keep the conversation away from women, and steers it away if it goes that way, because he knows they will say things about women that will make him respect them less. But they are childhood friends so he wants to maintain those relationships, which I don't particularly like, it would be like me telling him I have friends who are racist to black people and I just don't discuss race around them to avoid a problem. But I also understand having a life long bond with people you now don't see eye to eye with, so you try to keep things superficial because you care about them as people, this is my relationship with a lot of my family who are in fact racist, and I would never bring him around them because if they said some shit that would probably be the last time they saw me.
So yes, we do talk about misogyny, and other social issues. Just like above I texted him about the incels, we've talked about them too, how it's a real problem, and a difficult one to solve and we both have some sympathy for them, but ultimately think they are human garbage
I don't think any less about a woman, any woman, because of her work and that is why I dislike a word Hooker. It comes with a negative connotation. There people who do what is considered more noble jobs, yet have a very nasty essence.
I also consider hooker to be a word I can use to describe myself, in a reclaiming a slur type way, but if a client called me that he's getting put out the door lol
Guy #1: Do you know what they call Escorts in Paris?
Guy #2: Who cares?
Guy #1: No, les putes.
I realize something this week.
Narcissist are like 12 years old in conditions of materialism and arguments. So when people request what they want in a partner which is beyond their means or they are dreaming for the easy life, I know I am dealing a pre-teen mental thinking person .
Narcissist are like 12 years old in conditions of materialism and arguments. So when people request what they want in a partner which is beyond their means or they are dreaming for the easy life, I know I am dealing a pre-teen mental thinking person .
I think that you are denying reality.
For her chosen profession, the spelling and grammar requirements are extremely high.
Combine that with other factors and a bit of ribbing was totally appropriate.
A close friend of mine has a similar attitude. Since we were in highschool she has presented this mindset. "I'm not dating anyone unless they have their own place, great shape, rich, good payjng job and a 10 in looks"
This is us in highschool years. She has hooked up with guys, but I haven't been introduced to a boyfriend before. She's in her mid 30s and still spews this crap.
"I'm waiting for a Dr. They respect privacy and are not judgmental." I personally dont get why ONLY drs, since lawyers make a lot of money too, but she has stuck her guns on this.
Her saving grace is that she's very attractive, but to this day I still think she's flying too close to the sun. I'm not sure where this magic physician is going to come from.
This is us in highschool years. She has hooked up with guys, but I haven't been introduced to a boyfriend before. She's in her mid 30s and still spews this crap.
"I'm waiting for a Dr. They respect privacy and are not judgmental." I personally dont get why ONLY drs, since lawyers make a lot of money too, but she has stuck her guns on this.
Her saving grace is that she's very attractive, but to this day I still think she's flying too close to the sun. I'm not sure where this magic physician is going to come from.
I think that you just described this.
THE HUSBAND STORE
A store that sells new husbands has just opened in New York City, where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates.
You may visit the store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the attributes of the men increase as the shopper ascends the flights. There is, however, a catch: you may choose any man from a particular floor, or you may choose to go up a floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building!
So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband...
On each floor the signs on the doors read:
Floor 1 - These men have jobs.
Floor 2 - These men have jobs and love kids.
Floor 3 - These men have jobs, love kids, and are extremely good looking. "Wow," she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going. She goes to the fourth floor and sign reads:
Floor 4 - These men have jobs, love kids, are drop-dead good looking and help with the housework. "Oh, mercy me!" she exclaims, "I can hardly stand it!" Still, she goes to the fifth floor and sign reads:
Floor 5 - These men have jobs, love kids, are drop-dead gorgeous, help with the housework, and have a strong romantic streak. She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor and the sign reads:
Floor 6 - You are visitor 3,261,496,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.
How do you establish who is in what league? How does someone measure that?
Previously a man found a woman physically attractive and asked her out. Women looked for a good man who could provide for a family and provide security.
That is completely gone and won't be coming back.
What does meeting halfway mean? A millionaire women should date a brokie with several baby mommas? A man with no children should date a woman with many baby daddies who on welfare?
Its complicated and there are going to be a lot of men and women that will be single or lonely. Some with overinflated self value and some with unrealistic expectations for both sexes.
Yeah. The calculus has changed so much over the last 45 years that now the vast majority of men do not meet the standards of most women.
Sure, alpha males are making more than ever, but there is not enough of them. And those alpha males have to watch that they do not get taken to the cleaners.
Unless you meet every demand, which will exponentially grow over time, relationships will end due to boredom or being unhappy. The problem is this is a normal part of any long-term relationship. It's ups and downs. Perfection is not reality. I have turfed many long term girlfriends due to the error.
My expectations have grown as I have aged. More than likely I will remain single since I like solitude and peace. I am becoming comfortable with the idea of paid interludes and having no partner. My only concern is, as I age eventually I will need someone to act as my power of attorney.
I have that problem also. I am the youngest of five. I have one sister who at the moment only has a holograph will that I gave her at the moment. She wants us to get proper wills. But she is quite a bit older than I am. I asked my ex to move out around 2005. I sponsored her from the Philippines(not mail order, through a co-worker). I love solitude also. A hot coffee or cold beer and a couple of newspapers or some good web surfing and I am fine.
