Sugar Dating Experience

[Leimonis]

what forum is that?
thx

r/sugarlifestyleforum

r/sugarlifestyleforum: A forum where SDs and SBs discuss the sugar lifestyle, share experiences, and learn from one another

www.reddit.com

 

[Rpm6969]

r/sugarlifestyleforum

r/sugarlifestyleforum: A forum where SDs and SBs discuss the sugar lifestyle, share experiences, and learn from one another

www.reddit.com

thank you

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

after quickly reading through 50 page + of conversation it sounds like most of the guys here just want the best bang for the buck. The term sugar daddy and sugar baby has really changed throughout the years.

They’re called salt daddies

 

[IMBob]

And a devious SB is called a rinser or scammer

 

[madappl3s]

I came across this thread a week or so ago. I was intrigued mainly by the fact seeing a SB would feel less transactional, so I gave it a go. I'm tall, not devilishly handsome but not bad looking either, and I have a decent career, so I've been getting tons of DMs from the ladies. I will say that I'm weeding out most, and am only interacting with a small handful that are coming across more genuine.

I ended up meeting a girl last week at a hotel, and I was quite happy with the experience.

I tried to meet up with another one, but dodged a bullet when she asked me to etransfer her before buzzing me up to her apartment.

If you meet a woman off seeking and the first meet is in a hotel room then you found an escort who uses seeking lol

 

[Leimonis]

If you meet a woman off seeking and the first meet is in a hotel room then you found an escort who uses seeking lol

Then if a woman is meeting a man off seeking and the first meet is in a hotel room she found a John who uses seeking?

 

[madappl3s]

That’s not the case all the time. SBs know that SD’s priority is having sex. If SD allows good allowances and has no place to host, then SB is agreed to be hosted in a hotel. They know that they will be asked for sex at the end. It doesn’t matter they do sex at the first meeting or later as long as they are agreed on arrangement.

This is common knowledge among all veterans. Go do some research on our Reddit Sugar related sub. 99.9% of the time in this scenario she's an escort, ESPECIALLY in cities where it's legal, aka Toronto

 

[madappl3s]

Then if a woman is meeting a man off seeking and the first meet is in a hotel room she found a John who uses seeking?

Yes, that's the common view among the sugar community. Go check out sugarlifestyleforum on Reddit.

 

[Bobbblitz004]

Guys sugaring is just glorified prostitution let be real here

 

[Leimonis]

This is common knowledge among all veterans. Go do some research on our Reddit Sugar related sub. 99.9% of the time in this scenario she's an escort, ESPECIALLY in cities where it's legal, aka Toronto

I have spent enough time on that subreddit before they banned me for life and now I can only read lol so I am quite aware of it.

My impression was though that that subreddit was heavily influenced by the facts that
1. escorting is NOT legal in the states AND
2. that a lot of their SBs are WOC living in poverty.

So American SBs are really more likely to be escorts (at least in the sense that they are prepared to sleep with whoever seems safe for whatever money seems reasonable) while our SBs are less likely to be escorts because if they were prepared to sleep with anyone they could legitimately become escorts.

 

[Leimonis]

Guys sugaring is just glorified prostitution let be real here

A lot of SBs and SDs would take an issue with that. They like to talk a big game abut how this would be beneath them...until the money would have to change hands lol

 

[shack]

You can consider this is an escorting but I met many girls in this situation in the past. They are not escort but they are willing to do sex at the first meeting. If you provide good amount of money(1k +) and offer them to host in 5 star hotel and they like you, there are girls who are willing to do that, at least in the past. Because you are potentially wealthy man and this is an opportunity for them, they dont wanna miss.

Why would you offer 1,000 to someone you've never met. Especially if you're experienced.

 

[shack]

I agree with you. In fact, this is just prostitution. I believe all SBs are aware of it. They just manipulate themselves to believe this is a dating with a rich guy. They need money , they know SDs want sex, they try to find an excuse to do this.

So if you take a prostitute our for dinner and a movie and then sex it would be the same price as a one hour booking?

My SBs have been "pay per meet" not "pay per hour" the way a prostitute does.

 

[madappl3s]

You can consider this is an escorting but I met many girls in this situation in the past. They are not escort but they are willing to do sex at the first meeting. If you provide good amount of money(1k +) and offer them to host in 5 star hotel and they like you, there are girls who are willing to do that, at least in the past. Because you are potentially wealthy man and this is an opportunity for them, they dont wanna miss.

Preaching to the choir with me, I'm just stating what it's like and how the discussions go in some of the biggest forums regarding that lifestyle. And, what you described is sugar to most people five years ago. Still, all information available to the women draws the line that this is escorting and real sugar-based relationships involve "some" outside dates.

 

[Daddy2021]

You can consider this is an escorting but I met many girls in this situation in the past. They are not escort but they are willing to do sex at the first meeting. If you provide good amount of money(1k +) and offer them to host in 5 star hotel and they like you, there are girls who are willing to do that, at least in the past. Because you are potentially wealthy man and this is an opportunity for them, they dont wanna miss.

it’s like putting lipstick on a pig. Still a pig. So it’s still an escort no matter how much some want to ‘sugar’ coat It.

 

[Daddy2021]

So if you take a prostitute our for dinner and a movie and then sex it would be the same price as a one hour booking?

My SBs have been "pay per meet" not "pay per hour" the way a prostitute does.

Don’t fool yourself lol she’s just a pay per meet prostitute.

 

[Leimonis]

Don’t fool yourself lol she’s just a pay per meet prostitute.

I'd say you are not wrong if you are assessing her morals, but PPM prostitutes don't really exist in western countries.

 

[Daddy2021]

I'd say you are not wrong if you are assessing her morals, but PPM prostitutes don't really exist in western countries.

My point was that if you are paying then she’s a prostitute.

 

[Leimonis]

My point was that if you are paying then she’s a prostitute.

again, I don't entirely disagree, but we are going into semantics now. And there are shades of grey. What if she is a "kept woman" who has had just one or a maybe couple of daddies for the last 5 years?

Bottom line is: labels are less important than substance. And the substance is: what is the most enjoyable way to get our dicks wet? Everyone decides for themselves

 

[Daddy2021]

again, I don't entirely disagree, but we are going into semantics now. And there are shades of grey. What if she is a "kept woman" who has had just one or a maybe couple of daddies for the last 5 years?

Bottom line is: labels are less important than substance. And the substance is: what is the most enjoyable way to get our dicks wet? Everyone decides for themselves

Absolutely but let’s not forget it’s all about giving out the money at the end of it. I had an arrangement about 15 years ago with a rather sweet lady. What I thought was a connection was really a relationship depending on what I could offer financially. So the way I sum it up is, at the end of the day it’s just about the money. If I never provided I had to accept she never would have been ‘interested’. You live and learn.