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Muchadoaboutnothing

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yesterday had a meet and greet at which a seemingly normal looking 25 yo woman advised me that she likes to "take it slow". When I asked "what's slow - an hour or a month or what" she said "a month" and elaborated that 4 dates is not that many. Also claimed that some 60yo guy paid her $300 for platonic dates. Needless to say, I promptly wished her luck and bowed out.

This is why it's best to meet for drinks and not dinner...
Interesting. My friends friend claimed she had this situation and it paid for her law school.
 

Muchadoaboutnothing

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Sounds like my meet with a 30 yr old via WYP yesterday . I had originally messaged her 3 years ago . She didn't want to meet pre CoVid vaccines and with restrictions . At the time , she wanted to wait a month and would it be OK to have sex on the 2nd date . So 2 weeks ago , I contacted her again . We met at a coffee shop. I stupidly agreed to a meet fee ( as per the site rules) I'm no Dr , but by her mannerisms , she is in the autistic spectrum . She placed napkins on the table , then placed her purse on the napkins. She requested that we go for a walk ... in this empty mall . I asked , if she wanted to sit in my car , "No". Would you like me to drop you off , I asked . " No , I live close by." But she asked , if we could go out for dinner on the next date . I messaged after , if she would like a massage, I could start with hands and feet until she felt comfortable . "No , I like to take things slow" .... and she is more reserved than she was 3 years ago . She isn't a looker , but do able . I'll cut my losses .... NEXT
Was the table dirty?
as a male,why didn’t you plan a date activity ? Then you wouldn’t be stuck walking through an empty mall
or was it empty due to the holidays
 

Leimonis

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Interesting. My friends friend claimed she had this situation and it paid for her law school.
or maybe she does not want to admit that she put his old dick in her precious mouth - who knows?
 

Rpm6969

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after quickly reading through 50 page + of conversation it sounds like most of the guys here just want the best bang for the buck. The term sugar daddy and sugar baby has really changed throughout the years.
 

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Sounds like my meet with a 30 yr old via WYP yesterday . I had originally messaged her 3 years ago . She didn't want to meet pre CoVid vaccines and with restrictions . At the time , she wanted to wait a month and would it be OK to have sex on the 2nd date . So 2 weeks ago , I contacted her again . We met at a coffee shop. I stupidly agreed to a meet fee ( as per the site rules) I'm no Dr , but by her mannerisms , she is in the autistic spectrum . She placed napkins on the table , then placed her purse on the napkins. She requested that we go for a walk ... in this empty mall . I asked , if she wanted to sit in my car , "No". Would you like me to drop you off , I asked . " No , I live close by." But she asked , if we could go out for dinner on the next date . I messaged after , if she would like a massage, I could start with hands and feet until she felt comfortable . "No , I like to take things slow" .... and she is more reserved than she was 3 years ago . She isn't a looker , but do able . I'll cut my losses .... NEXT
She’s probably OCD not autistic.
 
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I came across this thread a week or so ago. I was intrigued mainly by the fact seeing a SB would feel less transactional, so I gave it a go. I'm tall, not devilishly handsome but not bad looking either, and I have a decent career, so I've been getting tons of DMs from the ladies. I will say that I'm weeding out most, and am only interacting with a small handful that are coming across more genuine.

I ended up meeting a girl last week at a hotel, and I was quite happy with the experience.

I tried to meet up with another one, but dodged a bullet when she asked me to etransfer her before buzzing me up to her apartment.
 

Leimonis

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after quickly reading through 50 page + of conversation it sounds like most of the guys here just want the best bang for the buck. The term sugar daddy and sugar baby has really changed throughout the years.
Go on sugar daddy forum and see everyone and their dog complaining about Johns and SPs discussing sugar on their forums and how sugar is not what it used to be
 
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Rpm6969

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Go on sugar daddy forum and see everyone and their dog complaining about Johns and SPs discussing sugar on their forums and how sugar is not what it used to be
what forum is that?
thx
 
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madappl3s

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I came across this thread a week or so ago. I was intrigued mainly by the fact seeing a SB would feel less transactional, so I gave it a go. I'm tall, not devilishly handsome but not bad looking either, and I have a decent career, so I've been getting tons of DMs from the ladies. I will say that I'm weeding out most, and am only interacting with a small handful that are coming across more genuine.

I ended up meeting a girl last week at a hotel, and I was quite happy with the experience.

I tried to meet up with another one, but dodged a bullet when she asked me to etransfer her before buzzing me up to her apartment.
If you meet a woman off seeking and the first meet is in a hotel room then you found an escort who uses seeking lol
 

madappl3s

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That’s not the case all the time. SBs know that SD’s priority is having sex. If SD allows good allowances and has no place to host, then SB is agreed to be hosted in a hotel. They know that they will be asked for sex at the end. It doesn’t matter they do sex at the first meeting or later as long as they are agreed on arrangement.
This is common knowledge among all veterans. Go do some research on our Reddit Sugar related sub. 99.9% of the time in this scenario she's an escort, ESPECIALLY in cities where it's legal, aka Toronto
 
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Leimonis

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This is common knowledge among all veterans. Go do some research on our Reddit Sugar related sub. 99.9% of the time in this scenario she's an escort, ESPECIALLY in cities where it's legal, aka Toronto
I have spent enough time on that subreddit before they banned me for life and now I can only read lol so I am quite aware of it.

My impression was though that that subreddit was heavily influenced by the facts that
1. escorting is NOT legal in the states AND
2. that a lot of their SBs are WOC living in poverty.

So American SBs are really more likely to be escorts (at least in the sense that they are prepared to sleep with whoever seems safe for whatever money seems reasonable) while our SBs are less likely to be escorts because if they were prepared to sleep with anyone they could legitimately become escorts.
 
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Leimonis

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Guys sugaring is just glorified prostitution let be real here
A lot of SBs and SDs would take an issue with that. They like to talk a big game abut how this would be beneath them...until the money would have to change hands lol
 
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