I'd say you are not wrong if you are assessing her morals, but PPM prostitutes don't really exist in western countries.
Sugar Dating Experience
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again, I don't entirely disagree, but we are going into semantics now. And there are shades of grey. What if she is a "kept woman" who has had just one or a maybe couple of daddies for the last 5 years?
Bottom line is: labels are less important than substance. And the substance is: what is the most enjoyable way to get our dicks wet? Everyone decides for themselves
Absolutely but let’s not forget it’s all about giving out the money at the end of it. I had an arrangement about 15 years ago with a rather sweet lady. What I thought was a connection was really a relationship depending on what I could offer financially. So the way I sum it up is, at the end of the day it’s just about the money. If I never provided I had to accept she never would have been ‘interested’. You live and learn.
I think it can be more than money in sugar arrangements, much like it can be just money in vanilla relationships.
I am sorry to hear about your situation but let's not be bitter and learn to judge people for what they are.
I had SBs who I stopped fucking for money and they wanted to continue without pay. I had (and have) Sbs who would go to trips with me as long as all expenses were paid and they would not charge me. It's a big world out there.
OK. But that does not mean SB=prostitute.
Banks and loan sharks both charge interest. But a bank is not equal to a loan shark.
I've seen many escorts and I've seen many SBs. I can assure you they are very different.
I don’t think we can generalize and call all SBs escorts. Sure, by definition money exchanges for sex is prostitution, but human beings are way more complex.
What I took away from my first meeting with a SB last week was very different than my years of seeing escorts, including my regulars. I don’t want to disregard the majority view on this topic, but it doesn’t necessarily represent my experience, at least not at this time with this particular SB. Are there SBs on Seeking who are escorts? 100%! I’ve also come to the realization that many are scammers. At the end of the day, it really depends on what you (and only you) view it and what you want out of it.
What I took away from my first meeting with a SB last week was very different than my years of seeing escorts, including my regulars. I don’t want to disregard the majority view on this topic, but it doesn’t necessarily represent my experience, at least not at this time with this particular SB. Are there SBs on Seeking who are escorts? 100%! I’ve also come to the realization that many are scammers. At the end of the day, it really depends on what you (and only you) view it and what you want out of it.
I think it’d be more accurate to say they MAY be different. I had SBs who were better than most SPs and I had SPs who were better than most SBs…
And of course a good number of girls goes from one coast to another and back.
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I understand the ‘relationship’ can vary from seeing an sp but if the money wasn’t there , then would the girl be? That’s my whole take from my experience. I find it less headache and less chance to get drawn into something that could potentially get confusing or hurtful for either to just see an sp. I’m too old for the drawn out build up to first meet and drama. I need to get straight to the point anymore lol
Also a classic point lol
Reminds me a joke about a factory worker who speaks to a woman in a bar and asks her what she does and she says she’s an escort.
-umm so you suck dick for money?
- wait what do you do?
- I work at a conveyor belt for $20/hr
- then it’s YOU who sucks dick. I am an escort!
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Sorting seeking by "recently active" shows less than a handful in January. Do you see more accounts if you upgrade to premium?
No, the only thing premium does on Seeking is allow you to send and read messages. It may also make you more visible on the SB's side but I’m not sure.
It has been mentioned before, and I think it’s true, that there is more SB activity toward the end of the month when rent is closer to being due. It would be interesting to see how activity increases when December’s credit card bills start to arrive.
January and end of spring is usually the peaks but less and less over the past fews years due to the rebrand and lack of advertising to uni or college girls. From my past experiences most of the girls I talked to found out about it from advertising and if they use their college or uni emails they get a free premium membership.
January 20/21 I believe is when the suicidal peaks hit if that’s what you’re trying to reference.
