Sugar Dating Experience

[shack]

You can consider this is an escorting but I met many girls in this situation in the past. They are not escort but they are willing to do sex at the first meeting. If you provide good amount of money(1k +) and offer them to host in 5 star hotel and they like you, there are girls who are willing to do that, at least in the past. Because you are potentially wealthy man and this is an opportunity for them, they dont wanna miss.

Why would you offer 1,000 to someone you've never met. Especially if you're experienced.

 

[shack]

I agree with you. In fact, this is just prostitution. I believe all SBs are aware of it. They just manipulate themselves to believe this is a dating with a rich guy. They need money , they know SDs want sex, they try to find an excuse to do this.

So if you take a prostitute our for dinner and a movie and then sex it would be the same price as a one hour booking?

My SBs have been "pay per meet" not "pay per hour" the way a prostitute does.

 

[madappl3s]

You can consider this is an escorting but I met many girls in this situation in the past. They are not escort but they are willing to do sex at the first meeting. If you provide good amount of money(1k +) and offer them to host in 5 star hotel and they like you, there are girls who are willing to do that, at least in the past. Because you are potentially wealthy man and this is an opportunity for them, they dont wanna miss.

Preaching to the choir with me, I'm just stating what it's like and how the discussions go in some of the biggest forums regarding that lifestyle. And, what you described is sugar to most people five years ago. Still, all information available to the women draws the line that this is escorting and real sugar-based relationships involve "some" outside dates.

 

[Daddy2021]

You can consider this is an escorting but I met many girls in this situation in the past. They are not escort but they are willing to do sex at the first meeting. If you provide good amount of money(1k +) and offer them to host in 5 star hotel and they like you, there are girls who are willing to do that, at least in the past. Because you are potentially wealthy man and this is an opportunity for them, they dont wanna miss.

it’s like putting lipstick on a pig. Still a pig. So it’s still an escort no matter how much some want to ‘sugar’ coat It.

 

[Daddy2021]

So if you take a prostitute our for dinner and a movie and then sex it would be the same price as a one hour booking?

My SBs have been "pay per meet" not "pay per hour" the way a prostitute does.

Don’t fool yourself lol she’s just a pay per meet prostitute.

 

[Leimonis]

Don’t fool yourself lol she’s just a pay per meet prostitute.

I'd say you are not wrong if you are assessing her morals, but PPM prostitutes don't really exist in western countries.

 

[Daddy2021]

I'd say you are not wrong if you are assessing her morals, but PPM prostitutes don't really exist in western countries.

My point was that if you are paying then she’s a prostitute.

 

[Leimonis]

My point was that if you are paying then she’s a prostitute.

again, I don't entirely disagree, but we are going into semantics now. And there are shades of grey. What if she is a "kept woman" who has had just one or a maybe couple of daddies for the last 5 years?

Bottom line is: labels are less important than substance. And the substance is: what is the most enjoyable way to get our dicks wet? Everyone decides for themselves

 

[Daddy2021]

again, I don't entirely disagree, but we are going into semantics now. And there are shades of grey. What if she is a "kept woman" who has had just one or a maybe couple of daddies for the last 5 years?

Bottom line is: labels are less important than substance. And the substance is: what is the most enjoyable way to get our dicks wet? Everyone decides for themselves

Absolutely but let’s not forget it’s all about giving out the money at the end of it. I had an arrangement about 15 years ago with a rather sweet lady. What I thought was a connection was really a relationship depending on what I could offer financially. So the way I sum it up is, at the end of the day it’s just about the money. If I never provided I had to accept she never would have been ‘interested’. You live and learn.

 

[Leimonis]

Absolutely but let’s not forget it’s all about giving out the money at the end of it. I had an arrangement about 15 years ago with a rather sweet lady. What I thought was a connection was really a relationship depending on what I could offer financially. So the way I sum it up is, at the end of the day it’s just about the money. If I never provided I had to accept she never would have been ‘interested’. You live and learn.

I think it can be more than money in sugar arrangements, much like it can be just money in vanilla relationships.
I am sorry to hear about your situation but let's not be bitter and learn to judge people for what they are.
I had SBs who I stopped fucking for money and they wanted to continue without pay. I had (and have) Sbs who would go to trips with me as long as all expenses were paid and they would not charge me. It's a big world out there.

 

[Daddy2021]

I think it can be more than money in sugar arrangements, much like it can be just money in vanilla relationships.
I am sorry to hear about your situation but let's not be bitter and learn to judge people for what they are.
I had SBs who I stopped fucking for money and they wanted to continue without pay. I had (and have) Sbs who would go to trips with me as long as all expenses were paid and they would not charge me. It's a big world out there.

very true

 

[shack]

My point was exchanging money with sex. It doesn’t matter how long. It comes to buying sex with money at the end.

OK. But that does not mean SB=prostitute.

Banks and loan sharks both charge interest. But a bank is not equal to a loan shark.

 

[Daddy2021]

OK. But that does not mean SB=prostitute.

Banks and loan sharks both charge interest. But a bank is not equal to a loan shark.

They both fuck you for money

 

[shack]

Don’t fool yourself lol she’s just a pay per meet prostitute.

I've seen many escorts and I've seen many SBs. I can assure you they are very different.

 

[diesel787]

I don’t think we can generalize and call all SBs escorts. Sure, by definition money exchanges for sex is prostitution, but human beings are way more complex.

What I took away from my first meeting with a SB last week was very different than my years of seeing escorts, including my regulars. I don’t want to disregard the majority view on this topic, but it doesn’t necessarily represent my experience, at least not at this time with this particular SB. Are there SBs on Seeking who are escorts? 100%! I’ve also come to the realization that many are scammers. At the end of the day, it really depends on what you (and only you) view it and what you want out of it.

 

[Leimonis]

I've seen many escorts and I've seen many SBs. I can assure you they are very different.

I think it’d be more accurate to say they MAY be different. I had SBs who were better than most SPs and I had SPs who were better than most SBs…
And of course a good number of girls goes from one coast to another and back.

 

[Daddy2021]

I think it’d be more accurate to say they MAY be different. I had SBs who were better than most SPs and I had SPs who were better than most SBs…
And of course a good number of girls goes from one coast to another and back.

I understand the ‘relationship’ can vary from seeing an sp but if the money wasn’t there , then would the girl be? That’s my whole take from my experience. I find it less headache and less chance to get drawn into something that could potentially get confusing or hurtful for either to just see an sp. I’m too old for the drawn out build up to first meet and drama. I need to get straight to the point anymore lol

 

[Leimonis]

I understand the ‘relationship’ can vary from seeing an sp but if the money wasn’t there , then would the girl be?

then again, if the money wasn't there where would our wives and children be?

 

[Daddy2021]

then again, if the money wasn't there where would our wives and children be?

Ahhh that my friend is a question for the ages. Best had over scotch.

 

[bummy41]

I'm a prostitute to my job... lol