Sugar Dating Experience

[Leimonis]

I'm a prostitute to my job... lol

Also a classic point lol
Reminds me a joke about a factory worker who speaks to a woman in a bar and asks her what she does and she says she’s an escort.
-umm so you suck dick for money?
- wait what do you do?
- I work at a conveyor belt for $20/hr
- then it’s YOU who sucks dick. I am an escort!

 

[AsianBee]

Sorting seeking by "recently active" shows less than a handful in January. Do you see more accounts if you upgrade to premium?

 

[GeeBee]

Sorting seeking by "recently active" shows less than a handful in January. Do you see more accounts if you upgrade to premium?

No, the only thing premium does on Seeking is allow you to send and read messages. It may also make you more visible on the SB's side but I’m not sure.

It has been mentioned before, and I think it’s true, that there is more SB activity toward the end of the month when rent is closer to being due. It would be interesting to see how activity increases when December’s credit card bills start to arrive.

 

[daddy88]

January and end of spring is usually the peaks but less and less over the past fews years due to the rebrand and lack of advertising to uni or college girls. From my past experiences most of the girls I talked to found out about it from advertising and if they use their college or uni emails they get a free premium membership.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

No, the only thing premium does on Seeking is allow you to send and read messages. It may also make you more visible on the SB's side but I’m not sure.

It has been mentioned before, and I think it’s true, that there is more SB activity toward the end of the month when rent is closer to being due. It would be interesting to see how activity increases when December’s credit card bills start to arrive.

January 20/21 I believe is when the suicidal peaks hit if that’s what you’re trying to reference.

 

[rocco_s]

I have been noticing the quality has been going down. Some girls who ask 500 are women you would never ever consider paying sex for.

I think there are other platforms for them to earn money such as onlyfans or being an influencer. I never really understood onlyfans as I masterbate to my own pov porn.

 

[Leimonis]

I have been noticing the quality has been going down. Some girls who ask 500 are women you would never ever consider paying sex for.

if you would never consider paying them for sex, how do you know how much they ask for?

 

[Billyk]

then again, if the money wasn't there where would our wives and children be?

Nobody Fucks For Free. Wives, Girlfriends, SP, SBs…

 

[rocco_s]

if you would never consider paying them for sex, how do you know how much they ask for?

Sorry. I didn't want to be mean. To be clear some of the girls would have to pay me for sex. The quality isn't great nowadays.

 

[Leimonis]

Sorry. I didn't want to be mean. To be clear some of the girls would have to pay me for sex. The quality isn't great nowadays.

Yep. Good times are gone until I think the next cycle. It seems that a few years ago it was cool to be a hoe and now it’s cool to have low body count. I hope I’m wrong.

 

[JOHNNIE]

From my experience first meetings are always in a public place like a coffee shop or a mall. I have never really had any time limit when I meet up with sb's since your usually just paying per meet up. At the first meet you get to discuss all of your expectations and what both sides are looking for in the arrangement. Intimacy is generally assumed but it's good to make it clear to the girl that's what your looking for. Most of the sb's will be ok with it anyways. Don't expect intimacy on the first date unless the sb your seeing is an escort lol. By the 2nd or 3rd date the sb is usually horned up enough to want sex. With an sb the more you pamper and spoil them the more inclined they are going to be to fuck.

In that first meeting. Is there a fee paid to the SB. If so what is the average fee?

 

[Leimonis]

In that first meeting. Is there a fee paid to the SB. If so what is the average fee?

do not agree to pay anything as a condition of the platonic meet n greet as there are too many fee collectors who never want any intimacy

if you come to meet a girl you may give her something if you feel like it. Last time I saw a girl who was cool but just NMCOT physically I gave her a $50 to comp her travel as it was not really her fault that I did not like her. A $100 would have been more generous but I just couldn't bring myself to pay a $100 for nothing.
As far as I am concerned my time is worth no less than their time so I never buy all this BS about how they need to be comped for a platonic meet. I do not see any value in buying food and drinks for a woman who doesn't want to fuck me. But some people do.

 

[lomotil]

Nobody Fucks For Free. Wives, Girlfriends, SP, SBs…

Not so I have encountered women who “ fuck for free”. These are women who do not need your money and are perhaps self made or from wealthy families, or have an underwriting cuckhold husband, boyfriend or are even “ cheating” on their sugar daddy..
These women may “ fuck for free” for reasons of intimacy, pleasure, loneliness, revenge or just for the company of a guy who they perceive just simply listens. to and respect them.

On the flip side, the money paid to sex workers in part is to guarantee that they will go away right after sex.

 

[wlkf1]

AM was all bots and SPs years ago (~2015). Then they got outed for paying people to engage with members.

This is what secret benefits site does.
When it's not a bot profile messaging to drain your credits, it's someone who will chat w. you
and give you their local phone number, they'll string you along and the chats will end
after you ask to talk instead of sms or if you try to set up a meet-and-greet in person.

 

[jesse_b]

We are not saying SB is same as SP. Of course they are different. But what they do is same which is having sex with a guy for money. Whatever you do with SB, we all know their expectation is only money at the end. In return, they sleep with you. They all know you expect sex.
Money can be defined as a cash, travel expenses or school tuition or anything else she can get from you. If you don’t provide any of these, the arrangement will be over.

Well said. I tend to agree with you. It depends on the girl though how she selects the 'daddy'. Even though it's monetary mostly, it's hard to get along with someone for longer date if there's no connection. In my view, the age does not matter. It's the connection and temptation to be with him. it's the anticipation to see him.. My 2 cents.

 

[lomotil]

Well said. I tend to agree with you. It depends on the girl though how she selects the 'daddy'. Even though it's monetary mostly, it's hard to get along with someone for longer date if there's no connection. In my view, the age does not matter. It's the connection and temptation to be with him. it's the anticipation to see him.. My 2 cents.

I think an enterprising “SB” / “2024 modern day courtesan “ would learn how to fake or create the “ connection “ if it doesn’t come naturally to remain competitive.

 

[jesse_b]

I think an enterprising “SB” / “2024 modern day courtesan “ would learn how to fake or create the “ connection “ if it doesn’t come naturally to remain competitive.

True. It's about creating the illusion of passion on certain degree. However, it's impossible with certain gents and you could somewhat tell it's a forced effort known as "service-oriented" which is fine for most since there is a basic expectation. I don't see this would last in a sugar affair. Again, my 2 cents.

 

[rocco_s]

I am getting 500 for above average girls for overnights. But they are super hot messes. Not sure if the drama is worth the stress.

 

[Leimonis]

I am getting 500 for above average girls for overnights. But they are super hot messes. Not sure if the drama is worth the stress.

lol yeah my thoughts always are: if she’s not a straight up coke fiend and if she doesn’t have a plastic water bottle filled with vodka in her purse then it’s too good to be true and she is probably gonna kill me in my sleep…

 

[avocat]

The escort "babe do you want to extend your time" is so irritating! The Sugar Babies advantage is it is "pay per meet", not "pay per hour". Showing up at the escort's place and getting right to the sex is cool, and fun. But now that I have experienced a few meets with SB's, where we can have a drink first at a place close by, then bang away is so much more enjoyable, at least since I've hit it off with the SBs. The way I know they are more sugar baby than ho, is I ask to meet the SB first to just meet for a drink or coffee or something. I tell them if it works out and we vibe, then we can go to the next step. A few who are just straight up ho's or just want to get the deed done reply "you saw my photos you can pay me to meet or pay me to be intimate".