Sugar Dating Experience

shack

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The subway doesn’t go to Mississauga unless you mean Kipling. That’s Etobicoke.
otherwise it’s a gotrain.
How far do they live from the gotrain. Do they have to bus. Or Uber there. Then why not offer to get their Uber to you since itll get her to you faster and with less stress.
I was using Mississauga as an example of a place I wouldn't drive to. It's usually SBs with cars that make Mississauga viable.

Many SBs live downtown so the subway option comes up quite often.
 
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Leimonis

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Honestly I blame SA's whole brand change and the fact that they no longer advertise on universities. You'd think in this economy you'd find more college and uni girls but the lack of advertising which leads to word of mouth, it's sadly gone down a bit based on the old demographics.
a lot of ppl say that but I fear it's something else, like a culture shift.

A few years ago being a slut/hoe seemed popular as a manifestation of female empowerment etc. Sugaring was so amazing that I went for months if not years without hiring an escort.
But now it seems like sluttiness become less popular :( either because of all the tiktok incel whining about womens high body count equal less value or who knows what else.

I really hope I am wrong about it.
 

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“It’s the economy stupid”, which has been the case since the caveman until present with different euphemism for the world’s oldest profession.
 

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My last true sugar relationship ended about 18 months ago. I was seeing a few girls episodically and discretely since then, but in the past number of months their circumstance has changed and our relationship has ended.

My experience at the sugar bowl since has never been worse.

It’s rare to meet anyone who doesn’t have unreasonable or unrealistic $$$ expectations.

The scams have become more sophisticated and prevalent.

Some connections I have made, make it clear that $$$ is expected on the first meet. I regard this tactic as a pseudo scam. There is never any intent on her part to ever go beyond first meet.

SA used to be a way to meet and connect in mutually beneficial relationships.

It seems to have sunk to “get what I can from this punter” and its just not getting better.
 
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Leimonis

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Some connections I have made, make it clear that $$$ is expected on the first meet. I regard this tactic as a pseudo scam. There is never any intent on her part to ever go beyond first meet.
Do you mean $$ for a meet and greet in a public place or that they want to consummate on the first date?
 

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Do you mean $$ for a meet and greet in a public place or that they want to consummate on the first date?
Too frequently girls want meet and greets in a public place for $$$. A few want to meet and consummate right away when I balk at meet and greet for $$$
 

Leimonis

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Too frequently girls want meet and greets in a public place for $$$. A few want to meet and consummate right away when I balk at meet and greet for $$$
lol I honestly cannot speak of the intentions of the girls who want money for meet and greet because I have never agreed to it. I block immediately for that.
 

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After reading page 53 of this thread it seems that women are moving on to a different platform.
Also women are becoming more like panhandlers receiving money for a service/product that isn't there like a scammer or con artist.

I remember my first scam and never fell for one ever again. Good 20.00 spent on a hard lesson.

Scammer lines...
1. Can I have some money
2. I will be right back forgot something in the car or outside (while money on hand)
3. Send me the money first and I will be there.
4, If you want to see me pay me first.?????
 
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I’m curious how much of extra expenses on top of ppm do people tolerate?
I must admit that when I’m asked to Uber a new potential and her Uber costs are $50 each way I’m getting annoyed as fuck
if that irritates you then perhaps you are in the wrong hobby. Name of the game is money with either sp or sb. If you are not willing to Spend then stay off the sites. A lot of you guys from what I gather expect shit to be free when you are on a sugar dating website! It’s about having money to spend and spending it. Why else would the ladies be on the site? By you being in the site looking you have already made in informal agreement that you are willing to pay.
 

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I’m confused. 😐 what exactly is cringe about it?
because they're making you pay just to meet and greet them? just to meet a girl you have to pay her just to meet you? cringe.

and then basically you have to pay for every time you meet and every minute you spend with her after that as well.

and when they're so excited to meet you only because they're only so excited to get your wallet.

watch what happens the minute the money stops flowing.

cringe.
 

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4 years ago it was very rare to get asked to be ubered. It was a huge red flag.
 

Leimonis

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because they're making you pay just to meet and greet them? just to meet a girl you have to pay her just to meet you? cringe.

and then basically you have to pay for every time you meet and every minute you spend with her after that as well.

and when they're so excited to meet you only because they're only so excited to get your wallet.

watch what happens the minute the money stops flowing.

cringe.
meanwhile I just finished 8 hr full PSE sex marathon for the price that was less than two hours with a good agency.would cost. Tell me more about how I’m overpaying.
 
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Leimonis

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We already mentioned why cost is higher with SBs.

You are just making a story. You can only watch porn movies for 8 hrs PSE sex. Men who are having real sex know very well that 8 hr full PSE are unrealistic for a man.

Don’t consider SBs will be your sex toy and will be serving you for 8 hours.
8 hours with some breaks :) obviously we were high too.
I double checked the time lol
 
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I find that patience is a virtue. My previous sugar arrangement - which was fabulous - ended in September. After that, it was a bit hit and miss. Several evenings with young women who were just so-so.
However, recently I hit the jackpot. A stunning 22-year-old blonde student who is smart and fun. I will be seeing her exclusively, hopefully for a long time.
 

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I find that patience is a virtue. My previous sugar arrangement - which was fabulous - ended in September. After that, it was a bit hit and miss. Several evenings with young women who were just so-so.
However, recently I hit the jackpot. A stunning 22-year-old blonde student who is smart and fun. I will be seeing her exclusively, hopefully for a long time.
Can i ask why the relationship ended? How much were you giving her?
 
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