Sugar Dating Experience

[brian4hartley]

50 pages! I have only read the first two pages, will get to the rest of it as I have more time. But I wanted to ask, so I used to live in Toronto and have experience with the SP scene in Toronto and MTL, but I now reside in USA, the North East, one of the bigger cities. Does anybody know what the etiquette is in USA in terms of how much it costs? I know SP rates are through the roof and then there’s also the legal aspect which makes it a nonstarter for me. Any pointers would be appreciated, sites, apps, etc.
Feel free to DM as well.

You could just go on SA and then tell us all about it here! Last time I was in the US I messaged this girl on WYP for her rate and she wanted 500. That's USD. Ouch. I added it to my shopping tab and blew the money at the mall. Told her as much. Pretty sure due to the higher population in the USA, that we should be getting more 300s and 400s there, but what do I know...

 

[rocco_s]

Have any of you noticed a decline in sa talent? Been getting some gnd types.

 

[xix]

50 pages! I have only read the first two pages, will get to the rest of it as I have more time. But I wanted to ask, so I used to live in Toronto and have experience with the SP scene in Toronto and MTL, but I now reside in USA, the North East, one of the bigger cities. Does anybody know what the etiquette is in USA in terms of how much it costs? I know SP rates are through the roof and then there’s also the legal aspect which makes it a nonstarter for me. Any pointers would be appreciated, sites, apps, etc.
Feel free to DM as well.

What are you willing to pay?
SB can you choose a price and so can you.
But what if you learn PUA moves and go with that.

 

[dchoye]

One thing I find that I had to learn is to negotiate pricing. With escort/agency the price is fixed. With SA Going to find there’s wide range of ppm but you don’t have to paid what they are asking. Just make a bid and wait. It’s almost like buying a car.

 

[daddy88]

Have any of you noticed a decline in sa talent? Been getting some gnd types.

Honestly pre-covid SA was my peak, it's discouraging and tough right now despite what some people may say. I get quite a few numbers mostly mostly shitty texters or flakers.

 

[Jami77]

Anyone ever try the other sites that arent SA type sites? Like Ashley Maddison? Or those apps that are supposed to be anonymous and get you laid the same night?

 

[IMBob]

AM was all bots and SPs years ago (~2015). Then they got outed for paying people to engage with members.

I'm an idiot . I have met a few ladies years ago . I fall for the pop up promo $10 for 50 credits. 9 credits to send a message. .... smh .... Just a rip off site .

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

Anyone ever try the other sites that arent SA type sites? Like Ashley Maddison? Or those apps that are supposed to be anonymous and get you laid the same night?

Yes and it was free in terms of didn’t pay the people for our encounter but the shame of hooking up In a car in a mall
Parking lot is something you can’t forget. Especially when it’s on so many occasions. The added stress of people potentially seeing you/ paranoia. Or even meeting in a holiday inn midday. Truly Sad.

 

[Jami77]

Yes and it was free in terms of didn’t pay the people for our encounter but the shame of hooking up In a car in a mall
Parking lot is something you can’t forget. Especially when it’s on so many occasions. The added stress of people potentially seeing you/ paranoia. Or even meeting in a holiday inn midday. Truly Sad.

When your options for sex are limited or dull, sex in a parking lot or holiday inn sounds like fun to me.

 

[lomotil]

AM was all bots and SPs years ago (~2015). Then they got outed for paying people to engage with members.

They had a lot of real customers, their files got hacked, names, addresses and credit card information posted online even and some clients committed suicide including two peace officers ( cops) in Toronto. Most of their customers base was in America.
There were bots but also babes.
I remember watching the Toronto news one day with an American lady in the room sand she was astonished that AM was headquarter right here in Toronto at Yonge and Eglinton as she frantically searched online for the hacked client list for her husband’s name.

 

[Leimonis]

I'm almost 50 and they've ranged in age from 20 to 50 with the 50 year old as well as a couple of others not even wanting any money, just a fun time.

Hmm I’ve always suspected it. I think I have one in mind right now

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

When your options for sex are limited or dull, sex in a parking lot or holiday inn sounds like fun to me.

Well good luck out there. Be safe. Always get tested.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

They had a lot of real customers, their files got hacked, names, addresses and credit card information posted online even and some clients committed suicide including two peace officers ( cops) in Toronto. Most of their customers base was in America.
There were bots but also babes.
I remember watching the Toronto news one day with an American lady in the room sand she was astonished that AM was headquarter right here in Toronto at Yonge and Lawrence as she frantically searched online for the hacked client list for her husband’s name.

It’s still at Yonge and Eglinton. Very discreet amongst the construction.

 

[earbiter]

@FunInToronto2023, a sincere thank you for raising this. Mostly out of curiosity, I signed up for SA a few days ago after coming across this thread, and very unexpectedly, have had some wonderful interactions since, including my first introductory meetup with an absolute sweetheart. A few more are in the scheduling stage. I think it's also helping my cause, to ignore (most of) the many hot (all kinds of hot) under-25s

 

[Leimonis]

@FunInToronto2023, a sincere thank you for raising this. Mostly out of curiosity, I signed up for SA a few days ago after coming across this thread, and very unexpectedly, have had some wonderful interactions since, including my first introductory meetup with an absolute sweetheart. A few more are in the scheduling stage. I think it's also helping my cause, to ignore (most of) the many hot (all kinds of hot) under-25s

this resonates so much! I also was introduced to Sa via TERB about 10 years ago. Someone wrote that "one would have to be crazy not to be on SA if one is hobbying". I immediately signed up and been on and off ever since.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

@FunInToronto2023, a sincere thank you for raising this. Mostly out of curiosity, I signed up for SA a few days ago after coming across this thread, and very unexpectedly, have had some wonderful interactions since, including my first introductory meetup with an absolute sweetheart. A few more are in the scheduling stage. I think it's also helping my cause, to ignore (most of) the many hot (all kinds of hot) under-25s

IKR it’s great and also addictive! Hope it works out for you I’ve found it more difficult to stop than the hobby with SPs, there’s so many really innocent, sweet girls that need a helping hand and are into basically dating a slightly older guy for some funds and hooking up.

 

[Hipjdog]

...and if you've seen some SP's over the last few years in Toronto you'll likely come across a few familiar faces on SA.

 

[taya6ix]

The whole sugarbaby dating experience for me is not for me.... I only have the attention span of one hour maybe two

 

[Goodoer]

The whole sugarbaby dating experience for me is not for me.... I only have the attention span of one hour maybe two

This is the same for guys... It is why seeing SPs works so well. Zero complications and lots of convenience with a chick who's a pro at sex.

 

[shack]

There are other things why you should avoid SBs

1. Almost all SBs have mental issues, struggling in life. Their mood is up/down. You think they are ok, but they can be totally different person when you meet them. You may have to deal with their personal issues over the time even they agreed on no drama.

2. They may not be same as they talk or they seem. Poor sex is high possibility. They might look like sexy, horny and slut but they can be cold fish on the bed.

3. So many SBs are playing game and try to get money without intimacy. They ask high allowance, even you accept it, they can share their phone with you but they are still not willing to have sex with you. They will ask money upfront or give some excuses with many stories but they will try to keep you in the loop to get money.

4. If you host SB in the hotel, they might see your real name on TV screen in the room. Your privacy is under risk.

Why you should stick with SPs:

1. No drama
2. No game
3. No wasting time.
4. No risk for your own privacy.
5. You are able to choose based on reviews and services.
6. Less cost.
7. You are sure what you will get when you meet them.

It sounds like you are not very experienced.