Honestly pre-covid SA was my peak, it's discouraging and tough right now despite what some people may say. I get quite a few numbers mostly mostly shitty texters or flakers.
Sugar Dating Experience
- Thread starter FunInToronto2023
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Anyone ever try the other sites that arent SA type sites? Like Ashley Maddison? Or those apps that are supposed to be anonymous and get you laid the same night?
I'm an idiot . I have met a few ladies years ago . I fall for the pop up promo $10 for 50 credits. 9 credits to send a message. .... smh .... Just a rip off site .
Yes and it was free in terms of didn’t pay the people for our encounter but the shame of hooking up In a car in a mall
Parking lot is something you can’t forget. Especially when it’s on so many occasions. The added stress of people potentially seeing you/ paranoia. Or even meeting in a holiday inn midday. Truly Sad.
When your options for sex are limited or dull, sex in a parking lot or holiday inn sounds like fun to me.
They had a lot of real customers, their files got hacked, names, addresses and credit card information posted online even and some clients committed suicide including two peace officers ( cops) in Toronto. Most of their customers base was in America.
There were bots but also babes.
I remember watching the Toronto news one day with an American lady in the room sand she was astonished that AM was headquarter right here in Toronto at Yonge and Eglinton as she frantically searched online for the hacked client list for her husband’s name.
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Hmm I’ve always suspected it. I think I have one in mind right now
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@FunInToronto2023, a sincere thank you for raising this. Mostly out of curiosity, I signed up for SA a few days ago after coming across this thread, and very unexpectedly, have had some wonderful interactions since, including my first introductory meetup with an absolute sweetheart. A few more are in the scheduling stage. I think it's also helping my cause, to ignore (most of) the many hot (all kinds of hot) under-25s 
this resonates so much! I also was introduced to Sa via TERB about 10 years ago. Someone wrote that "one would have to be crazy not to be on SA if one is hobbying". I immediately signed up and been on and off ever since.@FunInToronto2023, a sincere thank you for raising this. Mostly out of curiosity, I signed up for SA a few days ago after coming across this thread, and very unexpectedly, have had some wonderful interactions since, including my first introductory meetup with an absolute sweetheart. A few more are in the scheduling stage. I think it's also helping my cause, to ignore (most of) the many hot (all kinds of hot) under-25s
IKR it’s great and also addictive! Hope it works out for you@FunInToronto2023, a sincere thank you for raising this. Mostly out of curiosity, I signed up for SA a few days ago after coming across this thread, and very unexpectedly, have had some wonderful interactions since, including my first introductory meetup with an absolute sweetheart. A few more are in the scheduling stage. I think it's also helping my cause, to ignore (most of) the many hot (all kinds of hot) under-25s
I’ve found it more difficult to stop than the hobby with SPs, there’s so many really innocent, sweet girls that need a helping hand and are into basically dating a slightly older guy for some funds and hooking up....and if you've seen some SP's over the last few years in Toronto you'll likely come across a few familiar faces on SA.
The whole sugarbaby dating experience for me is not for me.... I only have the attention span of one hour maybe two
This is the same for guys... It is why seeing SPs works so well. Zero complications and lots of convenience with a chick who's a pro at sex.
It sounds like you are not very experienced.
So you're experienced in bad experiences.
I can't say that I haven't had some bad experiences as well, but there's been lots of good ones too.
I get the impression that you're doing a lot of generalizing. Different people are looking for different things.
Thank you for sharing your experience in the SB world and the SP world with all of us. I have my own mental issues in life, dealing with addictions (sex and I'm probably a self-diagnosed high functioning alcoholic). In my experience I've come across the odd SB and SP with easy to spot mental issues. Couple of experiences of sex that was underwhelming but found it a lot more exciting than underwhelming sex with a SP, which there is maybe even a higher chance of having unless a girl is really well reviewed. Privacy under risk - most SB's are as worried about a psycho guy knowing their true identity so through conversation and being on the same level as them, you carefully end up divulging who you are. For me that's been part of my experience and for the girl, keeping in mind she's not a SP, it makes her feel safe. Just because we have money to spend on someone who isn't a SP, think of it as basically dating and it's a part of being kind and upfront. I totally get maybe having a pseudonym when conversing at first but in the real world when we date, we would say our real name. And no guy is more special, no matter how much he thinks he is, than the girl and I'm sure there are super weird guys out there that would totally stalk a girl and feel they're better than them because they're providing funds or an allowance. I've been with many SBs and there has been no drama, no games, no time wasting and would say that if I can overnight for 200-300 or have them come to my hotel for 4 hours then the cost experience is so much more like a regular date (yes get room service and buy wine and all that but I'd be doing it regardless). For your last point, even though you can see a well reviewed SP on here (as most of us have), you never truly are sure what you will get when you meet them. I've had sparks fly with SPs and SBs because we're a fit - and also had sparks fail to fly with both because for a variety of reasons we may not be a fit.
Absolutely have had that in the SB world and also on the SP side as well. And on several occasions over the years. So many times hanging out and you have some fun but at the same time you think, "yeah this might not be the best situation I can't wait to either finish or get out." On both sides this has happened to me when they've gone somewhere and unknowingly have party favours.
