Yes, that’s always been my concern. However I’ve never had any issues when I’ve parted ways with an SB, but I want to keep it that wayThanks, not paranoid at all, better be safe than sorry. I'm worried about some SB might blackmail you for more $$ if things turn sour?! I get the sense in the SB world, probably cost more to hobby than with SPs? Not to mention the amount of time filtering out the right one.
As you’ll see in many other posts on this thread (If you have a week to wade through them all) the SB world isn’t really about saving money. Although I’ve had some great sex with SB’s that was on par with the best SP’s for far less $$, the leg work and effort is much higher. There is a “thrill of the chase” factor for me in pursuing SB's, but if you just want to get laid by a hot girl SP’s are definitely the way to go.