Sugar Dating Experience

[rgrcht]

Seeking has so few new girls singing up. Tried SecretBenefits but it seems geared towards making you spend $$ into oblivion as everything is behind a paywall and costs “credits”. Want to send a photo? That’s 10 credits.

where are you guys finding sugar babies?

I had a GREAT experience with Seeking up until last year. Then had a long term girl, we broke up last month. Since then, I am yet to even find someone worthy of taking on a coffee date

 

[xix]

Anyone date a SB that was hobosexual?
I have one that stays over way too long at my place and wants to do overnights at my place and tells she moving out at the end of the month but hasn’t found a new place yet !

I be more concern with squatter rights or tenant rights since the payment is sex or "barter".

https://moneywise.com/news/kentucky-homeowner-let-his-friends-stay-in-his-garage-then-they-claimed-squatters-rights

 

[shack]

I shouldn't jinx myself but I've been on a hot streak lately. In the last month I've found and met 1 19 y.o. black girl (Humber student) who's cute and smart and is much less innocent than she looks. We hang out for 6-8 hours, fuck, watch movies (she cried at the end of Cuckoo's Nest) and then go for round 2 before I take her back to her mom's house. She says she has an 18 y.o. friend who wants to join us.

The second girl is also black and 20. Smoking body and dresses to show it off. Student at York. While messaging on the site, one of the first things she asked me is if I'm dominant. She likes to be physically abused and verbally degraded. We've had two dates so far and she's slept over both times. I've slapped her and choked her and called her lots of names. She wants to continue because she "likes the way I treat her". She's out of my league in the looks and age departments, yet she wants me, an older dad-bod guy to control her sexually. She wants to "be my toy". I'm going to see if she'll let me totally control the relationship and she'll be subservient to me. Nothing forceful, of course. I'll ask if she thinks that would be appealing to her. Fingers crossed. It sounds like fun.

The max I'll pay is $400 for anyone and they are both within my budget.

And just this morning, I'm chatting on the site with two more black seriously pretty cuties (I haven't been with a white girl for a couple of years). One is 22 and the other is 19. They both have very sweet bodies, petite and slim athletic. The 22 y.o. is only looking for hookups and said her price is $200. I'm hot for her so I offered $250 for 3 hours confirming there will be sex and she just asked for my address. I'm working on the 19 y.o. who's never been with an older guy convincing her about how older guys know how to treat girls her age much better than the younger ones.

They're either going to kill me or bankrupt me. That's potentially 5 girls.

(I hope I haven't just jinxed myself.)

 

[rgrcht]

I shouldn't jinx myself but I've been on a hot streak lately. In the last month I've found and met 1 19 y.o. black girl (Humber student) who's cute and smart and is much less innocent than she looks. We hang out for 6-8 hours, fuck, watch movies (she cried at the end of Cuckoo's Nest) and then go for round 2 before I take her back to her mom's house. She says she has an 18 y.o. friend who wants to join us.

The second girl is also black and 20. Smoking body and dresses to show it off. Student at York. While messaging on the site, one of the first things she asked me is if I'm dominant. She likes to be physically abused and verbally degraded. We've had two dates so far and she's slept over both times. I've slapped her and choked her and called her lots of names. She wants to continue because she "likes the way I treat her". She's out of my league in the looks and age departments, yet she wants me, an older dad-bod guy to control her sexually. She wants to "be my toy". I'm going to see if she'll let me totally control the relationship and she'll be subservient to me. Nothing forceful, of course. I'll ask if she thinks that would be appealing to her. Fingers crossed. It sounds like fun.

The max I'll pay is $400 for anyone and they are both within my budget.

And just this morning, I'm chatting on the site with two more black seriously pretty cuties (I haven't been with a white girl for a couple of years). One is 22 and the other is 19. They both have very sweet bodies, petite and slim athletic. The 22 y.o. is only looking for hookups and said her price is $200. I'm hot for her so I offered $250 for 3 hours confirming there will be sex and she just asked for my address. I'm working on the 19 y.o. who's never been with an older guy convincing her about how older guys know how to treat girls her age much better than the younger ones.

They're either going to kill me or bankrupt me. That's potentially 5 girls.

(I hope I haven't just jinxed myself.)

hoping I don’t jinx it further, but would you mind sharing what sugaring site are you using?

 

[shack]

hoping I don’t jinx it further, but would you mind sharing what sugaring site are you using?

SDM

 

[Hipjdog]

I shouldn't jinx myself but I've been on a hot streak lately. In the last month I've found and met 1 19 y.o. black girl (Humber student) who's cute and smart and is much less innocent than she looks. We hang out for 6-8 hours, fuck, watch movies (she cried at the end of Cuckoo's Nest) and then go for round 2 before I take her back to her mom's house. She says she has an 18 y.o. friend who wants to join us.

The second girl is also black and 20. Smoking body and dresses to show it off. Student at York. While messaging on the site, one of the first things she asked me is if I'm dominant. She likes to be physically abused and verbally degraded. We've had two dates so far and she's slept over both times. I've slapped her and choked her and called her lots of names. She wants to continue because she "likes the way I treat her". She's out of my league in the looks and age departments, yet she wants me, an older dad-bod guy to control her sexually. She wants to "be my toy". I'm going to see if she'll let me totally control the relationship and she'll be subservient to me. Nothing forceful, of course. I'll ask if she thinks that would be appealing to her. Fingers crossed. It sounds like fun.

The max I'll pay is $400 for anyone and they are both within my budget.

And just this morning, I'm chatting on the site with two more black seriously pretty cuties (I haven't been with a white girl for a couple of years). One is 22 and the other is 19. They both have very sweet bodies, petite and slim athletic. The 22 y.o. is only looking for hookups and said her price is $200. I'm hot for her so I offered $250 for 3 hours confirming there will be sex and she just asked for my address. I'm working on the 19 y.o. who's never been with an older guy convincing her about how older guys know how to treat girls her age much better than the younger ones.

They're either going to kill me or bankrupt me. That's potentially 5 girls.

(I hope I haven't just jinxed myself.)

Sometimes the younger girls ask for $200 not knowing they could get $800. That’s always great.

 

[Alloy123]

SDM

Whats SDM? I mean the full form ?

 

[Hipjdog]

Whats SDM? I mean the full form ?

Sugar Daddy Meet

 

[shack]

Sometimes the younger girls ask for $200 not knowing they could get $800. That’s always great.

That's why I am rarely the 1st one to quote a number. If they persist, I say "When you get your hair or nails done, do they ask you how much you're willing to pay or do they tell you their prices. The same thing with a lawyer, he quotes you his hourly rate, not ask how much you can afford?" That's just the way our society works. The seller states his price and we decide if we want to accept it or not. Do not make the initial offer. This will keep prices and the ladies' expectations lower.

TBH, I prefer discussing it in person. How do we know how much we're willing to give them when we haven't even met them or know if there's any chemistry both sexually and personality wise. As well, talking about money via texting is fraught with the possibility of miscommunication. That is just the nature of texting no matter what the topic.

Actually, with the two girls I'm seeing now, we didn't talk about money until the end of the date and after fucking.

 

[waxtrax]

That's why I am rarely the 1st one to quote a number. If they persist, I say "When you get your hair or nails done, do they ask you how much you're willing to pay or do they tell you their prices. The same thing with a lawyer, he quotes you his hourly rate, not ask how much you can afford?" That's just the way our society works. The seller states his price and we decide if we want to accept it or not. Do not make the initial offer. This will keep prices and the ladies' expectations lower.

TBH, I prefer discussing it in person. How do we know how much we're willing to give them when we haven't even met them or know if there's any chemistry both sexually and personality wise. As well, talking about money via texting is fraught with the possibility of miscommunication. That is just the nature of texting no matter what the topic.

Actually, with the two girls I'm seeing now, we didn't talk about money until the end of the date and after fucking.

I'm in process discussing with this one girl from online text. I'm quite new to this and she's the only one we managed to have several chats so far. Did I make a mistake by asking her how much before seeing her? She quoted $500. I like it bit lower but not sure how I approach this without turning her off.

 

[Hipjdog]

I'm in process discussing with this one girl from online text. I'm quite new to this and she's the only one we managed to have several chats so far. Did I make a mistake by asking her how much before seeing her? She quoted $500. I like it bit lower but not sure how I approach this without turning her off.

If you meet and have a good rapport she’ll probably do 400.

 

[Lionx]

Seeking has so few new girls singing up. Tried SecretBenefits but it seems geared towards making you spend $$ into oblivion as everything is behind a paywall and costs “credits”. Want to send a photo? That’s 10 credits.

where are you guys finding sugar babies?

I had a GREAT experience with Seeking up until last year. Then had a long term girl, we broke up last month. Since then, I am yet to even find someone worthy of taking on a coffee date

Agree Seeking is really going downhill. Lots of fake profiles. And the real girls there are either the 'I am the princess' type or the bottom of the barrel kind.

 

[shack]

I'm in process discussing with this one girl from online text. I'm quite new to this and she's the only one we managed to have several chats so far. Did I make a mistake by asking her how much before seeing her? She quoted $500. I like it bit lower but not sure how I approach this without turning her off.

It might be a bit late now. If you don't like the number, just politely tell them so. "Sorry, that's more than I'm used to paying." Most girls will come down. If they don't, just move on. There is a lot out there.Be patient. They're the ones that need our money and my experience has shown that you can get good value. Hint: Stay away from the glamour girls, the girls who say they want rich guys, give me whenever I want and I never even talk to ones who think that they are princesses. We need to get these girls to understand that they have to be reasonable. If guys are overpaying, it makes it harder for all of us.

But, be polite and gentlemanly. There are so many assholes out there that treat them like service providers, just being polite will get their attention. Do you want a pro or a college girl who needs a few extra bucks. At the beginning, act like you're trying to get a girl to go out with you.

 

[waxtrax]

It might be a bit late now. If you don't like the number, just politely tell them so. "Sorry, that's more than I'm used to paying." Most girls will come down. If they don't, just move on. There is a lot out there.Be patient. They're the ones that need our money and my experience has shown that you can get good value. Hint: Stay away from the glamour girls, the girls who say they want rich guys, give me whenever I want and I never even talk to ones who think that they are princesses. We need to get these girls to understand that they have to be reasonable. If guys are overpaying, it makes it harder for all of us.

But, be polite and gentlemanly. There are so many assholes out there that treat them like service providers, just being polite will get their attention. Do you want a pro or a college girl who needs a few extra bucks. At the beginning, act like you're trying to get a girl to go out with you.

I get the sense most girls don't even want to come out for meet & greet without getting paid. I'm just not sure how not to lose their attention if I suggest like a drink/lunch meetup first. I also want to make sure the pics are at least the same person I'm meeting.

 

[Leimonis]

I get the sense most girls don't even want to come out for meet & greet without getting paid. I'm just not sure how not to lose their attention if I suggest like a drink/lunch meetup first. I also want to make sure the pics are at least the same person I'm meeting.

You can always ask for a video call but some would be worried that you are recording it

 

[Hipjdog]

Having an unpaid meet and greet (where the guy covers the food/drinks) is perfectly reasonable on both sides.
Why should a guy start paying for something he doesn't even know if he's getting yet because you've never even met?

If she's unwilling to do this one-time thing just move on. Any reasonable woman should understand this is necessary.

 

[shack]

I get the sense most girls don't even want to come out for meet & greet without getting paid.

Don't give in. They'll learn soon enough.

I'm just not sure how not to lose their attention if I suggest like a drink/lunch meetup first.

You just might. But if you do, it means you made the right decision to not give in. They are being unreasonable.

I also want to make sure the pics are at least the same person I'm meeting.

Which is totally appropriate. If they can't understand that, then too bad for them.

 

[waxtrax]

Having an unpaid meet and greet (where the guy covers the food/drinks) is perfectly reasonable on both sides.
Why should a guy start paying for something he doesn't even know if he's getting yet because you've never even met?

If she's unwilling to do this one-time thing just move on. Any reasonable woman should understand this is necessary.

Exactly, even from the girl pov, you think they would want to check me out first as well before some private fun. Common sense to me.

 

[waxtrax]

Don't give in. They'll learn soon enough.


You just might. But if you do, it means you made the right decision to not give in. They are being unreasonable.


Which is totally appropriate. If they can't understand that, then too bad for them.

There's no way I'm giving in. If we do continue to disagree on the price point, I will have to bring up SP prices analogy, even tho I know it's a different scene. But hey for $500 you can get a solid VIP girl.

 

[Hipjdog]

Exactly, even from the girl pov, you think they would want to check me out first as well before some private fun. Common sense to me.

Absolutely. She should want to know that you are who you say you are. A woman who says 'yes' without any sort of screening is a huge
red flag. Getting to know someone for an hour or so at a bar isn't a lot to ask before going ahead with this kind of thing.