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GeeBee

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Recently I've looked into SB by accident. I'm a newbie here and I'm wondering when you guys text with the girls, is it safe to use your main phone number or go with a second or burner number? I'm just thinking along the line of potential spammers or tracing personal info.
Use a burner, just like you would with SP’s. Also, don’t use your real name, keep everything in cash, and don't let her see your ID or credit cards. I know it sounds paranoid but there are some scammers out there in the SB world and IMO you can’t be too careful. Particularly as a married man, I take every precaution I can.
 

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Use a burner, just like you would with SP’s. Also, don’t use your real name, keep everything in cash, and don't let her see your ID or credit cards. I know it sounds paranoid but there are some scammers out there in the SB world and IMO you can’t be too careful. Particularly as a married man, I take every precaution I can.
Thanks, not paranoid at all, better be safe than sorry. I'm worried about some SB might blackmail you for more $$ if things turn sour?! I get the sense in the SB world, probably cost more to hobby than with SPs? Not to mention the amount of time filtering out the right one.
 
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GeeBee

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Thanks, not paranoid at all, better be safe than sorry. I'm worried about some SB might blackmail you for more $$ if things turn sour?! I get the sense in the SB world, probably cost more to hobby than with SPs? Not to mention the amount of time filtering out the right one.
Yes, that’s always been my concern. However I’ve never had any issues when I’ve parted ways with an SB, but I want to keep it that way :)

As you’ll see in many other posts on this thread (If you have a week to wade through them all) the SB world isn’t really about saving money. Although I’ve had some great sex with SB’s that was on par with the best SP’s for far less $$, the leg work and effort is much higher. There is a “thrill of the chase” factor for me in pursuing SB's, but if you just want to get laid by a hot girl SP’s are definitely the way to go.
 

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Yes, that’s always been my concern. However I’ve never had any issues when I’ve parted ways with an SB, but I want to keep it that way :)

As you’ll see in many other posts on this thread (If you have a week to wade through them all) the SB world isn’t really about saving money. Although I’ve had some great sex with SB’s that was on par with the best SP’s for far less $$, the leg work and effort is much higher. There is a “thrill of the chase” factor for me in pursuing SB's, but if you just want to get laid by a hot girl SP’s are definitely the way to go.
I know exactly what you mean by the thrill factor. I use the analogy of collecting sports cards, like after opening so many packs, you finally find the rookie gem card!
 
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I’m talking to this one girl who seems great but leans towards platonic. In your experience, does this hold true 100 percent of the time or are the girls willing to adjust based on the guy?
I met a great girl. 21 at the time. Platonic for 2 months then intimate. After a year stopped even giving a gift. 2 years in she moved back to US. Then fiancée left me for unrelated and had two heart breaks at once lol. I’m a damn fool.
 
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I know exactly what you mean by the thrill factor. I use the analogy of collecting sports cards, like after opening so many packs, you finally find the rookie gem card!
It’s actually addictive. I haven’t been paying to message people for about 3-4 months and I still check who is “New” every few days to see if there is a top prospect worth handing a signing bonus to lol. It’s bad.
 

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Be careful with some of the ladies. I remember a 17 yr old with fake ID at a strip club. She got booted.

See this movie to understand some issues.

 

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I also consider the total cost per meet. If the girl can host then I subtract 100 to 150 from the cost I'd have to otherwise pay for AirBnB or hotel and am willing to pay more. But most that can host are escorts.
I agree with what you wrote. But in my experience the ones that can host are all MILFs/single mums. Which is the age range I prefer anyway so it works for me.
 

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I agree with what you wrote. But in my experience the ones that can host are all MILFs/single mums. Which is the age range I prefer anyway so it works for me.
This Question is for everyone .

Has a MILF /GILF / Single Mom ever after the deed or before, or when ever asked you if you know how to fix things around the house?
Then asked you to fix it for her?
 

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This Question is for everyone .

Has a MILF /GILF / Single Mom ever after the deed or before, or when ever asked you if you know how to fix things around the house?
Then asked you to fix it for her?
Haha! What a fantastic question, unfortunately for me 25 years as old as I’ll go.
 

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This Question is for everyone .

Has a MILF /GILF / Single Mom ever after the deed or before, or when ever asked you if you know how to fix things around the house?
Then asked you to fix it for her?
lol - this used to happen to me with am independent Massage girl at her condo. Fwiw I think helping her out a bit improves your chances of a great experience ongoing.
 

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lol - this used to happen to me with am independent Massage girl at her condo. Fwiw I think helping her out a bit improves your chances of a great experience ongoing.
I agree but most women will dump the man once the job is done. IF you are lucky that service went up good for you. You are 1 of 10.
 
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This Question is for everyone .

Has a MILF /GILF / Single Mom ever after the deed or before, or when ever asked you if you know how to fix things around the house?
Then asked you to fix it for her?
Yes and I did. Felt the beej after from the SB was extra enthusiastic. What goes around comes around.
 
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GeeBee

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This Question is for everyone .

Has a MILF /GILF / Single Mom ever after the deed or before, or when ever asked you if you know how to fix things around the house?
Then asked you to fix it for her?
LOL Yep, twice!! Single mom SB who’d moved into a new place after her split.

She couldn’t figure out how to get her AC going in the spring. She’d moved in over the winter and didn’t have a clue what to do. Took me 5 minutes and she thanked me afterwards ;) TBH this one was in my own best interests, we usually hooked up at her place and who doesn’t prefer a nice cool bedroom?

She also had car trouble once and I was able to help with something pretty minor. Again, I was thanked afterwards in a most pleasant way :)

This girl was a gem, and I was more than happy to help her out. We ended up in an arrangement for about 8 months, so I wasn’t being taken advantage of in any way.
 
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