Sugar Dating Experience
- Thread starter FunInToronto2023
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Rejoined the website a couple days ago. I kind of enjoy the chase but feel like it is become harder and harder as there are a lot more "pros" than I remembered.
Had my first meet and greet today since rejoining. Nice girl from Thailand who was definitely bigger than the pictures let on but she was friendly and was dressed to impress with a long form fitting skirt. The thing that killed me was at the end of the meal, I looked down and as she was crossing her legs I saw she had hairier legs than me. I paid for the food and told her I'd be in touch. Yikes.
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Had my first meet and greet today since rejoining. Nice girl from Thailand who was definitely bigger than the pictures let on but she was friendly and was dressed to impress with a long form fitting skirt. The thing that killed me was at the end of the meal, I looked down and as she was crossing her legs I saw she had hairier legs than me. I paid for the food and told her I'd be in touch. Yikes.
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A symmetrical response to which is:
And I would not spend a minute of my time with a girl unless I was getting more than just talk
Anyone know what the going rate is for SB these days? Some of the requests I'm getting are outrageous....girls asking between 1-1.5k per meet and 7k monthly. I hope this isn't the new norm.
Girls are asking but sane guys are refusing. I've been able to get young and cute girls (20s) for $300-$350 per meet. I've been asked for 1K per meet or $750 per meet but always end the discussion right there if they are not willing to come down. Some will ask for $600 to start but can be talked down to $300.
There also seems to be a rich fucker with a trust fund or otherwise incredibly deep pockets around every corner. I hope they, along with the athletes, musicians etc… have more high end and elite channels to find the models and groupies to become Sugar babes, that we mere mortals are unaware of. But a good looking girl on Seeking hears about these whales being out there and decides to try her luck. I can’t blame her.
She’s free to ask, and we are free to say no.
If she's unable to find the whales of fantasy, once she gets enough rejections, her standards will be lowered.
In my experience, 400-500 ppm seems about average. I'm sure there are outliers on either side though.
I also consider the total cost per meet. If the girl can host then I subtract 100 to 150 from the cost I'd have to otherwise pay for AirBnB or hotel and am willing to pay more. But most that can host are escorts.
Recently I've looked into SB by accident. I'm a newbie here and I'm wondering when you guys text with the girls, is it safe to use your main phone number or go with a second or burner number? I'm just thinking along the line of potential spammers or tracing personal info.
Don't use your personal number. Use a virtual number with an app like TextNow. Leave no trace to you.
Use a burner, just like you would with SP’s. Also, don’t use your real name, keep everything in cash, and don't let her see your ID or credit cards. I know it sounds paranoid but there are some scammers out there in the SB world and IMO you can’t be too careful. Particularly as a married man, I take every precaution I can.
Thanks, not paranoid at all, better be safe than sorry. I'm worried about some SB might blackmail you for more $$ if things turn sour?! I get the sense in the SB world, probably cost more to hobby than with SPs? Not to mention the amount of time filtering out the right one.
Yes, that’s always been my concern. However I’ve never had any issues when I’ve parted ways with an SB, but I want to keep it that way
As you’ll see in many other posts on this thread (If you have a week to wade through them all) the SB world isn’t really about saving money. Although I’ve had some great sex with SB’s that was on par with the best SP’s for far less $$, the leg work and effort is much higher. There is a “thrill of the chase” factor for me in pursuing SB's, but if you just want to get laid by a hot girl SP’s are definitely the way to go.
I know exactly what you mean by the thrill factor. I use the analogy of collecting sports cards, like after opening so many packs, you finally find the rookie gem card!Yes, that’s always been my concern. However I’ve never had any issues when I’ve parted ways with an SB, but I want to keep it that way
As you’ll see in many other posts on this thread (If you have a week to wade through them all) the SB world isn’t really about saving money. Although I’ve had some great sex with SB’s that was on par with the best SP’s for far less $$, the leg work and effort is much higher. There is a “thrill of the chase” factor for me in pursuing SB's, but if you just want to get laid by a hot girl SP’s are definitely the way to go.
I met a great girl. 21 at the time. Platonic for 2 months then intimate. After a year stopped even giving a gift. 2 years in she moved back to US. Then fiancée left me for unrelated and had two heart breaks at once lol. I’m a damn fool.
