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LC18

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Would you think it’s rude if someone asked you to be their sugar daddy? How would you want to be asked?
 

LTO_3

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Would you think it’s rude if someone asked you to be their sugar daddy? How would you want to be asked?
Now that's a loaded question(s). I don't think there's one way of asking that fits all because it would depend upon the SB/SD connection. If the SB said would you take care of me financially, I'd like X amount per month. My response would be what are you bringing to the table to justify that amount or just a flat out no and move on.

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Valcazar

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Would you think it’s rude if someone asked you to be their sugar daddy? How would you want to be asked?
I would want her to ask politely.

I don't think it is rude to ask.
I just think that like many such questions, the issue is what happens if the answer is no and how do they accept that?
 
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A couple of years ago I was a member of Seeking.com and was permanently banned because I was talking about money for sex. I made an attempt months later but with no success. They took my money and ran. Do any of you know if there is a way to sign up successfully, without being detected?
 
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Hipjdog

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A couple of years ago I was a member of Seeking.com and was permanently banned because I was talking about money for sex. I made an attempt months later but with no success. They took my money and ran. Do any of you know there is a way to sign up successfully, without being detected?
You can’t talk explicitly about sex or they’ll ban you. Use coded language instead, as discussed previously in this thread.
 

oral.com

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Would you think it’s rude if someone asked you to be their sugar daddy? How would you want to be asked?
I was asked once by a young woman I was talking to at the bar of a restaurant. She asked me if I I had ever heard of an arrangement before.
We actually started seeing each other after.
 
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Leimonis

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A couple of years ago I was a member of Seeking.com and was permanently banned because I was talking about money for sex. I made an attempt months later but with no success. They took my money and ran. Do any of you know if there is a way to sign up successfully, without being detected?
New IP, new device, new CC and new pics should do the trick
 

Happyhomer

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Seeking was the best website for me. I had a few great arrangements from there. I ended up dating on girl (22year age gap!) for over 9 months. I ended it bc she wanted to get more serious and move in.

You just have to weed out the scammers and find the girls looking for a reasonable arrangement and make them feel comfortable and connected.
 
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dadbodyguy

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Seeking was the best website for me. I had a few great arrangements from there. I ended up dating on girl (22year age gap!) for over 9 months. I ended it bc she wanted to get more serious and move in.

You just have to weed out the scammers and find the girls looking for a reasonable arrangement and make them feel comfortable and connected.
It was a great site before they started charging so much for a membership fee. I've since found alternative ways to find some amazing women that have worked well for me.
 
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xix

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Could probably get some ideas from there.
 

futt bucker

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Back and forth chatting with a girl and we agree to meet for a meet and greet, arranged a time and place and she casually drops, oh by the way, will you be compensating me for the meet and greet, I usually get a small gift(aka $150-$200).
I stated that I never pay money for just coffee chat and she said no go then.

Guys, don't be suckers, don't pay for just a coffee chat. If girls expect it, it means there are enough guys out there that pay for just talking with no guarantee of anything materializing afterwards. Don't fuck things up for the rest of us by creating expectations for financial transactions for just talking.
 

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Back and forth chatting with a girl and we agree to meet for a meet and greet, arranged a time and place and she casually drops, oh by the way, will you be compensating me for the meet and greet, I usually get a small gift(aka $150-$200).
I stated that I never pay money for just coffee chat and she said no go then.

Guys, don't be suckers, don't pay for just a coffee chat. If girls expect it, it means there are enough guys out there that pay for just talking with no guarantee of anything materializing afterwards. Don't fuck things up for the rest of us by creating expectations for financial transactions for just talking.
100 percent. Meeting to see if the 2 people gel should be understood to be free. The man can cover the costs of the drinks and that's it.
 

dadbodyguy

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Back and forth chatting with a girl and we agree to meet for a meet and greet, arranged a time and place and she casually drops, oh by the way, will you be compensating me for the meet and greet, I usually get a small gift(aka $150-$200).
I stated that I never pay money for just coffee chat and she said no go then.

Guys, don't be suckers, don't pay for just a coffee chat. If girls expect it, it means there are enough guys out there that pay for just talking with no guarantee of anything materializing afterwards. Don't fuck things up for the rest of us by creating expectations for financial transactions for just talking.
the fact that she said she usually gets that is a red flag , I would have asked her how many coffee dates she's had in the last 6 mos and why is she not in an arrangement now after so many.

I've asked them that question in this scenario and the response is very telling of the intent to not follow thru
 

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Back and forth chatting with a girl and we agree to meet for a meet and greet, arranged a time and place and she casually drops, oh by the way, will you be compensating me for the meet and greet, I usually get a small gift(aka $150-$200).
I stated that I never pay money for just coffee chat and she said no go then.

Guys, don't be suckers, don't pay for just a coffee chat. If girls expect it, it means there are enough guys out there that pay for just talking with no guarantee of anything materializing afterwards. Don't fuck things up for the rest of us by creating expectations for financial transactions for just talking.
When they want to get paid and there will be no sex, I tell them that I have lots of friends and family that I can pass the time. I'm not that lonely to have to pay somebody to simply talk to them.

So far, I have 3 dates with 3 new 19 year olds this week. One is for a no sex/no money dinner date. One looks super hot but could very well be a pro, but with that bod, I'll take a chance. And one seems for sure like a civvie. We were chatting when she sends me some pics, one of which was a full frontal nudie.

Having said that, it's quite possible that none of them will happen. LOL. I just look at it as money saved whenever that happens.
 
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Back and forth chatting with a girl and we agree to meet for a meet and greet, arranged a time and place and she casually drops, oh by the way, will you be compensating me for the meet and greet, I usually get a small gift(aka $150-$200).
I stated that I never pay money for just coffee chat and she said no go then.

Guys, don't be suckers, don't pay for just a coffee chat. If girls expect it, it means there are enough guys out there that pay for just talking with no guarantee of anything materializing afterwards. Don't fuck things up for the rest of us by creating expectations for financial transactions for just talking.
I have had this conversation before. I think this is one of those scamsters who are here to take advantage of guys.

When I said "I pay for your time with my time!", she said a (good looking) girl like her wouldn't spend a minute with a guy like me unless she was compensated with more than just time. This is also where "I am not an escort" argument comes up.
Advice is to set payment expectations in advance and do not pay anything in the beginning of the date.
 
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oral.com

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Back and forth chatting with a girl and we agree to meet for a meet and greet, arranged a time and place and she casually drops, oh by the way, will you be compensating me for the meet and greet, I usually get a small gift(aka $150-$200).
I stated that I never pay money for just coffee chat and she said no go then.

Guys, don't be suckers, don't pay for just a coffee chat. If girls expect it, it means there are enough guys out there that pay for just talking with no guarantee of anything materializing afterwards. Don't fuck things up for the rest of us by creating expectations for financial transactions for just talking.
Many of these girls are meet and greet scammers. They take your cash for a brief date with no intention of getting closer.
 
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