Sugar Dating Experience

[dadbodyguy]

Back and forth chatting with a girl and we agree to meet for a meet and greet, arranged a time and place and she casually drops, oh by the way, will you be compensating me for the meet and greet, I usually get a small gift(aka $150-$200).
I stated that I never pay money for just coffee chat and she said no go then.

Guys, don't be suckers, don't pay for just a coffee chat. If girls expect it, it means there are enough guys out there that pay for just talking with no guarantee of anything materializing afterwards. Don't fuck things up for the rest of us by creating expectations for financial transactions for just talking.

the fact that she said she usually gets that is a red flag , I would have asked her how many coffee dates she's had in the last 6 mos and why is she not in an arrangement now after so many.

I've asked them that question in this scenario and the response is very telling of the intent to not follow thru

 

[shack]

Back and forth chatting with a girl and we agree to meet for a meet and greet, arranged a time and place and she casually drops, oh by the way, will you be compensating me for the meet and greet, I usually get a small gift(aka $150-$200).
I stated that I never pay money for just coffee chat and she said no go then.

Guys, don't be suckers, don't pay for just a coffee chat. If girls expect it, it means there are enough guys out there that pay for just talking with no guarantee of anything materializing afterwards. Don't fuck things up for the rest of us by creating expectations for financial transactions for just talking.

When they want to get paid and there will be no sex, I tell them that I have lots of friends and family that I can pass the time. I'm not that lonely to have to pay somebody to simply talk to them.

So far, I have 3 dates with 3 new 19 year olds this week. One is for a no sex/no money dinner date. One looks super hot but could very well be a pro, but with that bod, I'll take a chance. And one seems for sure like a civvie. We were chatting when she sends me some pics, one of which was a full frontal nudie.

Having said that, it's quite possible that none of them will happen. LOL. I just look at it as money saved whenever that happens.

 

[Param2000]

Back and forth chatting with a girl and we agree to meet for a meet and greet, arranged a time and place and she casually drops, oh by the way, will you be compensating me for the meet and greet, I usually get a small gift(aka $150-$200).
I stated that I never pay money for just coffee chat and she said no go then.

Guys, don't be suckers, don't pay for just a coffee chat. If girls expect it, it means there are enough guys out there that pay for just talking with no guarantee of anything materializing afterwards. Don't fuck things up for the rest of us by creating expectations for financial transactions for just talking.

I have had this conversation before. I think this is one of those scamsters who are here to take advantage of guys.

When I said "I pay for your time with my time!", she said a (good looking) girl like her wouldn't spend a minute with a guy like me unless she was compensated with more than just time. This is also where "I am not an escort" argument comes up.
Advice is to set payment expectations in advance and do not pay anything in the beginning of the date.

 

[futt bucker]

I would have asked her how many coffee dates she's had in the last 6 mos and why is she not in an arrangement now after so many.

I couldn't be bothered with her anymore. No point wasting my time.

 

[oral.com]

Back and forth chatting with a girl and we agree to meet for a meet and greet, arranged a time and place and she casually drops, oh by the way, will you be compensating me for the meet and greet, I usually get a small gift(aka $150-$200).
I stated that I never pay money for just coffee chat and she said no go then.

Guys, don't be suckers, don't pay for just a coffee chat. If girls expect it, it means there are enough guys out there that pay for just talking with no guarantee of anything materializing afterwards. Don't fuck things up for the rest of us by creating expectations for financial transactions for just talking.

Many of these girls are meet and greet scammers. They take your cash for a brief date with no intention of getting closer.

 

[oral.com]

I have had this conversation before. I think this is one of those scamsters who are here to take advantage of guys.

When I said "I pay for your time with my time!", she said a (good looking) girl like her wouldn't spend a minute with a guy like me unless she was compensated with more than just time. This is also where "I am not an escort" argument comes up.
Advice is to set payment expectations in advance and do not pay anything in the beginning of the date.

That’s just rude.

 

[Uuoomkin12]

Rejoined the website a couple days ago. I kind of enjoy the chase but feel like it is become harder and harder as there are a lot more "pros" than I remembered.

Had my first meet and greet today since rejoining. Nice girl from Thailand who was definitely bigger than the pictures let on but she was friendly and was dressed to impress with a long form fitting skirt. The thing that killed me was at the end of the meal, I looked down and as she was crossing her legs I saw she had hairier legs than me. I paid for the food and told her I'd be in touch. Yikes.

Search goes on...

 

[Leimonis]

When I said "I pay for your time with my time!", she said a (good looking) girl like her wouldn't spend a minute with a guy like me unless she was compensated with more than just time.

A symmetrical response to which is:
And I would not spend a minute of my time with a girl unless I was getting more than just talk

 

[netsurfer]

A symmetrical response to which is:
And I would not spend a minute of my time with a girl [like you] unless I was getting more than just talk

I added 2 words - [like you]

 

[Uuoomkin12]

Anyone know what the going rate is for SB these days? Some of the requests I'm getting are outrageous....girls asking between 1-1.5k per meet and 7k monthly. I hope this isn't the new norm.

 

[futt bucker]

Anyone know what the going rate is for SB these days? Some of the requests I'm getting are outrageous....girls asking between 1-1.5k per meet and 7k monthly. I hope this isn't the new norm.

Girls are asking but sane guys are refusing. I've been able to get young and cute girls (20s) for $300-$350 per meet. I've been asked for 1K per meet or $750 per meet but always end the discussion right there if they are not willing to come down. Some will ask for $600 to start but can be talked down to $300.

 

[shack]

Girls are asking but sane guys are refusing. I've been able to get young and cute girls (20s) for $300-$350 per meet. I've been asked for 1K per meet or $750 per meet but always end the discussion right there if they are not willing to come down. Some will ask for $600 to start but can be talked down to $300.

He who pays the piper calls the tune.

 

[futt bucker]

He who pays the piper calls the tune.

There's a sucker born every minute.

 

[GeeBee]

There's a sucker born every minute.

There also seems to be a rich fucker with a trust fund or otherwise incredibly deep pockets around every corner. I hope they, along with the athletes, musicians etc… have more high end and elite channels to find the models and groupies to become Sugar babes, that we mere mortals are unaware of. But a good looking girl on Seeking hears about these whales being out there and decides to try her luck. I can’t blame her.

She’s free to ask, and we are free to say no.

 

[shack]

There also seems to be a rich fucker with a trust fund or otherwise incredibly deep pockets around every corner. I hope they, along with the athletes, musicians etc… have more high end and elite channels to find the models and groupies to become Sugar babes, that we mere mortals are unaware of. But a good looking girl on Seeking hears about these whales being out there and decides to try her luck. I can’t blame her.

She’s free to ask, and we are free to say no.

If she's unable to find the whales of fantasy, once she gets enough rejections, her standards will be lowered.

 

[Hipjdog]

In my experience, 400-500 ppm seems about average. I'm sure there are outliers on either side though.

 

[futt bucker]

I also consider the total cost per meet. If the girl can host then I subtract 100 to 150 from the cost I'd have to otherwise pay for AirBnB or hotel and am willing to pay more. But most that can host are escorts.

 

[waxtrax]

Recently I've looked into SB by accident. I'm a newbie here and I'm wondering when you guys text with the girls, is it safe to use your main phone number or go with a second or burner number? I'm just thinking along the line of potential spammers or tracing personal info.

 

[futt bucker]

Recently I've looked into SB by accident. I'm a newbie here and I'm wondering when you guys text with the girls, is it safe to use your main phone number or go with a second or burner number? I'm just thinking along the line of potential spammers or tracing personal info.

Don't use your personal number. Use a virtual number with an app like TextNow. Leave no trace to you.

 

[rajput]

Girls are asking but sane guys are refusing. I've been able to get young and cute girls (20s) for $300-$350 per meet. I've been asked for 1K per meet or $750 per meet but always end the discussion right there if they are not willing to come down. Some will ask for $600 to start but can be talked down to $300.

I'm too cheap to even pay the membership fee.