Sugar Dating Experience
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Okay so this thread is 72 pages long so I'm not going to going through 72 pages to see if this has been posted already so I'm going see if I can get an answer here.
I heard something on these sites, if you get caught PMing each other discussing rates or things of that nature you get barred. Is this correct?
I heard something on these sites, if you get caught PMing each other discussing rates or things of that nature you get barred. Is this correct?
Absolutely, particularly on Seeking. They are US based and need to keep up the illusion that it’s only a dating site so they are very strict. Any hint of a sex for money transaction could get them in serious trouble with the US feds.
I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again, the Land of the Free are a bunch of puritans.
Never mention dollar figures, allowance or even the phrase PPM, they will get flagged and you (and most likely the girl you're communicating with) can get banned, sometimes within seconds of the offence. It happened to me once, she was new and mentioned a $ amount. Our conversation stopped working and the next thing I knew her profile was gone literally 60 seconds later, never to be seen again. Use euphemisms like “mutually beneficial” and “generous”
Dance around the issue for a bit when you’re chatting on the sites, and once the girl gets comfortable with you ask to move to another platform. Text if you’re not worried about your privacy, but I’d still use a burner #, but snapchat works well for me and most girls in the sugar age ranges use it. Have any $$ discussions there.
FYI one of my sugar girls recently told me this. They can get warnings if they say something that’s even borderline. Their profile gets suspended and they have to watch a video explaining the rules, and agree to abide by them before their profile is unlocked. 2 strikes and she’s banned.
There is no consistency between sites, let alone within an individual site.
So the answer is "Maybe."
Seeking
Established Men
Sugar Daddy for me
Sugar Daddy Meet
Secret Benefits
And a handful of smaller ones. With the smaller sites there is a better than good chance that a girl is on one of the larger ones as well.
Don't forget to add that for $300 that includes HOURS of drinks, dinner, chit chat, and awkward groping in the parking lot for a $/H of what...$75/H?Currently conducting an experiment: people offer $300 for ppm (no screening, obviously). A monthly allowance that is deemed “reasonable” is $1400. This wouldn’t be so bad if the guy didn’t expect meeting every week, constant communication and exclusivity LMAO. You are just lowballing the shit out of SBs who know nothing about rates
Maybe you should send them links to this boardCurrently conducting an experiment: people offer $300 for ppm (no screening, obviously). A monthly allowance that is deemed “reasonable” is $1400. This wouldn’t be so bad if the guy didn’t expect meeting every week, constant communication and exclusivity LMAO. You are just lowballing the shit out of SBs who know nothing about rates
they will figure it out fastI know right? One poor girl, I said I just want to meet for an hour of sex. Her thought process was…well it’s only an hour so how about $200 PPM
. Oh my, I believe in karma so I forwarded her some tryst links…I think she was a little mad at herself as well as the two now ex-SDs she had 
. She still likes me for some reason 
. What goes around comes around….You'd be surprised how many girls now are fine just coming over to your place at night to vibe
I've chatted with 3 in the last month, and after chatting on Snap for an hour or two, exchanging pictures, two she was down for coming over for a BJ as long as I got her an Uber.Meet and Greet is still a thing, but a think a lot of these girls know exactly what guys are looking for when they sign up.
My profile states I don't have time for social dates and I just want FWB during the day where she hosts. For very busy women, single moms, those that have given up on dating but still want intimacy, so ya, I work for what they want. First time has all been intimacy and have yet to do a M&G even though I've offered.You'd be surprised how many girls now are fine just coming over to your place at night to vibe
Meet and Greet is still a thing, but a think a lot of these girls know exactly what guys are looking for when they sign up.
Given women in the industry know who many men - TERB is very populated with these types - go sideways, I'm always a little bit surprised they host at their home. They've all decided based on my texts or a phone call.
Same, Sugardaddymeet or Seeking. Maybe there are more bots of Seeking now, but never had a problem as long as I block people outside my area. Venezuela supermodel needs money for her phone bill - too bad. Also, avoid Secret Benefits at all costs.
I find Seeking is still the best one.
Just ignore or block the scammers and never offer money without meeting no
matter what they say. The legit girls on the site know how the process actually works
and that it also benefits them to see if you're a good match.
You should get a sense from the conversation on Seeking pretty early on whether the girl
is legit or not. If she's not: bail, no matter how hot she is. Not worth your time. New girls
join the site every day.
Just ignore or block the scammers and never offer money without meeting no
matter what they say. The legit girls on the site know how the process actually works
and that it also benefits them to see if you're a good match.
You should get a sense from the conversation on Seeking pretty early on whether the girl
is legit or not. If she's not: bail, no matter how hot she is. Not worth your time. New girls
join the site every day.
Not really, as they often get their larger portion of OSAP at the same time. I find October/November better. Bills are due, holidays coming up, settling in to being away from home etc. Play factors as well.
Thanks. Agreed you can usually spot the scammers after some discussion. But it's still a big time waster to have these conversations in the first place.
I have learned to spot the fake profiles right away to save having to message back and forth.
