Sugar Dating Experience

[Big John]

You are just straight up lying lol. Stop this man it’s sad.

Hey man, wtf - Rule 5 - no posting PMs publicly.
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You also apparently and conveniently left out where you shit talked to him after he said no to your clearly absurd request, misinterpretation or not.

 

[shack]

. We met the same girl!!! She goes to Cambrian?

Did you actually meet her?

 

[dchoye]

Does She Have TRANSACTIONAL -OR- VALIDATIONAL Sex With You? ( KNOW The DIFFERENCE!!! )

Has some good points but I would argue that with transactional we pay for discretion and woman will leaves us alone. Some women who requires much validation for sex are unstable and drama queens and can cause trouble for the dude
I find that validation sex can be very dependent on the girls mood and can be very good or lacking. Transaction sex tends to be more consistent

 

[GeeBee]

Has some good points but I would argue that with transactional we pay for discretion and woman will leaves us alone. Some women who requires much validation for sex are unstable and drama queens and can cause trouble for the dude
I find that validation sex can be very dependent on the girls mood and can be very good or lacking. Transaction sex tends to be more consistent

With sugar girls you can get both at the same time. When all the stars align, and the mood is right, the validation sex can be awesome.

 

[ValuedSupporter]

Did you actually meet her?

U of G Gryphons flag football shirt? No idea if the pictures are really her.

Fuck no She blew up my phone when I accused her of being some Indian guy. She totally forgot who I was and how we ended our texting even the she still had the texts! She messaged up a lot of details which caused me to laugh and ask how the weather was in Bombay. I did actually talk to her, it was a neutral Canadian accent so unlikely a scam from India or Kenya or wherever these days so...get scammed locally! But ya, wanted $1,500 for tuition that was due tomorrow and I say, hey, 3 meets and you have it. She was open to a f2f meet that somehow never happened either...

 

[ValuedSupporter]

If you just want to get laid, SPs are by far your best option.

Always. No muss, no fuss, the way to go.

 

[Ebony Booty Lover]

Okay so this thread is 72 pages long so I'm not going to going through 72 pages to see if this has been posted already so I'm going see if I can get an answer here.

I heard something on these sites, if you get caught PMing each other discussing rates or things of that nature you get barred. Is this correct?

 

[Sugarsweet905]

Okay so this thread is 72 pages long so I'm not going to going through 72 pages to see if this has been posted already so I'm going see if I can get an answer here.

I heard something on these sites, if you get caught PMing each other discussing rates or things of that nature you get barred. Is this correct?

Simply put Yes!!!

 

[GeeBee]

Okay so this thread is 72 pages long so I'm not going to going through 72 pages to see if this has been posted already so I'm going see if I can get an answer here.

I heard something on these sites, if you get caught PMing each other discussing rates or things of that nature you get barred. Is this correct?

Absolutely, particularly on Seeking. They are US based and need to keep up the illusion that it’s only a dating site so they are very strict. Any hint of a sex for money transaction could get them in serious trouble with the US feds.

I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again, the Land of the Free are a bunch of puritans.

Never mention dollar figures, allowance or even the phrase PPM, they will get flagged and you (and most likely the girl you're communicating with) can get banned, sometimes within seconds of the offence. It happened to me once, she was new and mentioned a $ amount. Our conversation stopped working and the next thing I knew her profile was gone literally 60 seconds later, never to be seen again. Use euphemisms like “mutually beneficial” and “generous”

Dance around the issue for a bit when you’re chatting on the sites, and once the girl gets comfortable with you ask to move to another platform. Text if you’re not worried about your privacy, but I’d still use a burner #, but snapchat works well for me and most girls in the sugar age ranges use it. Have any $$ discussions there.

FYI one of my sugar girls recently told me this. They can get warnings if they say something that’s even borderline. Their profile gets suspended and they have to watch a video explaining the rules, and agree to abide by them before their profile is unlocked. 2 strikes and she’s banned.

 

[shack]

Okay so this thread is 72 pages long so I'm not going to going through 72 pages to see if this has been posted already so I'm going see if I can get an answer here.

I heard something on these sites, if you get caught PMing each other discussing rates or things of that nature you get barred. Is this correct?

There is no consistency between sites, let alone within an individual site.

So the answer is "Maybe."

 

[Ebony Booty Lover]

There is no consistency between sites, let alone within an individual site.

So the answer is "Maybe."

I didn't know there were different sites. I only know of seeking arrangement.

 

[Sugarsweet905]

I didn't know there were different sites. I only know of seeking arrangement.

Seeking
Established Men
Sugar Daddy for me
Sugar Daddy Meet
Secret Benefits
And a handful of smaller ones. With the smaller sites there is a better than good chance that a girl is on one of the larger ones as well.

 

[ValuedSupporter]

Currently conducting an experiment: people offer $300 for ppm (no screening, obviously). A monthly allowance that is deemed “reasonable” is $1400. This wouldn’t be so bad if the guy didn’t expect meeting every week, constant communication and exclusivity LMAO. You are just lowballing the shit out of SBs who know nothing about rates

Don't forget to add that for $300 that includes HOURS of drinks, dinner, chit chat, and awkward groping in the parking lot for a $/H of what...$75/H?

 

[Daddy2021]

Currently conducting an experiment: people offer $300 for ppm (no screening, obviously). A monthly allowance that is deemed “reasonable” is $1400. This wouldn’t be so bad if the guy didn’t expect meeting every week, constant communication and exclusivity LMAO. You are just lowballing the shit out of SBs who know nothing about rates

Maybe you should send them links to this board they will figure it out fast

 

[ValuedSupporter]

Poor girls.

I know right? One poor girl, I said I just want to meet for an hour of sex. Her thought process was…well it’s only an hour so how about $200 PPM . Oh my, I believe in karma so I forwarded her some tryst links…I think she was a little mad at herself as well as the two now ex-SDs she had . She still likes me for some reason . What goes around comes around….

 

[RobI]

Don't forget to add that for $300 that includes HOURS of drinks, dinner, chit chat, and awkward groping in the parking lot for a $/H of what...$75/H?

You'd be surprised how many girls now are fine just coming over to your place at night to vibe I've chatted with 3 in the last month, and after chatting on Snap for an hour or two, exchanging pictures, two she was down for coming over for a BJ as long as I got her an Uber.

Meet and Greet is still a thing, but a think a lot of these girls know exactly what guys are looking for when they sign up.

 

[ValuedSupporter]

You'd be surprised how many girls now are fine just coming over to your place at night to vibe I've chatted with 3 in the last month, and after chatting on Snap for an hour or two, exchanging pictures, two she was down for coming over for a BJ as long as I got her an Uber.

Meet and Greet is still a thing, but a think a lot of these girls know exactly what guys are looking for when they sign up.

My profile states I don't have time for social dates and I just want FWB during the day where she hosts. For very busy women, single moms, those that have given up on dating but still want intimacy, so ya, I work for what they want. First time has all been intimacy and have yet to do a M&G even though I've offered.

Given women in the industry know who many men - TERB is very populated with these types - go sideways, I'm always a little bit surprised they host at their home. They've all decided based on my texts or a phone call.

 

[RobI]

My profile states I don't have time for social dates and I just want FWB during the day where she hosts. For very busy women, single moms, those that have given up on dating but still want intimacy, so ya, I work for what they want. First time has all been intimacy and have yet to do a M&G even though I've offered.

Given women in the industry know who many men - TERB is very populated with these types - go sideways, I'm always a little bit surprised they host at their home. They've all decided based on my texts or a phone call.

What sites do you usually use?

 

[ValuedSupporter]

What sites do you usually use?

Sugardaddy. Seeking is just full of bots of OF seekers. You?

 

[RobI]

Sugardaddy. Seeking is just full of bots of OF seekers. You?

Same, Sugardaddymeet or Seeking. Maybe there are more bots of Seeking now, but never had a problem as long as I block people outside my area. Venezuela supermodel needs money for her phone bill - too bad. Also, avoid Secret Benefits at all costs.