Sugar Dating Experience
- Thread starter FunInToronto2023
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Good points here about using the same direct language and questions as you would with an SP. As much as the SB world is similar to seeing escorts, the way a guy should play the game is very different IMO. Be a gentleman, and don’t us the hooker language or acronyms with sugar girls. Take your chances with things like DFK and BBBJ’s find out the answers when you’re getting naked and happy, and repeat if you like what you get. I’ve never had an SB who doesn’t do either BTW. It’s the pro’s who are more careful, they see way more guys and their risks are proportionately higher as a result.IMO, if she was not a pro, and was a sincere, authentic newcomer sb, you blew it by speaking to her in hooker/john language.
Half up front and showing her the other half was there is reasonable. I've heard of girls who have seemingly hit it off really good with a guy , they have sex then he acts indignant having to pay, thinking they had 'something special'. LOTS of scammers like that preying on less than savvy girls.
Agree to to the 50/50 online/text and see what kind of vibe you get from her in person. Then decide if she is going to have to go tend to a "family emergency' or otherwise have any idea she is going to flake otu. I doubt that if she has gone that far to have met , talked, meet and greet, social time and then be in your bedroom with a positive vibe, she's going to run off with $200 if there is $400 available for having some fun, with the possibility of a future.
Be aware, but don't treat them as professional working girls until such time as they make it clear they are... or you get authentic clues she is is. Even then, sometimes it's best to let them play out being a good girl gone bad for a night.
I'm pretty good at reading scammers so that's just my opinion.
Acronyms are def a no no but I must admit I sometimes like using a word “civilian” with them though. That look on their faces when they realize they are not really civilian anymore is priceless
I can’t help but wonder that a legitimate SB scam is the meet and greet payment.
I have met a few potentials that way and have kicked myself twice.
The dates were both very short and there was obviously zero interest from the start.
This behaviour can be repeated with multiple guys without consequence.
I have never paid since and will never pay again for an initial non sexual meet.
Legitimate interest in meeting because of a mutual desire in forming a true arrangement should never be paid. period.
If you just want to get laid, SPs are by far your best option.
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You also apparently and conveniently left out where you shit talked to him after he said no to your clearly absurd request, misinterpretation or not.
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Did you actually meet her?. We met the same girl!!! She goes to Cambrian?
Has some good points but I would argue that with transactional we pay for discretion and woman will leaves us alone. Some women who requires much validation for sex are unstable and drama queens and can cause trouble for the dude
I find that validation sex can be very dependent on the girls mood and can be very good or lacking. Transaction sex tends to be more consistent
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With sugar girls you can get both at the same time. When all the stars align, and the mood is right, the validation sex can be awesome.
U of G Gryphons flag football shirt? No idea if the pictures are really her.
Fuck no
She blew up my phone when I accused her of being some Indian guy. She totally forgot who I was and how we ended our texting even the she still had the texts! She messaged up a lot of details which caused me to laugh and ask how the weather was in Bombay. I did actually talk to her, it was a neutral Canadian accent so unlikely a scam from India or Kenya or wherever these days so...get scammed locally! But ya, wanted $1,500 for tuition that was due tomorrow and I say, hey, 3 meets and you have it. She was open to a f2f meet that somehow never happened either...Okay so this thread is 72 pages long so I'm not going to going through 72 pages to see if this has been posted already so I'm going see if I can get an answer here.
I heard something on these sites, if you get caught PMing each other discussing rates or things of that nature you get barred. Is this correct?
I heard something on these sites, if you get caught PMing each other discussing rates or things of that nature you get barred. Is this correct?
Absolutely, particularly on Seeking. They are US based and need to keep up the illusion that it’s only a dating site so they are very strict. Any hint of a sex for money transaction could get them in serious trouble with the US feds.
I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again, the Land of the Free are a bunch of puritans.
Never mention dollar figures, allowance or even the phrase PPM, they will get flagged and you (and most likely the girl you're communicating with) can get banned, sometimes within seconds of the offence. It happened to me once, she was new and mentioned a $ amount. Our conversation stopped working and the next thing I knew her profile was gone literally 60 seconds later, never to be seen again. Use euphemisms like “mutually beneficial” and “generous”
Dance around the issue for a bit when you’re chatting on the sites, and once the girl gets comfortable with you ask to move to another platform. Text if you’re not worried about your privacy, but I’d still use a burner #, but snapchat works well for me and most girls in the sugar age ranges use it. Have any $$ discussions there.
FYI one of my sugar girls recently told me this. They can get warnings if they say something that’s even borderline. Their profile gets suspended and they have to watch a video explaining the rules, and agree to abide by them before their profile is unlocked. 2 strikes and she’s banned.
There is no consistency between sites, let alone within an individual site.
So the answer is "Maybe."
Seeking
Established Men
Sugar Daddy for me
Sugar Daddy Meet
Secret Benefits
And a handful of smaller ones. With the smaller sites there is a better than good chance that a girl is on one of the larger ones as well.
Don't forget to add that for $300 that includes HOURS of drinks, dinner, chit chat, and awkward groping in the parking lot for a $/H of what...$75/H?Currently conducting an experiment: people offer $300 for ppm (no screening, obviously). A monthly allowance that is deemed “reasonable” is $1400. This wouldn’t be so bad if the guy didn’t expect meeting every week, constant communication and exclusivity LMAO. You are just lowballing the shit out of SBs who know nothing about rates
Maybe you should send them links to this boardCurrently conducting an experiment: people offer $300 for ppm (no screening, obviously). A monthly allowance that is deemed “reasonable” is $1400. This wouldn’t be so bad if the guy didn’t expect meeting every week, constant communication and exclusivity LMAO. You are just lowballing the shit out of SBs who know nothing about rates
they will figure it out fastI know right? One poor girl, I said I just want to meet for an hour of sex. Her thought process was…well it’s only an hour so how about $200 PPM
. Oh my, I believe in karma so I forwarded her some tryst links…I think she was a little mad at herself as well as the two now ex-SDs she had 
. She still likes me for some reason 
. What goes around comes around….