hahahahahah, truth hurts too muchYour hat is weird and so are your posts. I’ll have to put you on ignore under nudnik category.
hahahahahah, truth hurts too muchYour hat is weird and so are your posts. I’ll have to put you on ignore under nudnik category.
. We met the same girl!!! She goes to Cambrian?The other day, I was chatting with a very cute 19 year old Asian. The prospects were looking good and then she hits me with her sob story that she has a deadline for tuition and she'll get kicked out of school unless she comes up with $1,000 and could I please help as both her parents were dead and she has nobody to turn to. I simply said that I don't send money to someone I've never met, a stranger. I said I've been burned too many times before. I can give you money if we meet. She pleaded and begged and made meaningless promises. Finally she quit and just said, "I'm screwed."
If she needed money so bad, why wouldn't she meet?
Good points here about using the same direct language and questions as you would with an SP. As much as the SB world is similar to seeing escorts, the way a guy should play the game is very different IMO. Be a gentleman, and don’t us the hooker language or acronyms with sugar girls. Take your chances with things like DFK and BBBJ’s find out the answers when you’re getting naked and happy, and repeat if you like what you get. I’ve never had an SB who doesn’t do either BTW. It’s the pro’s who are more careful, they see way more guys and their risks are proportionately higher as a result.IMO, if she was not a pro, and was a sincere, authentic newcomer sb, you blew it by speaking to her in hooker/john language.
Half up front and showing her the other half was there is reasonable. I've heard of girls who have seemingly hit it off really good with a guy , they have sex then he acts indignant having to pay, thinking they had 'something special'. LOTS of scammers like that preying on less than savvy girls.
Agree to to the 50/50 online/text and see what kind of vibe you get from her in person. Then decide if she is going to have to go tend to a "family emergency' or otherwise have any idea she is going to flake otu. I doubt that if she has gone that far to have met , talked, meet and greet, social time and then be in your bedroom with a positive vibe, she's going to run off with $200 if there is $400 available for having some fun, with the possibility of a future.
Be aware, but don't treat them as professional working girls until such time as they make it clear they are... or you get authentic clues she is is. Even then, sometimes it's best to let them play out being a good girl gone bad for a night.
I'm pretty good at reading scammers so that's just my opinion.
Acronyms are def a no no but I must admit I sometimes like using a word “civilian” with them though. That look on their faces when they realize they are not really civilian anymore is pricelessGood points here about using the same direct language and questions as you would with an SP. As much as the SB world is similar to seeing escorts, the way a guy should play the game is very different IMO. Be a gentleman, and don’t us the hooker language or acronyms with sugar girls. Take your chances with things like DFK and BBBJ’s find out the answers when you’re getting naked and happy, and repeat if you like what you get. I’ve never had an SB who doesn’t do either BTW. It’s the pro’s who are more careful, they see way more guys and their risks are proportionately higher as a result.
I can’t help but wonder that a legitimate SB scam is the meet and greet payment.Hmm this one is unusually dumb indeed.
My somewhat recent weird encounter was a meet and greet (and ppm had been discussed and agreed to prior to it). During drinks I asked her if she was in the mood to seduce me today or if she wants to keep today platonic to which she responded that usually it takes four dates to consummate the relationship with her. I couldn’t believe what I heard. I’m like: why four? isn’t it pretty much three dates even in civilian culture? I told her that had I had patience for four platonic dates I’d be on Christin mingle. She then asked for some money for the meet and greet. While I could comp a honest prospective sb I had no desire to encourage the four dates behaviour and I plainly told her so. I reminded her that the one and only number we had discussed was $500 ppm and I had it in writing and she cannot tell me that she was hoping to make half a grand for having drinks with me. She said: “ but of course I’m asking you for less than that now”. I said “but why do you think that you provided any value? As far as I am concerned we had a deal, you reneged, we both wasted our time. Why do I owe you now and not the vice versa? Besides, I don’t want you to think that you can do this to other people” With that I paid our bill and bowed out…
Hey man, wtf - Rule 5 - no posting PMs publicly.You are just straight up lying lol. Stop this man it’s sad.
Did you actually meet her?. We met the same girl!!! She goes to Cambrian?
Has some good points but I would argue that with transactional we pay for discretion and woman will leaves us alone. Some women who requires much validation for sex are unstable and drama queens and can cause trouble for the dudeDoes She Have TRANSACTIONAL -OR- VALIDATIONAL Sex With You? ( KNOW The DIFFERENCE!!! )
With sugar girls you can get both at the same time. When all the stars align, and the mood is right, the validation sex can be awesome.Has some good points but I would argue that with transactional we pay for discretion and woman will leaves us alone. Some women who requires much validation for sex are unstable and drama queens and can cause trouble for the dude
I find that validation sex can be very dependent on the girls mood and can be very good or lacking. Transaction sex tends to be more consistent
U of G Gryphons flag football shirt? No idea if the pictures are really her.Did you actually meet her?
Always. No muss, no fuss, the way to go.If you just want to get laid, SPs are by far your best option.
Simply put Yes!!!Okay so this thread is 72 pages long so I'm not going to going through 72 pages to see if this has been posted already so I'm going see if I can get an answer here.
I heard something on these sites, if you get caught PMing each other discussing rates or things of that nature you get barred. Is this correct?
Absolutely, particularly on Seeking. They are US based and need to keep up the illusion that it’s only a dating site so they are very strict. Any hint of a sex for money transaction could get them in serious trouble with the US feds.Okay so this thread is 72 pages long so I'm not going to going through 72 pages to see if this has been posted already so I'm going see if I can get an answer here.
I heard something on these sites, if you get caught PMing each other discussing rates or things of that nature you get barred. Is this correct?
There is no consistency between sites, let alone within an individual site.Okay so this thread is 72 pages long so I'm not going to going through 72 pages to see if this has been posted already so I'm going see if I can get an answer here.
I heard something on these sites, if you get caught PMing each other discussing rates or things of that nature you get barred. Is this correct?
There is no consistency between sites, let alone within an individual site.
So the answer is "Maybe."
SeekingI didn't know there were different sites. I only know of seeking arrangement.
Don't forget to add that for $300 that includes HOURS of drinks, dinner, chit chat, and awkward groping in the parking lot for a $/H of what...$75/H?Currently conducting an experiment: people offer $300 for ppm (no screening, obviously). A monthly allowance that is deemed “reasonable” is $1400. This wouldn’t be so bad if the guy didn’t expect meeting every week, constant communication and exclusivity LMAO. You are just lowballing the shit out of SBs who know nothing about rates
Maybe you should send them links to this board they will figure it out fastCurrently conducting an experiment: people offer $300 for ppm (no screening, obviously). A monthly allowance that is deemed “reasonable” is $1400. This wouldn’t be so bad if the guy didn’t expect meeting every week, constant communication and exclusivity LMAO. You are just lowballing the shit out of SBs who know nothing about rates
I know right? One poor girl, I said I just want to meet for an hour of sex. Her thought process was…well it’s only an hour so how about $200 PPM . Oh my, I believe in karma so I forwarded her some tryst links…I think she was a little mad at herself as well as the two now ex-SDs she had . She still likes me for some reason . What goes around comes around….Poor girls.