i stopped engaging 19yo. Either scams or toe dippers and even if not, probably bad karma bc they are too young to be doing it anyway. Also flaky and delusional.I commonly say, when asked how much I'm willing to pay, I say that I don't know because I haven't met you. Neither of us has any idea if there's any attraction. If you'd like we can meet for drinks and/or dinner to see if there is some attraction and if so to discuss further details of an arrangement including financials. At that point, I make it known that there is no money paid unless we consummate the arrangement that evening and I'd pay the amount agreed upon.
The other day, I was chatting with a very cute 19 year old Asian. The prospects were looking good and then she hits me with her sob story that she has a deadline for tuition and she'll get kicked out of school unless she comes up with $1,000 and could I please help as both her parents were dead and she has nobody to turn to. I simply said that I don't send money to someone I've never met, a stranger. I said I've been burned too many times before. I can give you money if we meet. She pleaded and begged and made meaningless promises. Finally she quit and just said, "I'm screwed."
If she needed money so bad, why wouldn't she meet?
edit - asian SBs seem to have higher than average share of scams going on.
maybe because scammers believe that daddies who have yellow fever are particularly stupid or too obsessed to think straight?
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