Sugar Dating Experience

[Daddy2021]

Let’s try to be clear. No one is talking about sharing anything private, yes we can all agree that’s wrong.

All we’re talking about is sharing anything that is already publicly available.

People’s choices to share or not can still be respected. I’m just pissed off with Rocco’s holier than thou attitude towards me when I asked. Idgaf if you share or don’t. Dude just seemed really full of himself when responding to me which I didn’t appreciate given how much he talks on here about his rough sex escspades and constantly asking people for information. Selfish and rude in a community I think is meant to be open and non judgemental about this stuff.

With all do respect most of you act holier than thou. It’s embarrassing to be one of you and lumped in.

 

[ValuedSupporter]

how is seeking handles private information? Isn't it public by definition? Or even saying that PinkCherry12345 is good at sucking dick? Is that really wrong? We need to rethink this and be more open in sharing this info.

SBing is a kind of sex work and we are here to review sex work, aren't we?

Edit - or if one of your Sbs told another prospective SB that she can contact ValuedSupporter on terb or your handle on seeking and see if anything comes out of that, would that be really wrong? Or a privacy breach of any kind at all?

Then no doubt you’re completely confident in telling the SB what you’ve done right? I have no doubt she doesn’t have a different opinion - being the one discussed - than you right?

 

[Leimonis]

Wow you are really pushing to be right. You said ‘contact info’ not handle on the site. Huge difference pal.

Giving out her contact info other than handle would def be fucked up and creepy as hell - there’s no argument there

 

[SchlongConery]

Let’s try to be clear. No one is talking about sharing anything private, yes we can all agree that’s wrong.

All we’re talking about is sharing anything that is already publicly available.

People’s choices to share or not can still be respected. I’m just pissed off with Rocco’s holier than thou attitude towards me when I asked. Idgaf if you share or don’t. Dude just seemed really full of himself when responding to me which I didn’t appreciate given how much he talks on here about his rough sex escspades and constantly asking people for information. Selfish and rude in a community I think is meant to be open and non judgemental about this stuff.

I agree with the sentiment that it is not right to share private, direct contact info of SB's.

 

[rocco_s]

Bruh. No one gave you attitude, you’re projecting. You have an inflated sense of morality that you tried to preach to me to help you feel better about yourself I guess? I dunno and don’t care. Once you came at me with your faux virtuous bs I told you to get fucked then you came here to try to stroke your ego. Post the chat if you want, that’s literally how it went down.

I asked

You said you couldn’t, go find your own SAs

I said you could give me their profiles but it’s cool if you dont

You proceeded with your whack analysis of what’s right and wrong and asked patronizing questions

So once again, get fucked.

You asked for their contact information. Not their profile names. Do you not see how this would be odd? Asking a random stranger on a escort board for a sbs information to be given to a random individual? This is not the first time it has happened. I get these intrusive msgs frequently.

Sps are different. They advertise as sps. Some do more things than others. Last time I checked I have reviewed women and given feedback at a moderate rate.

I dont see you posting any reviews of sps.

 

[Leimonis]

find

You asked for their contact information. Not their profile names. Do you not see how this would be odd? Asking a random stranger on a escort board for a sbs information to be given to a random individual? This is not the first time it has happened. I get these intrusive msgs frequently.

Sps are different. They advertise as sps. Some do more things than others. Last time I checked I have reviewed women and given feedback at a moderate rate.

I dont see you posting any reviews of sps.

I also do routinely get these requests for ppl who never contribute and I ignore it

 

[rocco_s]

I also do routinely get these requests for ppl who never contribute and I ignore it

Funny part is he was just the tipping point of my frustration with lurkers on here who just take and do not contribute. I didn't even name him. Lol he outed himself.

 

[Leimonis]

Then no doubt you’re completely confident in telling the SB what you’ve done right? I have no doubt she doesn’t have a different opinion - being the one discussed - than you right?

I gave my friend my former SB's handle, he contacted her on the site, she took my friends money and fucked him. Why would I go to her and tell her what I've done? I mean I could, but I am not looking for a referral fee and I am not looking to speak with my exes. I'd refer to a landscaper the same way. Jesus H Christ. Enough with the whiteknighting.

 

[ValuedSupporter]

landscaper the same way

Enough with the whiteknighting.

I don't know about you but I don't get all that intimate with my landscaper in a potentially unsafe situation. Ever hear the term "False equivalence"?


"Stop calling me out on my bad behavior where I clearly have no idea what consent is and no desire to understand why"

 

[Leimonis]

I don't know about you but I don't get all that intimate with my landscaper in a potentially unsafe situation. Ever hear the term "False equivalence"?


"Stop calling me out on my bad behavior where I clearly have no idea what consent is and no desire to understand why"

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Your hat is weird and so are your posts. I’ll have to put you on ignore under nudnik category.

 

[Daddy2021]

This doesn’t make sense on more than one level.
1. Bros before ladies.
2. I’m not contacting my former SB to organize her dates because I want to keep it this way. Former. (And I’m not sharing my current SBs).
3. I’m not taking responsibility for my buddy behaviour. I don’t know how good a daddy he is. I hope he’s great but I don’t know. I can’t recommend him. I can only recommend her. She is on the site, she chose her profile to be open to the world, she gets contacted and she makes her free and voluntary decisions.

I can see how they may be unhappy if they are reviewed. But it’d be dumb to be unhappy if they are recommended.

Sorry but 1: having character, integrity and not being a douche before Bros. My circle that are my actual bros wouldn’t be so disrespectful. I’m not your bro and when I see a fellow comrade acting like a dink I say something. Why is that a hard concept to grasp? My ‘bros’ carry some sense of decency.

 

[Leimonis]

Sorry but 1: having character, integrity and not being a douche before Bros. My circle that are my actual bros wouldn’t be so disrespectful. I’m not your bro and when I see a fellow comrade acting like a dink I say something. Why is that a hard concept to grasp? My ‘bros’ carry some sense of decency.

I am not your bro either so I wouldn’t recommend or comment on an SB to you even if you asked and even if she was an actual SP pretending to be an SB. Ive been happily sugaring for more than ten years on and off and never ever has I encountered a concept of privacy attached to a handle on seeking that is open to the public. Not her private info, not her private pics, just the damn handle which a grown ass adult willingly puts out there in hope to be contacted by randos to make money.
Perhaps a concept of reviewing them on a board was a bit of a demented dream. Okay. But recommending to a personal friend? It’s not like it’s bypassing her screening process. She’s welcome to screen the fuck out of him and I don’t even need to know about this nor care. The one and only thing it does it helps a friend to sift through bots and scammers and toe dippers and get right to someone who is basically verified by me. There is nothing indecent or disrespectful about it in the fucking slightest. I can’t believe that we are seriously discussing it on an escort review board.

 

[Tony2000]

Scammers

Anyone else notice an uptick in the number of attempted scams on SA? There seem to be a lot lately.
My favourite was from a year ago. I arranged for a meet and greet with a potential SB. We had a nice lunch and she departed by saying that we should meet again.
Twenty minutes later she texts me to say she was in a car accident.
"Oh, that's awful," I respond, already smelling trouble.
"Yes, it's bad," she replies. "The tow truck came and I am at the body shop now. The manager says the repair is going to cost $1,050. I don't have enough money - can you lend me $500 and I can make it up when we meet next?"
"Wait a minute," I say. "You only only left our lunch 20 minutes ago and in that time the accident happened, the tow truck came and the manager instantly gave you an estimate?"
"Yes, exactly," she says.
"Well, I find that hard to believe," I text back, using my best Get Smart imitation.
"It's true! Can you help me out?"
"Umm .... no."
More back and forth before I finally block her.
I laughed so hard at the pathetic attempted scam. It was an annoying but fun experience.

 

[Prentice]

Yeah lots of time wasters and scammers which is why I don't use SA anymore. Wish there was a review board for them.

 

[dvous11]

Yeah lots of time wasters and scammers which is why I don't use SA anymore. Wish there was a review board for them.

You could always start a FB group for men to post and weed out SB scammers.
Women who use dating sites have done this to warn each other about men who've wronged them....whatever that means.

 

[Leimonis]

Scammers

Anyone else notice an uptick in the number of attempted scams on SA? There seem to be a lot lately.
My favourite was from a year ago. I arranged for a meet and greet with a potential SB. We had a nice lunch and she departed by saying that we should meet again.
Twenty minutes later she texts me to say she was in a car accident.
"Oh, that's awful," I respond, already smelling trouble.
"Yes, it's bad," she replies. "The tow truck came and I am at the body shop now. The manager says the repair is going to cost $1,050. I don't have enough money - can you lend me $500 and I can make it up when we meet next?"
"Wait a minute," I say. "You only only left our lunch 20 minutes ago and in that time the accident happened, the tow truck came and the manager instantly gave you an estimate?"
"Yes, exactly," she says.
"Well, I find that hard to believe," I text back, using my best Get Smart imitation.
"It's true! Can you help me out?"
"Umm .... no."
More back and forth before I finally block her.
I laughed so hard at the pathetic attempted scam. It was an annoying but fun experience.

Hmm this one is unusually dumb indeed.
My somewhat recent weird encounter was a meet and greet (and ppm had been discussed and agreed to prior to it). During drinks I asked her if she was in the mood to seduce me today or if she wants to keep today platonic to which she responded that usually it takes four dates to consummate the relationship with her. I couldn’t believe what I heard. I’m like: why four? isn’t it pretty much three dates even in civilian culture? I told her that had I had patience for four platonic dates I’d be on Christin mingle. She then asked for some money for the meet and greet. While I could comp a honest prospective sb I had no desire to encourage the four dates behaviour and I plainly told her so. I reminded her that the one and only number we had discussed was $500 ppm and I had it in writing and she cannot tell me that she was hoping to make half a grand for having drinks with me. She said: “ but of course I’m asking you for less than that now”. I said “but why do you think that you provided any value? As far as I am concerned we had a deal, you reneged, we both wasted our time. Why do I owe you now and not the vice versa? Besides, I don’t want you to think that you can do this to other people” With that I paid our bill and bowed out…

 

[josephkuhr]

You asked for their contact information. Not their profile names. Do you not see how this would be odd? Asking a random stranger on a escort board for a sbs information to be given to a random individual? This is not the first time it has happened. I get these intrusive msgs frequently.

Sps are different. They advertise as sps. Some do more things than others. Last time I checked I have reviewed women and given feedback at a moderate rate.

I dont see you posting any reviews of sps.

You are just straight up lying lol. Stop this man it’s sad.

 

[rocco_s]

You are just straight up lying lol. Stop this man it’s sad.

Contact information means their number to the lamen person.

Or am I supposed to assume and read your mind to mean their sa profile to sceenshot to msg you?

 

[josephkuhr]

Contact information means their number to the lamen person.

Or am I supposed to assume and read your mind to mean their sa profile to sceenshot to msg you?

Ok. Let’s just leave this at a misunderstanding and move on. No hard feelings dude.

 

[shack]

Hmm this one is unusually dumb indeed.
My somewhat recent weird encounter was a meet and greet (and ppm had been discussed and agreed to prior to it). During drinks I asked her if she was in the mood to seduce me today or if she wants to keep today platonic to which she responded that usually it takes four dates to consummate the relationship with her. I couldn’t believe what I heard. I’m like: why four? isn’t it pretty much three dates even in civilian culture? I told her that had I had patience for four platonic dates I’d be on Christin mingle. She then asked for some money for the meet and greet. While I could comp a honest prospective sb I had no desire to encourage the four dates behaviour and I plainly told her so. I reminded her that the one and only number we had discussed was $500 ppm and I had it in writing and she cannot tell me that she was hoping to make half a grand for having drinks with me. She said: “ but of course I’m asking you for less than that now”. I said “but why do you think that you provided any value? As far as I am concerned we had a deal, you reneged, we both wasted our time. Why do I owe you now and not the vice versa? Besides, I don’t want you to think that you can do this to other people” With that I paid our bill and bowed out…

I commonly say, when asked how much I'm willing to pay, I say that I don't know because I haven't met you. Neither of us has any idea if there's any attraction. If you'd like we can meet for drinks and/or dinner to see if there is some attraction and if so to discuss further details of an arrangement including financials. At that point, I make it known that there is no money paid unless we consummate the arrangement that evening and I'd pay the amount agreed upon.

The other day, I was chatting with a very cute 19 year old Asian. The prospects were looking good and then she hits me with her sob story that she has a deadline for tuition and she'll get kicked out of school unless she comes up with $1,000 and could I please help as both her parents were dead and she has nobody to turn to. I simply said that I don't send money to someone I've never met, a stranger. I said I've been burned too many times before. I can give you money if we meet. She pleaded and begged and made meaningless promises. Finally she quit and just said, "I'm screwed."

If she needed money so bad, why wouldn't she meet?