Sugar Dating Experience

[Uuoomkin12]

The issue that most SB don't realize is that many of us also have to include hotel costs into the cost of the meet. Unless you live alone or even better you find a unicorn that can host.

Most I've done for a meet is 600 and I regretted it as soon as I said goodbye to her. She was 24, Indonesian with a tight body. Incredibly tight and was amazingly wet the entire time. Her face while I was fucking her was pretty amazing - she ended up leaving scratch marks all over my arms. But at the end of the day it cost me 800+ all in which could have been been 3-4 sessions with an SP. Despite how hot it was I'm not calling her back.

 

[waxtrax]

If the girl is pretty, and has her act (mostly) together, and has looked on Reddit or some other boards, she is gong to ask for $500. The strange part is recently I proposed to a good looking SA girl $400, the girl responded "not worth my time", now I see she is a full on escort for $400/hour. Go figure!

Literally when she say not worth her time, is it because she knows as escort, one hour is one hour....whereas for the same money in sugar dating, time can be longer. More difficult for them to just end it after one hour? Idk just a thought.

 

[jsanchez]

The issue that most SB don't realize is that many of us also have to include hotel costs into the cost of the meet. Unless you live alone or even better you find a unicorn that can host...

If she can host she's likely an sp.

 

[Sugarsweet905]

If she can host she's likely an sp.

If you are meeting Co-eds that is likely, but I have met young professionals, single mothers, etc. Who can easily host.

 

[Liam011]

If you are meeting Co-eds that is likely, but I have met young professionals, single mothers, etc. Who can easily host.

That has also been my experience. Mind you, 30 is the lower age limit for me so I tend to meet women who at least partially have their shit together.

 

[Oliverleo]

I'm curious to know how other people have experienced sugar dating.
I started doing it right before the pandemic... and I already don't even remember how many girls I've met up with.
I'm almost 50 and they've ranged in age from 20 to 50 with the 50 year old as well as a couple of others not even wanting any money, just a fun time.

I have a feeling that I might be better looking than most because I usually only pay a couple of hundred dollars each time we meet... and I think they like the fact that they can choose who they want to be with so it's not a SP situation.

Sounds like you've had a pretty interesting journey in the sugar dating scene. It's great when it feels more like mutual enjoyment rather than purely transactional. Do you find age makes a difference in the connection?

 

[Urbanexplorer]

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I shouldn't jinx myself but I've been on a hot streak lately. In the last month I've found and met 1 19 y.o. black girl (Humber student) who's cute and smart and is much less innocent than she looks. We hang out for 6-8 hours, fuck, watch movies (she cried at the end of Cuckoo's Nest) and then go for round 2 before I take her back to her mom's house. She says she has an 18 y.o. friend who wants to join us.

The second girl is also black and 20. Smoking body and dresses to show it off. Student at York. While messaging on the site, one of the first things she asked me is if I'm dominant. She likes to be physically abused and verbally degraded. We've had two dates so far and she's slept over both times. I've slapped her and choked her and called her lots of names. She wants to continue because she "likes the way I treat her". She's out of my league in the looks and age departments, yet she wants me, an older dad-bod guy to control her sexually. She wants to "be my toy". I'm going to see if she'll let me totally control the relationship and she'll be subservient to me. Nothing forceful, of course. I'll ask if she thinks that would be appealing to her. Fingers crossed. It sounds like fun.

The max I'll pay is $400 for anyone and they are both within my budget.

And just this morning, I'm chatting on the site with two more black seriously pretty cuties (I haven't been with a white girl for a couple of years). One is 22 and the other is 19. They both have very sweet bodies, petite and slim athletic. The 22 y.o. is only looking for hookups and said her price is $200. I'm hot for her so I offered $250 for 3 hours confirming there will be sex and she just asked for my address. I'm working on the 19 y.o. who's never been with an older guy convincing her about how older guys know how to treat girls her age much better than the younger ones.

They're either going to kill me or bankrupt me. That's potentially 5 girls.

(I hope I haven't just jinxed myself.)

You are my spirit animal. I find myself on a hot streak. I’ll DM you to discuss enterprising opportunities

 

[xix]

If she can host she's likely an sp.

Not really, there are rare ones.
My co worker had a script play by play scenario.
Every other weekend she had fun and on Monday she show up with a big grin on her face, then she started the Caribbean vacations.
Some people like it to be special.

 

[shack]

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You are my spirit animal. I find myself on a hot streak. I’ll DM you to discuss enterprising opportunities

Would love to share experiences with you. But just online, of course. LOL

 

[Urbanexplorer]

Would love to share experiences with you. But just online, of course. LOL

I concur.

 

[shack]

Exactly, even from the girl pov, you think they would want to check me out first as well before some private fun. Common sense to me.

Precisely. A true SB wants to protect herself. A professional SP is looking for a client.

Many times I ask if this is something new for them and if so if they are excited or nervous about meeting SDs. If they're not nervous, they're a pro.

 

[shack]

If she can host she's likely an sp.

My strong preference is to host. I can set the mood, offer food, drinks, music, candles etc. Those are things that will make a true SB feel more comfortable. Sps don't give a shit. When chatting with a potential SB and they want to host, I ask "So your are more comfortable with incalls?" If they understand what "incall" means, they have exposed themselves as being a pro.

 

[jsanchez]

Many times I ask if this is something new for them and if so if they are excited or nervous about meeting SDs. If they're not nervous, they're a pro.

Good tip.

My strong preference is to host. I can set the mood, offer food, drinks, music, candles etc. Those are things that will make a true SB feel more comfortable. Sps don't give a shit. When chatting with a potential SB and they want to host, I ask "So your are more comfortable with incalls?" If they understand what "incall" means, they have exposed themselves as being a pro.

I assume after the initial M&G? Thought hosting at your place was an absolute no-no.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

Sounds like you've had a pretty interesting journey in the sugar dating scene. It's great when it feels more like mutual enjoyment rather than purely transactional. Do you find age makes a difference in the connection?

I’m not really sure, I definitely look young for my age and most importantly treat the girls like it’s a pretty straightforward date. I’m sure there are some 30-40 girls that would be fine with dating a guy in his 60s and likely a grey hair factor where most girls in the 19-28 don’t want a guy with lots of grey I’m guessing. And more than age if you have a six pack, great smile and are genuinely nice (not reliant on your high end vehicle status haha) that’s likely the biggest thing

 

[shack]

I assume after the initial M&G? Thought hosting at your place was an absolute no-no.

Not necessarily. If I can get them here, 94.475% that I'll be fucking them without an allowance being agreed upon, prior.

I'm willing to do a M&G and have previously done so, but I'll usually get a good sense of if they're real or not by our prior discussions. If they can come here without negotiating a price, they're most likely not a pro. A pro needs to know what they'll be getting. They won't leave it open ended.

 

[Alloy123]

Bottle service girls are definitely pricing themselves over 500 nowadays. They probably get offers in the clubs that are closer to a grand. Drugs and drama certainly are a part of the package

The fuck is bottle service girls?

 

[cheektocheek]

Is Secret benefits still have to buy with Bitcoin

 

[Hipjdog]

Can I ask you guys a question? If I think about doing this or trying the sugar baby experience.Whats the average pay I should give and for what length of time?

Regarding pay: the broad answer is 'whatever you and the woman agree to'. Typically in Toronto, you're looking at somewhere between 400-600 for each meet,
though some girls want far more and some (typically inexperienced) girls will be ok with less.

Length of time: unlike with an SP, there is no running clock, so again the answer is 'whatever you two agree to'. Generally, a meet may be something like 3-4 hours
and would include hanging out, maybe getting some food as well as intimacy.

 

[Hipjdog]

Thank you I appreciate that .I had one bite on sugar daddy site and the lady asked for 3,000 a week. I did not reply to her. I just wasnt sure what the norm is for that experience.

Keep trying. There are far more sensible options out there.

 

[Urbanexplorer]

Can I ask you guys a question? If I think about doing this or trying the sugar baby experience.Whats the average pay I should give and for what length of time?

If you can afford it go strong with 500. I was trying to get a good deal for a while, 300-400. But in their minds they are for sale not rent. That extra money, I am on an absolute rampage.