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Yes. One in particular and it taught me to be a lot more careful and use a text app. At least when first messaging. That also shows the advantage of using a SP so you can pretty much avoid what could become a horrible situation.

Mine was threatening to expose me to my family and there really wouldn’t be anything I could do about it. And I never even met the girl in real life. When it was happening I was thinking “oh well I deserve it” - but no one deserves to be threatened.
I consistently expose myself. Fortunately I have no SO and no professional career or employer that I have to be concerned about.
 

Oliverleo

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I think it does because just grabbing a bite or a drink to make sure you’re both normal people (in my case discreetly) can be a great ice breaker. Then get to know each other and discuss where to go from there. Some can’t hold a conversation, some end up being in the same industry so we have lots in common, some there are sparks flying (which is always a bit weird because they could be my daughter), some are attractive but really young and the age gap and their lack of experience in the world isn’t a match at all.
It sounds like the casual approach helps keep things natural and lets genuine connections come through. I can see how meeting people with a shared background or interests would make things more engaging. The age gap dynamic must be interesting too probably adds another layer when you’re connecting on some levels but not on others. Have you found any common traits that make for the best connections, regardless of age?
 

Hipjdog

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It sounds like the casual approach helps keep things natural and lets genuine connections come through. I can see how meeting people with a shared background or interests would make things more engaging. The age gap dynamic must be interesting too probably adds another layer when you’re connecting on some levels but not on others. Have you found any common traits that make for the best connections, regardless of age?
I've found looking for someone who matches your vibe and shared interests works best. There are some girls on the sites who I like physically, but I can tell by their profile (or their decision to not even
bother filling out a profile) that we aren't going to be a match. You can usually sus this out within a few exchanges on the site.

Obviously, everyone is looking for something different. For me, if the girl responds with a positive attitude, questions for me, and at least reasonable punctuation and grammar that is a huge green flag.
 

FunInToronto2023

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It sounds like the casual approach helps keep things natural and lets genuine connections come through. I can see how meeting people with a shared background or interests would make things more engaging. The age gap dynamic must be interesting too probably adds another layer when you’re connecting on some levels but not on others. Have you found any common traits that make for the best connections, regardless of age?
For sure if you’re in the same industry that can definitely help and I’ve met several girls that happen to be in mine. And we end up having several mutual connections which is weird at first because I’ve even been out at events and run into some of them. I was at a fun event and had a business owner introduce me to one of his new key people and it was a girl I had just hooked up with at her place maybe a month earlier which was pretty wild. Another lesson to always part ways on a really good note in the personal and business world.
 

FunInToronto2023

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I've found looking for someone who matches your vibe and shared interests works best. There are some girls on the sites who I like physically, but I can tell by their profile (or their decision to not even
bother filling out a profile) that we aren't going to be a match. You can usually sus this out within a few exchanges on the site.

Obviously, everyone is looking for something different. For me, if the girl responds with a positive attitude, questions for me, and at least reasonable punctuation and grammar that is a huge green flag.
For sure and that’s a really good point. Great attitude, basically full sentences and “normal” where they have their own career on the go is far more likely to be successful I find. At least for more than one hookup.
I just got home from hooking up with a really nice SP and it was a great time as far as SP’s go but it was missing a more genuine connection and for 300 would have been better for me to see a SB but oh well nbd (and that was with tons of DFK, BBBJ X 2, FS x 2 in the hour plus we talked each other’s ear off. So challenging to satiate the addiction and definitely DFK, digits and sucking on titties of a 21 year old non-pro satiates the most.
 

Liam011

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I've found looking for someone who matches your vibe and shared interests works best. There are some girls on the sites who I like physically, but I can tell by their profile (or their decision to not even
bother filling out a profile) that we aren't going to be a match. You can usually sus this out within a few exchanges on the site.

Obviously, everyone is looking for something different. For me, if the girl responds with a positive attitude, questions for me, and at least reasonable punctuation and grammar that is a huge green flag.
Perfectly said. Matches almost exactly with my approach as well.

Whenever I have the itch for just a flawless body, perfect young face and PSE that's what SPs are for. When I want someone to get to know as well as develop a small FWB relationship with over time and still be "intimate" with, that's what SBs are for.
(it took me a long time and a couple of tumultuous long term "arrangements" with SPs before I figured out the two types exist for different purposes).
 

waxtrax

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Perfectly said. Matches almost exactly with my approach as well.

Whenever I have the itch for just a flawless body, perfect young face and PSE that's what SPs are for. When I want someone to get to know as well as develop a small FWB relationship with over time and still be "intimate" with, that's what SBs are for.
(it took me a long time and a couple of tumultuous long term "arrangements" with SPs before I figured out the two types exist for different purposes).
So in other words, those really hot(SB) ones are fakes, don't really exist or super expensive? Maybe that's my problem, my eyes will gravitate towards the hot ones first. I don't really hobby much in the SP world either but I can understand what you mean, it's a very "in and out" kind of service. I always feel rushed like I'm missing that connection.
 

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So in other words, those really hot(SB) ones are fakes, don't really exist or super expensive? Maybe that's my problem, my eyes will gravitate towards the hot ones first. I don't really hobby much in the SP world either but I can understand what you mean, it's a very "in and out" kind of service. I always feel rushed like I'm missing that connection.
There are unicorns on there...girls you find really hot that actually want to meet with you. It just won't be every time. Be patient and you'll be all good.
 

FunInToronto2023

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I consistently expose myself. Fortunately I have no SO and no professional career or employer that I have to be concerned about.
If I didn’t have a SO this whole thing would mess me up even more by not having to be discreet. Or I’d probably just go on Tinder and have fun all the time. Actually that’s how I started out before seeing MPAs, SPs and then SBs and was lucky none of the girls told on me.
 

FunInToronto2023

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So in other words, those really hot(SB) ones are fakes, don't really exist or super expensive? Maybe that's my problem, my eyes will gravitate towards the hot ones first. I don't really hobby much in the SP world either but I can understand what you mean, it's a very "in and out" kind of service. I always feel rushed like I'm missing that connection.
No I’ve hooked up with several SB’s that any guy would say holy fk she’s crazy hot. They definitely exist.
 

FunInToronto2023

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There are unicorns on there...girls you find really hot that actually want to meet with you. It just won't be every time. Be patient and you'll be all good.
100% I’m always surprised at how gorgeous some of them are and it’s happened so many times. Feels like being 25 again and they totally want to smash not just get paid. They love that an older guy can make them O and treats them like a princess, it’s like the cash becomes an added bonus and a huge win-win.
 
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You guys know if there are any free video calling feature on these text app? Obviously I don't want to use my main number thru my regular apps. I'm using Textnow but they removed that feature now.
Use Snapchat. Most girls have it, it's discreet to set up, and has both audio only and video chat options.
 

Leimonis

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Use Snapchat. Most girls have it, it's discreet to set up, and has both audio only and video chat options.
It’s so annoying that messages disappear though ugh
 

Oliverleo

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For sure if you’re in the same industry that can definitely help and I’ve met several girls that happen to be in mine. And we end up having several mutual connections which is weird at first because I’ve even been out at events and run into some of them. I was at a fun event and had a business owner introduce me to one of his new key people and it was a girl I had just hooked up with at her place maybe a month earlier which was pretty wild. Another lesson to always part ways on a really good note in the personal and business world.
It must be interesting to navigate both personal and professional connections like that. It definitely highlights the importance of maintaining good relationships, as you never know when paths might cross again. Have you found that those shared industry experiences lead to more meaningful connections?
 

Oliverleo

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I've found looking for someone who matches your vibe and shared interests works best. There are some girls on the sites who I like physically, but I can tell by their profile (or their decision to not even
bother filling out a profile) that we aren't going to be a match. You can usually sus this out within a few exchanges on the site.

Obviously, everyone is looking for something different. For me, if the girl responds with a positive attitude, questions for me, and at least reasonable punctuation and grammar that is a huge green flag.
That makes a lot of sense matching on personality and vibe goes a long way, especially when someone puts in the effort to connect meaningfully. Those small details like attitude, engagement, and even taking time to build out their profile do say a lot. It sounds like you've developed a good filter for finding genuine connections! Have you had any memorable experiences that really stood out in a positive way?
 

FunInToronto2023

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It must be interesting to navigate both personal and professional connections like that. It definitely highlights the importance of maintaining good relationships, as you never know when paths might cross again. Have you found that those shared industry experiences lead to more meaningful connections?
Yes it does and at least 4 or 5 girls I’ve been able to steer in the right direction for their career path and give some pretty solid advice that’s helped them, which is nice to help them out and probably worth a lot more than any funds they’ve been given.
 
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Ahertz

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I find with sugar that I usually only see once and have quite a bit of texting that leads up to the first encounter to get to know one another.

The process, although it takes time, is quite addictive. I met a 19 year old about a month ago who works as a server. Super hot, about 5'1". Absolutely amazing DFK in the back of my car and she was so fucking horny it wasn't funny.... she climbed on top, my pants and underwear were down, I'm being smothered with full teen lips and tongue, she moved her panties to one side and started rubbing her soaking wet P over my C and had this cute high pitched little moan/squeak.
It was just like when we were all horny teens back in the day. And then she said "I want you to put it in me".... seriously it was as exciting as being 19 yourself again I was absolutely in awe she was so into it.

That's why it's hard to not keep seeing some of them I guess.
Did you put it in her with no condom. If so this is crazy!!!
 
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