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Leimonis

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Well there's an idea. Maybe there are some older Asian girls, say mid 40s that would work for an hourly wage. Pool 15 girls at $3K/mo that's $45K and then get 50 clients to pay $5K/mo for that service. Girls just spend their time going to the same 50 apartments.
If this proposition could bring joy to any man for any price, god bless them. If I was told that I had to be consistently doing several mid 40 women that would work for minimal wage, my first thought would be "shoot me in the head right now".
 

systemerror

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Anyone else notice a big price jump on SA? Used to be girls were generally asking for 400-500, but now it seems to be almost nothing but 1k ppm.
Has gone up a bit recently but it was bound to happen with prices going up overall for standard of living. Still a bunch you can find for 4-5 but that's minimum now I'd say. May find the odd ones for less but they're typically sub standard looks anyway. Just move on if they ask that much and not within your range, but some are a bit outrageous asking 8K+ allowance of 2k PPM.
 

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Has gone up a bit recently but it was bound to happen with prices going up overall for standard of living. Still a bunch you can find for 4-5 but that's minimum now I'd say. May find the odd ones for less but they're typically sub standard looks anyway. Just move on if they ask that much and not within your range, but some are a bit outrageous asking 8K+ allowance of 2k PPM.
I'm kind of shocked but not surprised. Couple SPs who used to be SBs told me they got those 2K+ PPM but mind you they're quite hot tho. Sad thing is if someone are willing to pay and there are quite a few, it's hard to compete. And once they had a taste of 1-2k ppm, why would they go down.
 
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Leimonis

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I'm kind of shocked but not surprised. Couple SPs who used to be SBs told me they got those 2K+ PPM but mind you they're quite hot tho. Sad thing is if someone are willing to pay and there are quite a few, it's hard to compete. And once they had a taste of 1-2k ppm, why would they go down.
And yet they did go down and now they are doing half hours with complete strangers in a seedy hotel room…
 
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I've done $1K quite a few times for 10/10 girls, great connection, great time... Traveled, did literally everything. Great memories. I think if the girl is mid 20s and not seeing anyone else, and you have a good level of trust between the two of you, it's worth it. Sure is cheaper than wives. lol

Edit: Since we're chatting about hourly, should also mention that our dates were anywhere from 3-5hrs. It was an afternoon and then some.
 
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Leimonis

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I've done $1K quite a few times for 10/10 girls, great connection, great time... Traveled, did literally everything. Great memories. I think if the girl is mid 20s and not seeing anyone else, and you have a good level of trust between the two of you, it's worth it. Sure is cheaper than wives. lol

Edit: Since we're chatting about hourly, should also mention that our dates were anywhere from 3-5hrs. It was an afternoon and then some.
Interesting. Anything is cheaper than wives lol this is hardly a good measuring stick :) but sounds like you have been lucky, good for you. For me those 10/10 girls are still a hit and miss just like 7/10s. And they often have aftermarket parts which I am not a fan of.
 

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I've done $1K quite a few times for 10/10 girls, great connection, great time... Traveled, did literally everything. Great memories. I think if the girl is mid 20s and not seeing anyone else, and you have a good level of trust between the two of you, it's worth it. Sure is cheaper than wives. lol

Edit: Since we're chatting about hourly, should also mention that our dates were anywhere from 3-5hrs. It was an afternoon and then some.

Ahh ok that makes sense if you're able to spend multiple hours. Not a bad deal!
 
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What's the going rate nowadays? I have been out of the game for about 1 year. Was around 300 to 500 ppm. Got some overnights for that. I reconnected with one east european sb who was 400 around 4 years ago. 10/10. Pure slave. But is $1200 now for overnights.
 

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What's the going rate nowadays? I have been out of the game for about 1 year. Was around 300 to 500 ppm. Got some overnights for that. I reconnected with one east european sb who was 400 around 4 years ago. 10/10. Pure slave. But is $1200 now for overnights.
Yea, I am getting a lot of requests for 1k for an evening. Not what it was a few years ago!
I just pass the keep looking. Not in any rush to find someone.
 

RobI

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A recent Seeking conversation with a cute SB. I know there has been inflation , but where are they getting the numbers from ?

Do you have a compensation amount in mind ?
her - 2000
? Allowance per month ? Could you ever host/entertain at your place ?

her - Per month 4000. I want to get my own place soon if I do then yes just have to save a bit more
That's nuts, maybe in NYC or Miami, but not Toronto. sounds like she's trying to get her own place paid for by you.
 
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Leimonis

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That's nuts, maybe in NYC or Miami, but not Toronto. sounds like she's trying to get her own place paid for by you.
Having a place paid for by an SD is not unreasonable in the sense that a quarter of a monthly rent has been a rather commonly accepted yardstick for ppm.
In other words if an SB is worth seeing four times a month it’s not crazy that these four ppms cover her rent.
In fact one of my sbs has that exact arrangement with her other SD.
 

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Question about SDM.

I’ve used Seeking for several years with good success, and also had a profile on Secret Benefits for a while (until I learned my lesson lol). After reading suggestions in this thread I set up a SDM profile a few days ago, but the photo requirements have me a bit confused. Apparently you have to have a full face pic as your main profile pic? WTF?? According to the girls I’ve met in the sugar world, at least half of the guys on the sugar sites are married, and there is no way most guys like me are putting our full, clear faces on there for everyone to see. Full pic to the girl once you start to chat?, sure, but my main has always been either blurred or just a torso shot of my well dressed frame. It’s never failed me.

Why would SDM want to exclude married, and rightly cautious, guys from being front and centre on their site? And does anyone know of a work around to the problem?
No, I've never put a unblurred facial picture up. I do have one in the private section. Mind you, I don't use any from social media, too, just because some of these photo-matching search engines are pretty good. I'd say go with one that has your face, but cover the eyes or something, upload it and see if they complain.

btw, I've got some more leads if anyone is looking in the GTA.
 

RobI

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Having a place paid for by an SD is not unreasonable in the sense that a quarter of a monthly rent has been a rather commonly accepted yardstick for ppm.
In other words if an SB is worth seeing four times a month it’s not crazy that these four ppms cover her rent.
In fact one of my sbs has that exact arrangement with her other SD.
Maybe, I think most girls are seeing 2-3 different guys if they have bills like that. Three dadies together might cover your rent, but unless you're an older very successful guy, most of us can't just drop $2k on one girl. Just my experience.
 
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RobI

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What's the going rate nowadays? I have been out of the game for about 1 year. Was around 300 to 500 ppm. Got some overnights for that. I reconnected with one east european sb who was 400 around 4 years ago. 10/10. Pure slave. But is $1200 now for overnights.
Depends, $300 is good if you can get that (I've seen 1-2 in the last year who did that - not models, but normal girls), but $500 for a few hours together is pretty reasonable still from what I hear from other guys I trade with.
A lot of this also has to do with you too, there isn't a really a fixed price.
 

Leimonis

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Maybe, I think most girls are seeing 2-3 different guys if they have bills like that. Three dadies together might cover your rent, but unless you're an older very successful guy, most of us can't just drop $2k on one girl. Just my experience.
Then again, some chicks expect to be flown places :)this is my convo right now :)
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Not going to pay more than 400/500. Lots of hotties out there that agree. Fuck them good for a few hours. Helps to look decent, well groomed and able to hold a conversation
 
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