What is the purpose of blocking? Just tell her that she's out of your range and then don't reply to her messages.
Sugar Dating Experience
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Then she’s gonna change pics and you’ll be hitting her again and wasting time. I dunno, I like blocking. I brings finality. Like she’s not gonna hit you with “oh I have a 60% off this week”. She’s always gonna feel like you should have paid more. It’s not gonna be good so why see her face on your screen one time more than you have to?
Last I saw was a few weeks ago . 20% was common ; occasionally 25% off. I had emails for 33 % off . That worked at least 6 mths later . Didn't work for my recent month membership payment . I did get 20% off though. There was a Free 1 Hour Premium Package several times last March .what happened to the promo code window when paying on seeking? I am trying to pay and I can't see it now
it ain't much but still annoying
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A winner …smh
checking - your profile - platonic = no sex . I'm looking for an ongoing arrangement with a lady who loves sex
Her -I meant platonic as in friends with benefits, keeping it casual
Her- Sex is fine if im getting $
Good morning . Do you have a compensation amount in mind ?
checking - your profile - platonic = no sex . I'm looking for an ongoing arrangement with a lady who loves sex
Her -I meant platonic as in friends with benefits, keeping it casual
Her- Sex is fine if im getting $
Good morning . Do you have a compensation amount in mind ?
I’m curious what’s the first language and age (let alone the real concern which would be her IQ) of someone who believes that platonic means sex for money.
When I first started in the Sugar world SB was the one I used. It looks like more girls are verified now, and experience from guys here seems to suggest that sticking to verified profiles is the way to go. So maybe things have changed.
When I used it there were fewer verified profiles and in my opinion it was a scam.
Here’s the scenario that played out, I’d be interested to know if this sounds familiar to any one else:
I’d spend credits to reach out to girls and the reply rate was low to nothing. OK, I’d think, maybe it's me, there must be thousands of guys on here. Then I’d get messages from new “girls” I’d never seen before, spend the credits to reply and never hear back. There were times when I was at my desk and saw a message so I’d reply literally within seconds. Still crickets. I’d spend more credits to see if my reply had been read and most of the time it hadn’t. Coincidentally the only time I seemed to have any successful communication was when I was getting really low on credits. Surprise, surprise I might hear from a real woman and be able to respond. Until I slapped down my CC for more credits like a dopamine fuelled addict of course, then the real ladies seemed to dry up.
The only success I ever had on SB was when I was about to give up. My suspicion is that their algorithm is designed exactly this way to keep sucking cash from guys.I found I had way more luck on a regular subscription site like SA where I could send messages to as many girls as I wanted and widen my net, with a much higher reply rate. I was on SA for less than a week and had 2 M&G’s
Just IMO of course. YMMV.
So you think the ones that sent you messages in the beginning are like fake accounts(bots) set up from the algorithm then towards the end, it would somehow allowed real girls to send you messages?Here’s the scenario that played out, I’d be interested to know if this sounds familiar to any one else:
I’d spend credits to reach out to girls and the reply rate was low to nothing. OK, I’d think, maybe it's me, there must be thousands of guys on here. Then I’d get messages from new “girls” I’d never seen before, spend the credits to reply and never hear back. There were times when I was at my desk and saw a message so I’d reply literally within seconds. Still crickets. I’d spend more credits to see if my reply had been read and most of the time it hadn’t. Coincidentally the only time I seemed to have any successful communication was when I was getting really low on credits. Surprise, surprise I might hear from a real woman and be able to respond. Until I slapped down my CC for more credits like a dopamine fuelled addict of course, then the real ladies seemed to dry up.
I found I had way more luck on a regular subscription site like SA where I could send messages to as many girls as I wanted and widen my net, with a much higher reply rate. I was on SA for less than a week and had 2 M&G’s
Just IMO of course. YMMV.
That’s my guess. What I eventually got was replies from messages I’d sent, but not necessarily recently. The only girl I ever ended up seeing from SB was as I was about to give up. She told me that she had just seen my message when she replied, but I’d sent it over a week earlier and it wasn’t read at the time.
The popular real girls on all the sites get a lot of messages in their inboxes. So my hunch is that when you get low on credits the site moves your messages to the top of their inbox, so they are more likely to see it, and thus reply if they’re interested. That way you actually get the feeling of success, and the real girl is actually an unwitting pawn in the scheme.
If I was an unscrupulous website operator that’s sure what I’d do.
Once you reload credits you go back to the bottom, and get the bot accounts sending you messages etc… and the cycle repeats. It might be different if you spend the big $$ for huge amounts of credits. But that too is just a hunch.
Yeah, totally agree. I have Indian Punjab SB who is asking $500 for six hours. ( single day ) I need book a hotel plus buy lunch. 23 yrs good looking but sex part no close to SP, very inexperienced. Took her couple of times and banged her now I am thinking kind of not worth the money.
Hey Everyone, Ive been on SA for some time now and seen a few girls, Ive recently had a trip back home and noticed that the SDs there have created a TG group to weed out the scammers and I found it quite useful and saved me time, effort and $$.. I have had some wonderful experiences on the site but also had to deal with my fair share of bad apples.. wondering if theres something similar for us here in Toronto, else maybe we could all create a similar group to share our findings.. Im sure SDs might not want to share info about their fav SBs, but we could all pool our collective info to avoid the bad ones and scammers
Fake bot accounts exists on all dating sites, they are they to get users to spend money and use the credits and reload.
I left SA and never bothered with other ones.
If you do match up with an SB, make sure you both agree on the arrangement before you meet or in the first meeting to level expectations.
When I was on... it went on a few dates with the SBs (I paid for dinner) to see if there was a connection before we both agreed on moving forward.
I had one date where we went for dinner and she wanted to go back to my place, we chatted some more and once she saw my condo view and wanted to move to the bedroom. We had fun a few times before she moved.
I left SA and never bothered with other ones.
If you do match up with an SB, make sure you both agree on the arrangement before you meet or in the first meeting to level expectations.
When I was on... it went on a few dates with the SBs (I paid for dinner) to see if there was a connection before we both agreed on moving forward.
I had one date where we went for dinner and she wanted to go back to my place, we chatted some more and once she saw my condo view and wanted to move to the bedroom. We had fun a few times before she moved.
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Been a while since I've entertained any of this SA stuff. I did two arrangements concurrently from 2023 to early 2024. Two girls: 21 and 25. It was great. Honestly what really got me excited was not using condoms. I can fuck for over an hour and that just doesn't work with condoms. I'd go to HFC every 2-3 months. The girls did once at first and then that was it. I did a bunch of other one-timers during that period of time as well. When I did the math, for a period of about a year I had sex every 2.93 days. lol. Total spend was almost $100K.
For the past few months I've hobby'd sparingly. Dated a couple girls for a few weeks, if that. The vanilla dating world is pretty bleak. I think I'd get along well with an older person, say in their mid 40s. But... then I think about all the fun I can have with 4-5 girls in rotation...
And then last week I was at some guy's place and learned that he pays a monthly rate of say, $3000 and gets a rotation of 4-6 girls. They just drop by his house... hang out... he fucks them... and either they leave or he takes them wherever he's going. Some guy organizes it all. Got me thinking...
You'd have to know an agency owner with women who have a bit of extra time. Anyone else on monthlies, like that? Haha
For the past few months I've hobby'd sparingly. Dated a couple girls for a few weeks, if that. The vanilla dating world is pretty bleak. I think I'd get along well with an older person, say in their mid 40s. But... then I think about all the fun I can have with 4-5 girls in rotation...
And then last week I was at some guy's place and learned that he pays a monthly rate of say, $3000 and gets a rotation of 4-6 girls. They just drop by his house... hang out... he fucks them... and either they leave or he takes them wherever he's going. Some guy organizes it all. Got me thinking...
You'd have to know an agency owner with women who have a bit of extra time. Anyone else on monthlies, like that? Haha
as one of my SBs likes to say "the math is not mathing here". Unless girls work for minimum wage
Well there's an idea. Maybe there are some older Asian girls, say mid 40s that would work for an hourly wage. Pool 15 girls at $3K/mo that's $45K and then get 50 clients to pay $5K/mo for that service. Girls just spend their time going to the same 50 apartments.
