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rocco_s

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I am curious if you guys have seen more ethnic sugarbabies due to the influx of new immigrants and what your experiences have been. I recently saw one. Decent looking. A slave but had some hygiene issues down there.
 
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Leimonis

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I am curious if you guys have seen more ethnic sugarbabies due to the influx of new immigrants and what your experiences have been. I recently saw one. Decent looking. A slave but had some hygiene issues down there.
in my experience most WOC babies except black (ie Asian and ME, and to lesser extent Latinas) are hunting for people who have a corresponding fever and when they find their target they ask for an arm and a leg. New immigrants can be particularly greedy as they came with nothing so they need it all and they need it right now.
Black Sbs are less predatory but showing up with them in public kinda turns too many heads for my taste.
 
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I am curious if you guys have seen more ethnic sugarbabies due to the influx of new immigrants and what your experiences have been. I recently saw one. Decent looking. A slave but had some hygiene issues down there.
All of my past sb's have been what you would consider ethnic. There are a lot of Chinese and Korean girls in to sugar dating. I find that ethnic girls are a bit easier to deal with since they know exactly what they want and there is not much jumping through hoops with them. It's more like a business for them which is good and bad I guess lol.
 
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Leimonis

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yesterday had a meet and greet at which a seemingly normal looking 25 yo woman advised me that she likes to "take it slow". When I asked "what's slow - an hour or a month or what" she said "a month" and elaborated that 4 dates is not that many. Also claimed that some 60yo guy paid her $300 for platonic dates. Needless to say, I promptly wished her luck and bowed out.

This is why it's best to meet for drinks and not dinner...
 

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That's why we keep saying this is wasting time and money. You should give up on SBs. Stick with SPs.
I think men who are mainly just looking for meaningless quick sex it's much easier to just book an sp and fuck. Men who want an SB are looking for more of a deeper connection with a lady where the sex doesn't seem as transactional. Building that connection does take a bit of time with most sb's. The good ones who have been in the sb game for a while know exactly what you want and will open up their legs a lot sooner because they know what they need to do to get you hooked and keeping that "allowance" coming in.
 

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yesterday had a meet and greet at which a seemingly normal looking 25 yo woman advised me that she likes to "take it slow". When I asked "what's slow - an hour or a month or what" she said "a month" and elaborated that 4 dates is not that many. Also claimed that some 60yo guy paid her $300 for platonic dates. Needless to say, I promptly wished her luck and bowed out.

This is why it's best to meet for drinks and not dinner...
Sounds like my meet with a 30 yr old via WYP yesterday . I had originally messaged her 3 years ago . She didn't want to meet pre CoVid vaccines and with restrictions . At the time , she wanted to wait a month and would it be OK to have sex on the 2nd date . So 2 weeks ago , I contacted her again . We met at a coffee shop. I stupidly agreed to a meet fee ( as per the site rules) I'm no Dr , but by her mannerisms , she is in the autistic spectrum . She placed napkins on the table , then placed her purse on the napkins. She requested that we go for a walk ... in this empty mall . I asked , if she wanted to sit in my car , "No". Would you like me to drop you off , I asked . " No , I live close by." But she asked , if we could go out for dinner on the next date . I messaged after , if she would like a massage, I could start with hands and feet until she felt comfortable . "No , I like to take things slow" .... and she is more reserved than she was 3 years ago . She isn't a looker , but do able . I'll cut my losses .... NEXT
 

Leimonis

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Sounds like my meet with a 30 yr old via WYP yesterday . I had originally messaged her 3 years ago . She didn't want to meet pre CoVid vaccines and with restrictions . At the time , she wanted to wait a month and would it be OK to have sex on the 2nd date . So 2 weeks ago , I contacted her again . We met at a coffee shop. I stupidly agreed to a meet fee ( as per the site rules) I'm no Dr , but by her mannerisms , she is in the autistic spectrum . She placed napkins on the table , then placed her purse on the napkins. She requested that we go for a walk ... in this empty mall . I asked , if she wanted to sit in my car , "No". Would you like me to drop you off , I asked . " No , I live close by." But she asked , if we could go out for dinner on the next date . I messaged after , if she would like a massage, I could start with hands and feet until she felt comfortable . "No , I like to take things slow" .... and she is more reserved than she was 3 years ago . She isn't a looker , but do able . I'll cut my losses .... NEXT
that's why I would never do WYP..I have zero tolerance for these things
 
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Leimonis

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That's why we keep saying this is wasting time and money. You should give up on SBs. Stick with SPs.
Sooo I wasted an hour of my time sitting in a bar with a drink in front of me. It did cost me $15 which was a margarita for the POT SB. I am not counting my drinks as they were mine to enjoy.

If I booked an escort and it would so happen that I would not be attracted to her it'd still be an hour of my time and I'd pay an hourly fee for some shitty sex.

If I could do $15 screening for SPs I'd probably do it each and every time. From my perspective it's saving time and money.
 

Muchadoaboutnothing

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yesterday had a meet and greet at which a seemingly normal looking 25 yo woman advised me that she likes to "take it slow". When I asked "what's slow - an hour or a month or what" she said "a month" and elaborated that 4 dates is not that many. Also claimed that some 60yo guy paid her $300 for platonic dates. Needless to say, I promptly wished her luck and bowed out.

This is why it's best to meet for drinks and not dinner...
Interesting. My friends friend claimed she had this situation and it paid for her law school.
 

Muchadoaboutnothing

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Sounds like my meet with a 30 yr old via WYP yesterday . I had originally messaged her 3 years ago . She didn't want to meet pre CoVid vaccines and with restrictions . At the time , she wanted to wait a month and would it be OK to have sex on the 2nd date . So 2 weeks ago , I contacted her again . We met at a coffee shop. I stupidly agreed to a meet fee ( as per the site rules) I'm no Dr , but by her mannerisms , she is in the autistic spectrum . She placed napkins on the table , then placed her purse on the napkins. She requested that we go for a walk ... in this empty mall . I asked , if she wanted to sit in my car , "No". Would you like me to drop you off , I asked . " No , I live close by." But she asked , if we could go out for dinner on the next date . I messaged after , if she would like a massage, I could start with hands and feet until she felt comfortable . "No , I like to take things slow" .... and she is more reserved than she was 3 years ago . She isn't a looker , but do able . I'll cut my losses .... NEXT
Was the table dirty?
as a male,why didn’t you plan a date activity ? Then you wouldn’t be stuck walking through an empty mall
or was it empty due to the holidays
 

Leimonis

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Interesting. My friends friend claimed she had this situation and it paid for her law school.
or maybe she does not want to admit that she put his old dick in her precious mouth - who knows?
 

Rpm6969

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after quickly reading through 50 page + of conversation it sounds like most of the guys here just want the best bang for the buck. The term sugar daddy and sugar baby has really changed throughout the years.
 

art van dele

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Sounds like my meet with a 30 yr old via WYP yesterday . I had originally messaged her 3 years ago . She didn't want to meet pre CoVid vaccines and with restrictions . At the time , she wanted to wait a month and would it be OK to have sex on the 2nd date . So 2 weeks ago , I contacted her again . We met at a coffee shop. I stupidly agreed to a meet fee ( as per the site rules) I'm no Dr , but by her mannerisms , she is in the autistic spectrum . She placed napkins on the table , then placed her purse on the napkins. She requested that we go for a walk ... in this empty mall . I asked , if she wanted to sit in my car , "No". Would you like me to drop you off , I asked . " No , I live close by." But she asked , if we could go out for dinner on the next date . I messaged after , if she would like a massage, I could start with hands and feet until she felt comfortable . "No , I like to take things slow" .... and she is more reserved than she was 3 years ago . She isn't a looker , but do able . I'll cut my losses .... NEXT
She’s probably OCD not autistic.
 
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diesel787

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I came across this thread a week or so ago. I was intrigued mainly by the fact seeing a SB would feel less transactional, so I gave it a go. I'm tall, not devilishly handsome but not bad looking either, and I have a decent career, so I've been getting tons of DMs from the ladies. I will say that I'm weeding out most, and am only interacting with a small handful that are coming across more genuine.

I ended up meeting a girl last week at a hotel, and I was quite happy with the experience.

I tried to meet up with another one, but dodged a bullet when she asked me to etransfer her before buzzing me up to her apartment.
 

Leimonis

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after quickly reading through 50 page + of conversation it sounds like most of the guys here just want the best bang for the buck. The term sugar daddy and sugar baby has really changed throughout the years.
Go on sugar daddy forum and see everyone and their dog complaining about Johns and SPs discussing sugar on their forums and how sugar is not what it used to be
 
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Rpm6969

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Go on sugar daddy forum and see everyone and their dog complaining about Johns and SPs discussing sugar on their forums and how sugar is not what it used to be
what forum is that?
thx
 
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