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Titalian

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The terb handle would be OK if you mention that you have also PM'd them. Assuming they have a Terb handle.
Also, in some cases, reviews posted on here, do get an appreciation note back, from the escort being reviewed.
 
What kind of info can I give that will ensure I'm legit?
I don't think a terb handle would be enough, they are too easy to borrow.
I know some ladies are fine with verification through a board handle but you actually have to contact them through the board, otherwise you are correct in that someone could simply claim to be another poster and it would not be verifiable.
In providing a reference it's generally fine to contact the lady you are looking to book using the email you booked the last companion through, provide a bit of simple information such as the name you saw your reference under, the city you met (very important if she tours) and an approx. day/time (even if you just say 1-2months ago for a 7am appt that will help). If you are on a verification board then providing that information is helpful as well as I mentioned above as it can speed up the process but it's not needed as *most* ladies will still insist on a reference unless you are well-known and established.
As mentioned above a phone number may also be required but this will really depend on if you reached out to your reference via phone or not, just provide something the lady can verify. If a lady books only through phone then she'll need that info, if it's through email then that'd be what you need to provide.

If your information has recently changed, say you are now hotstuff6969@youremailprovider.com where you used to be youngnaivething@youremailprovider.com you may need to reach out to your reference via your new email to confirm your identity, letting her know some of the details that perhaps only you would know from the date, but that is an easy way to keep references even after changing or losing access to old contact information.

I hope that helps a bit! :)
 

PornAddict

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Yeah, however sometimes we go ape shit and post the craziest most embarrassing things possible on here...thus might not be the best idea to pick up girls from your terb handle...
I agree..lol.. espically when come to politics.. I really like Rob Ford and hate the left wing .pinkos but I also wonder the escort live in downtown will use that against me if i use my terb handle will see my posting on defending Rob Ford since i figure most escort that located in downtown probably hate Rob Ford.
 

Viggo Rasmussen

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Good, thanks for the info.
I remember being berated for giving my terb handle out, lots of guys see that as tainting your review or trying to subtly pressure the ladies with the power of a board behind you.
Maybe that's changing with the times.
 

Celticman

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Good, thanks for the info.
I remember being berated for giving my terb handle out, lots of guys see that as tainting your review or trying to subtly pressure the ladies with the power of a board behind you.
Maybe that's changing with the times.
Those guys probably still see it that way. Which is fine. But that is how they see it for themselves but when they extrapolate it to others, including me, they may as well tell me how to tie my shoelaces.
 

Titalian

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Bottom line for me on this is, I don't think its anyones business who I've seen in the past. Lets just call it a discretion of my own. But if she insists on it, sorry, there will be no encounter, no matter how beautiful or well reviewed.
 

harryass

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Bottom line for me on this is, I don't think its anyones business who I've seen in the past. Lets just call it a discretion of my own. But if she insists on it, sorry, there will be no encounter, no matter how beautiful or well reviewed.
but if you give her your terb handle as part of ref check, she will know some of the past sps that you have seen. Assuming u post reviews of course.
 

BillJ

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If a lady asks for a reference, is there any point giving the names of agencies that you've used in the past? For most agency girls I don't have any direct contact information, and I'm not sure if the agency bookers have the any sort of record that would make for a useful reference...
 

Gingerbeard

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I think there's always risk, even with references. There are always wolves in sheep's clothing. I'd imagine working in this business, finding one of these wolves would be your biggest fear.

I'd make sure someone you trust is aware of where you are if you're dealing with someone you don't know.

Luckily most of us are harmless, just looking for release.
 

Titalian

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Sure it's fine for the guys to review the ladies with stats and services ..... but how do the guys feel about the ladies sharing stats and performances about you between each other :p

That's kinda like one ex telling another ex all about you and forwarding the info off to your new lover by email. :confused: Just saying YMMV :)

I think quite a few guys are very worried about their privacy and the implications of bill C-36. Data storage has been known to be hacked.
Can all escorts be trusted to stay mum under pressure from LE? Gives us all pause for thought on a very touchy issue.
It's all about trust. And we all know that trust is earned and rarely given away.
Hey we're the ones paying right? As far sharing information about you on performance and what not, don't be so niave, trust me, some do.
 

Titalian

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Sorry about that, didn't want to sound like I was generalizing. so I edited my post.
 

pablice

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Yeah, and "they" never generalize about the clients either...please...I think sometimes the girls get the GFE thing confused and like to project onto the client...maybe if they say it enough and project onto us they will start to beleive it...thus is why we pay and to have it end of the session and go back to our SOs at the end of the day with a big smile.

do they? maybe some do, but 'they' all don't. Generalizations like this irritate me, not everyone wants, needs or cares about your performance details.

When I check a reference I inquire if the gent was respectful of time and boundaries. That's it.
 

pablice

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Any idea what pablice is rambling on about? ;)
Just replying to your statement that generalisations like this irritate you, when you have generilazed about the clients in other threads...that's it...just stating the obvious that we all generalize, judge and bias others even though it bothers us when others do it ;) no love lost I hope just throwing my c's
 

Consilio

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Getting a lot of calls lately from gents who 'can't' or don't want to do screening... a bit akward asking if they've seen ladies or not.. and to check references all within the hour that they want to book... a bit of help pls?? thx!
I just went to your website to see what the screening fuss is about. There's no way I would participate in that screening. I'm surprised that more than a few men would participate in that. Asking for references is one thing - submitting a bunch of personal information that can come back to bite us later is just asking for trouble.
 

wangbang

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I've been in this business since the start of the internet. During that time I have provided references exactly zero times. In all those years, only one Canadian provider pushed for references and denied me. She was very upset that I wouldn't give her my TERB handle while I really wasn't bothered that she held firm.

To be honest, I rarely see someone more than maybe twice so how could I possibly provide references. If faced with a reference demand I will simply spend my money elsewhere.
 

Ashley V

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I've been in this business since the start of the internet. During that time I have provided references exactly zero times. In all those years, only one Canadian provider pushed for references and denied me. She was very upset that I wouldn't give her my TERB handle while I really wasn't bothered that she held firm.

To be honest, I rarely see someone more than maybe twice so how could I possibly provide references. If faced with a reference demand I will simply spend my money elsewhere.
What you describe is still the norm of the overwhelmingly vast majority in this industry.
 
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