Screening...
- Thread starter Samantha Jones
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All I am saying that we all generalize and make assumptions.
From your quote below you made a comment about us needing to be reminded what a GFE experience really means. I am not sure who you were directing this to or were joking or not but I took it as a generilazation and making unfair assumptions about client,especially when I saw no evidence of anybody eluding to this. What we were talking about right before was some clients needing affection rather then just fucking, paying, and then going home to our SOs, to our lie of a life, and if we should lie to the Service Provider to avoid any negative issues that Erin explained so well in one of the last replies of that thread.
Not that I care..I accept that I am the scum of the earth...again I am stating obvious that we all generalize, make assumptions in our heads even though they may not be fair to the others.
From your quote below you made a comment about us needing to be reminded what a GFE experience really means. I am not sure who you were directing this to or were joking or not but I took it as a generilazation and making unfair assumptions about client,especially when I saw no evidence of anybody eluding to this. What we were talking about right before was some clients needing affection rather then just fucking, paying, and then going home to our SOs, to our lie of a life, and if we should lie to the Service Provider to avoid any negative issues that Erin explained so well in one of the last replies of that thread.
Not that I care..I accept that I am the scum of the earth...again I am stating obvious that we all generalize, make assumptions in our heads even though they may not be fair to the others.
I literally spent hours researching girls I would like to see so for me the extra 5-15 mins extra to provide info for the ladies screening purposes does not bother me.. I've meet both SPs who do or don't screen and the ones that don't screen generally have more tales of bad encounters. Unless you have something to hide I don't see what the big deal is! It's not like they're asking you to provide a SI # or Drivers license for verification.
From a man's perspective, what if you have booked mostly through agencies and/or elsewhere than Toronto? I don't know if I could get anyone to give me a recommendation, I doubt if they even remember me.
Why would you bother, there are enough SP's willing to see us without screening.
There is that...If you're good with agency girls, and there is no reason not to be unless someone in particular catches your eye, you shouldn't ever have to worry about screening.
I've found it is not as easy to get references from guys in TO as it is out West. I think this is because the SP community out there is much more supportive of each other. I've tried to check references here and some ladies are not so helpful. That being said I require a terb handle. The reason for this is to check one's posting history. What I'm looking for when checking is 1) this person sees escorts, so is not LE. 2) this person is decent and not rude. That's all. I would say this works pretty well for me as all the encounters I've had have been positive. To me if a guy doesn't want to disclose his handle, he has something to hide and I'm not interested in finding out what that is. My belief is some guys want to keep their handle unknown because their online persona would probably get them denied from providers.
Even giving, out your handle, can be a double edged sword sometimes,
but I do agree that many ladies, do need some form, of reference, especially in the case, of the pros.
wow this turned into quite the thread lol. I realized you can do screen on mobile app for privacy. As for the questions, I always say fill out to best of your ability. Thx for all the replies!
Ok maybe LE was an exaggerated example but I meant if the guy has written reviews he has seen escorts so he's an actual client, as opposed to whoever it may be on the other line. Another example could have been another SP attempting to make a fake booking. (It happens) Having a quick glance at one's posting history can also tell the lady a bit about your personality. She may read a post and find you two have something in common. She may bring it up in your rendezvous and your chemistry can be amazing!(It happens)
IME working alongside other ladies in the business, usually the ones that took the time and effort to screen properly usually had the same approach to all other aspects of their business. By this I mean, they took great care of their appearance, always had a clean and upscale incall, replied to inquiries in a timely fashion and most importantly consistently provided QUALITY service. They are constantly well reviewed and have solid reputations. You are not likely to find a friend hiding in the bathroom, a mattress on the floor or a pimp showing up.I'm not saying ladies who don't screen are not good quality. I'm just saying ladies who do are not trying to be difficult and they're not a waste of time. Therefore you should not be discouraged from seeing them because it takes a little more effort. You will likely be glad you did
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Huh? Fuji, go back to that black rock you were hiding under. One can easily prove they aren't a douchebag by giving an SP their online persona info and at the SAME time preserve their true identity. But you wouldn't know anything about that I suppose.
Unless you are a complete idiot, a terb handle is 100% anonymous, as are an e-mail address and a cell phone number. If you don't know how to do such things, you should not be hobbying in the first place.
Exactly. I changed my cell's call display to just the number and told the SO it was work related. Where there's a will there's a way. My email luckily hasn't ever been more than some letters and numbers. Having my first name plus that information keeps me anonymous enough
By the way, I see what you did there...under a "black rock"
By the way, I see what you did there...under a "black rock"
I maintain multiway anonymity between my real identity, my terb identity, and my booking identities. If you give people a common identity with which to begin correlating information about you then you dramatically increase your risk of being outed.
I regularly change my hobby throwaway number so that people can't track it, for example.
If you use something like fongo for your hobby phone, when your account expires (for texting) instead of renewing it just let it expire and start over with a new number. Not really mission impossible.
And not telling people your terb ID is just a matter of keeping your mouth shut.
If you think people don't get outed you haven't been logged in when the threads outing people get posted. The mods delete them quick but by now many people have seen those posts.
What do you gain by exposing yourself to that sort of risk?
And once C36 goes through that paper trail you inflicted on yourself can hurt you in another way, say if the crown prosecutor finds it in your SP's notes, and then produces your terb posting history as exhibit #4.
And not telling people your terb ID is just a matter of keeping your mouth shut.
If you think people don't get outed you haven't been logged in when the threads outing people get posted. The mods delete them quick but by now many people have seen those posts.
What do you gain by exposing yourself to that sort of risk?
And once C36 goes through that paper trail you inflicted on yourself can hurt you in another way, say if the crown prosecutor finds it in your SP's notes, and then produces your terb posting history as exhibit #4.
Fuji WTF are you doing on this board then ????? With your type of paranoia, I would stay way the hell away from this place.
