There's no correction for this, unless the girl knows she's coming down with something beforehand. People call in sick to work, in regular jobs. Most of these girls are messing with body fluids on the daily, kissing multiple people. I know having a job where I talk face to face with sometimes hundreds of people in a day. You're gonna get criss-cross applesauce.. But the last minute ones hurt. I am one of those who likes to pre-book a few days in advance just to lock in the girl I want to see. My TDL is small and tight, so I wanna "make sure" I get my time slot. But like the OP, heading across the city, after confirmation then finding out - she's done for the day. WOOF - the WORST. On my way home, I just pulled into one of the better strip clubs, and got some good dances. Wasn't exactly my plan for the night. But there is always an alternative.
Cancellation Conundrum
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Considering that I'm from the States, I always try to pre-book my appointments weeks in advance just to make sure that I can have a better chance to see that certain SP. I also have no issues giving screening info and a deposit to help make the SP at ease if it's our first time.
If they cancel, then it's not a big deal at all. I do a lot of research so I can make sure I have a backup or at least use an agency to help get a replacement.
Respect should go both ways to each party as both of our time is valuable.
If they cancel, then it's not a big deal at all. I do a lot of research so I can make sure I have a backup or at least use an agency to help get a replacement.
Respect should go both ways to each party as both of our time is valuable.
Wow so many things mentioned here.
- Social Anxiety / Resentment / Guilt / Spite / Fear , some people don't know they have it. I mean both sides. And it really screws people up.
- The day of appointment a guy wakes up with all above mentioned and not know it. And not call to cancel like a polite person
- The no show John may have been dumped by an Ex-Gf and takes it out on a SW
- The no show John may have been dumped by an Ex-Gf and joined the field of SP.
- The no show John may have been dumped by an Ex-Gf when she monkey branched.
- The no show John may have dumped an Ex-Gf after realizing, she was a SP, had several Friends/Bf, caught her with his dad, or She realized she was a lesbian; pregnant by another man.
- The no show John may know the SP from grade school and is building up the courage to see her. But is afraid he may be double crossed by her. When reality they are both guilty / worried.
- The no show John may be doing the booking out spite the GF left him so he takes his frustrations on SP by false booking. Which applies the above statement to this sentence. I don't agree this is right.
- Remember the Joker and clown in grade school doing stupid things, well this is one of them now.
- Mind you the booking can be done by a WOMAN who found out her bf/husband / ex husband/ bf is seeing or was seeing the SPs.
The first two items I listed I feel sorry for the guys, But after that it's just silly and it ruins it for the REAL John's like us. And future Johns.
Remember ladies 1/5 are really nice people on both genders.
- Social Anxiety / Resentment / Guilt / Spite / Fear , some people don't know they have it. I mean both sides. And it really screws people up.
- The day of appointment a guy wakes up with all above mentioned and not know it. And not call to cancel like a polite person
- The no show John may have been dumped by an Ex-Gf and takes it out on a SW
- The no show John may have been dumped by an Ex-Gf and joined the field of SP.
- The no show John may have been dumped by an Ex-Gf when she monkey branched.
- The no show John may have dumped an Ex-Gf after realizing, she was a SP, had several Friends/Bf, caught her with his dad, or She realized she was a lesbian; pregnant by another man.
- The no show John may know the SP from grade school and is building up the courage to see her. But is afraid he may be double crossed by her. When reality they are both guilty / worried.
- The no show John may be doing the booking out spite the GF left him so he takes his frustrations on SP by false booking. Which applies the above statement to this sentence. I don't agree this is right.
- Remember the Joker and clown in grade school doing stupid things, well this is one of them now.
- Mind you the booking can be done by a WOMAN who found out her bf/husband / ex husband/ bf is seeing or was seeing the SPs.
The first two items I listed I feel sorry for the guys, But after that it's just silly and it ruins it for the REAL John's like us. And future Johns.
Remember ladies 1/5 are really nice people on both genders.
Muchadoaboutnothing
There was a star danced, and under that was I born
Yes and they’re usually more able to describe the issue at hand and I personally think it’s understandable if the person is sick I had an agency lie about a car accident and it was awkward
That seems like a good idea. My additional suggestion should be to mention that at the end of the text chain. That way any booker glancing at a convo should see it.
I had to cancel for the first time in over 2 years this week bc of strep throat and the provider, whom I had pre-booked with deposit weeks before, was understanding and gracious about the whole thing despite being on tour here. I can't stand having to do that but I'm also not going to get anyone sick on purpose bc of it and since I'm not known in that circle of indies for ever flaking out so I'm not worried about what that means for future bookings.
It's a part of the business and why I fully understand taking deposits for bookings. I know there's a near-universal distaste for deposits around here but I've never once been burned on one (mostly bc I stick to well-reviewed indies) and I totally get why they're important provider-side. Either way, it still sucks to get cancelled on but there are worse problems in the world.
It's a part of the business and why I fully understand taking deposits for bookings. I know there's a near-universal distaste for deposits around here but I've never once been burned on one (mostly bc I stick to well-reviewed indies) and I totally get why they're important provider-side. Either way, it still sucks to get cancelled on but there are worse problems in the world.
I paid a deposit one week in advance. The next day I became ill, not seriously, but enough that I did not want to pass even a mild virus on to anyone. I cancelled the appointment scheduled six days later and requested that it be applied to a later appointment or refunded. The provider subsequently refused the rescheduling and stated that if I persisted requesting the refund she would never see me. To date no refund and no rescheduling.
Got to remember, it’s all about the money always!! And she obviously doesn’t care whether you rebook or not, she’s still ahead!!
But is she?? Yes she got the cash the first time but any other future meetings are now gone. And if alligator1 decided to review her because of this as a warning to others then he's giving members a valued FYI and the SP in turn could lose business. IMO warnings of such occurrences are just as important as reviews.
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I get it and I know it happens but that's why you do your research first, only give deposits you're comfortable potentially losing, and report on forums if you do get burned so it doesn't happen to others. I've paid over a hundred deposits and haven't lost one unjustly yet but my risk tolerance may be different that yours.
Yeah but she may have lost a long term repeater. Short term "still ahead" pocketing the deposit when there was plenty of notice is not good business. John forfeits the deposit if left to late for any reason due to the fact she could've booked someone for your spot you just cancelled.
I agree that is in very bad taste and short sighted of the sp. I have had to cancel in my regular for being sick. She knows I’m older and live alone and was gracious and said to let her know if I needed anything from shoppers or food. That kind of thing goes a long way. Especially when it comes to repeat business.
Does she have a website/Tryst ad with any details on a cancellation policy?
Muchadoaboutnothing
There was a star danced, and under that was I born
This is beyond upsetting and disappointing. I take health seriously and im surprised she didn’t understand. I personally don’t want to share the air in a eoom with someone who is sick. I hate people coughing and sneezing anywhere near me and it’s always the close talkers and hovering folk at the checkout. Liek back off ! Now I have to spray alcohol all over myself before getting in the vehicle. Stay home !!
Muchadoaboutnothing
There was a star danced, and under that was I born
I got to see my new favourite lady again and she said the no shows were crazy, making an appointment a couple days ahead and then nothing!! Guys just screwing around?? Wasting time?
Are the no shows mostly weekend warriors try to sneak out on the family and then not being able to do it for whatever reason?
Are the no shows mostly weekend warriors try to sneak out on the family and then not being able to do it for whatever reason?
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Muchadoaboutnothing
There was a star danced, and under that was I born
This or they’re the guys who are deep In th snow and they become paranoid about leaving and can’t drive and shouldn’t drive but they’re also too paranoid to have an outcall. Or they booked while horny then blew their load along the way waiting qnf lost it. In which case her job is kind of done lol. If they got off to her photos online.
