I don't think necessarily more strict but it could be so. It's just that when they expect you to be loyal, the average hobbyist thinks that an industry gal should be more liberal about infidelity in their line of work, and are surprised that they want fidelity just like any woman in a relationship. There's that saying by men that if you cheat, she better be better looking than your wife, cuz she's more likely to understand that from a temptation point of view. The corollary applies I suppose to a sex worker who's counterpart cheats - how could he cheat on me if I'm so desirous by so many men, and good in bed too? That's the insult you speak of. (I've discussed this with an industry gal who's not happy at home, and if she were to hypothetically absolve that relationship to say be with me, she'd expect fidelity and no hobbying, except for the occasional 3sum fun. This really though is the subject of a new thread).
Do all escorts despise clients?
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Doesn't variety maintain a 'cool' heart/head for hobbyists and providers alike?
Very, very true. Some romantic, some just friends.
I don't agree with the OP post at all. Just not true.
Your new sig pic is SMOKIN'! Miss you Jennifer, we should get 2gether soon! xoxoxo
mrsCALoki:
Your point I totally agree with.... if men treated women (whether SP or SO) a lot better, things would go farther. I have had a lot of Sps tell me there are SOME men that treat them like shit.... I hope their mileage varies. I don't get it, Dream girls, who really know what they are doing and make you feel great... what could be better?
As far as my statment, I have met just a few civilian girls who have the skills to match the women on here. The average one does not come close. Some do improve though!
Your point I totally agree with.... if men treated women (whether SP or SO) a lot better, things would go farther. I have had a lot of Sps tell me there are SOME men that treat them like shit.... I hope their mileage varies. I don't get it, Dream girls, who really know what they are doing and make you feel great... what could be better?
As far as my statment, I have met just a few civilian girls who have the skills to match the women on here. The average one does not come close. Some do improve though!
If that is true then you all are the omegas since you are paying the escorts who put the pics up for me to masturbate on so I can benefit from the advertising dollars.
No. I said that even the nicest married Johns are cheaters. It's a pretty powerful lesson in humanity and trust.
We also know that hypocrisy and being judgmental is far from rare. Rationalization and compartmentalization are valuable, if not mandatory, job skills for SPs and MPAs.
And that boys and girls should be our first commandment. Treat EVERYONE the way you yourself would like to be treated, regardless of their looks, income, career choice, skin colour, accent, etc. etc. etc.
I do not despise any of my clients, if for some reason we do not connect either they do not call again or I politely tell them "I am booked solid".
We've all been there.
Let's face it, a lot of women in the sex industry are attracted by the big easy money. (Easy so they think.) They love cash, but they have no skill, no education, no trade, but they think they should be making big bucks. In the so called "real world" no skill, no education, no trade AND no work ethic = minimum wage job. But they do love money and minimum wage really doesn't cut it now does it. So they go into the sex industry. PROBLEM is is that the sex industry involves SEX. There's sex, there's cocks, there's cum, there's spit, there's smelly fat very unattracitve me with hard cocks, there's even good looking fit guys, but it all comes down to the sex. The hell of their decision is that they not only have to get naked, but they have to stroke some guy off that they would never give the time ot day to in "real life". They have "the princess attitude" that they are better than you. (Laughable.) They aren't into you, they probably aren't even into sex, however, they are into money. It shows in their work. They think that they are better than you and you should be happy that she's even getting naked in front of you.
Frankly, this entire thread makes me think of that.
Sure, there are guys out there who treat Sex Workers very badly and I can completely understand that any Sex Worker would indeed despise such a man. However, I'm sure that a good many Sex Workers despise even "the nice guy" clients as well. Why? Because it's a form of denial I suppose. They really don't WANT to be Sex Workers, and they certainly don't want some guy that they view as a loser (sorry to be blunt) pawing them and slobbering all over them. They are Sex Workers because they like big easy money. So what you end up with is a sex worker who loves money, but despises her clients because it somehow makes her feel better about selling sex. (I'll let you fuck me, but only because you're paying me.)
On the other hand, I don't think that ALL Sex Workders despise ALL their clients.
I'm sure that there is indeeed a large percentage of Sex Workers who DO despise all their clients all the time, but there are many who despise only some of their clients and like others quite a lot. I'm sure that when an SP gets a call from a certain guy she's been with before that she enjoyed being with that she is happy to see him again.
I think whether or not a Sex Worker despises all her clients or not comes down to whether or not she is comfortable with her decision to enter the sex industry. If she is not comfortable, she feels that she is superior to clients she will natureally despise them. But if she's cool with her decision, whether or not she despises a guy or not will come down to how he treats her and frankly how they clicked together.
Hell, I don't sell sex, but I can ASSURE you that I have clients in my work a day world that I despise as well too. (I'm thinking of one right now. I hate him more than anyone I know the incompetent abusive bastard. Some day I'm going to tell him exactly what I think of him. Fucker. I can't even stand the sight of him.)
I don't know. Me personally, I'm around the age of most SP's (25-35) so not old enough to look creepy, I dress in nice fashionable clothing (a metrosexual look), and I treat all women with respect. I don't do things that are uncomfortable for them, and I don't try to pick them up. And through my experiences, most of the SP's never yelled at me; they seemed very happy to see me.
So SP's on this site - do you hate me?
So SP's on this site - do you hate me?
Jessica,
You are missing out. Hate is one of the most powerful emotions and is as inspirational as love.
You are missing out. Hate is one of the most powerful emotions and is as inspirational as love.
I corresponded with a former SP not so long ago who was thinking of getting back in the biz.
She made no secret about why she was thinking of coming back. It was for the money. It wasn't because she missed moviefan (Yeah, I know ... I was shocked, too
).
I'm sure most guys try to be respectful, civil, etc. But we always have to remember that we're buying a fantasy session. I don't spend my time worrying about what the SPs might really think of me. Over the years, I've read enough posts from retired SPs to know better.
She made no secret about why she was thinking of coming back. It was for the money. It wasn't because she missed moviefan (Yeah, I know ... I was shocked, too
).I'm sure most guys try to be respectful, civil, etc. But we always have to remember that we're buying a fantasy session. I don't spend my time worrying about what the SPs might really think of me. Over the years, I've read enough posts from retired SPs to know better.
You didn't start posting back to the ladies here until I made a comment, yet you did comment to the males. It is all here in black and white, including times. So bullshit on the peaked in today. I called you on your shit and you are back-peddling. That is fine.
My status is here is just as easy to figure out as anyone else's. I was clear in this thread that I photograph women and I am woman. It is not rocket science.
What you said and have been saying is that ALL SP despise ALL clients. Then you back pedal and say MOST SP's despise MOST clients. Now you are asking if some SP's don't like some of their clients???? Which is it?
Are there SP's who have a few rotten clients that they will not see again? Yes. Is it 25%, HELL NO, maybe 10%. Agencies/Indies are great at weeding them out over the phone/email. We are not talking sex slaved, pimped out street walkers. We are talking about women who have made the choice to get into this business. Yes, sometimes a girl will see an undesirable client once and then black list, but that is not the impression you are trying to give.
A troll is someone like you. Bored, lonely, going around making posts, comments, threads to insult others while getting them all revved up for further comments and debates. You are a troll. Ignoring everyone else just to say you are right.
You have had ladies here tell you how they feel and you tell them. "No you wrong, you hate men just like me but won't say it because you don't want to lose business" You have had men here say they are friends or even dated SP's outside of the industry, you tell them "No, you are wrong, they are still using you and secretly hating you" Only you and Mr. Loki can be in love, happy, etc. Everyone else is lying or in denial and only you are telling the truth..... Give your head a shake lady. You will be on your ass in few years with no more Mr. Loki and no one to blame but yourself.
No one is claiming that SP's love their clients. But it is not the other way around either. It is a job. Period.
Didn't you ask Jennifer how an SP can reconcile johns as nice guys if they cheat?
Quality service should not be restricted to only those who are physically appealing. Everyone deserves to be treated like a King.....excepting of course those who are rude or disrespectful.
