Do all escorts despise clients?
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Well she is 52, and I am 25. Do you have a picture of her from 27 years ago? We are both blonds, post grads, and she might have looked like me back then
The lawyers and accountant who services my boss's company send me Christmas cards, wine bottles and the occasional Maple Leaf hockey tickets. Hee, hee, hee. Also, the occasional lunch invitation.
You speak as though you know the industry well. You are right in that I know very little about their job. But I don't have contempt for escorts. All the SPs here on the board have a choice and that is a fact. If they don't excercise that choice, it's completly up to them. Just like what mrsCALoki said, she made close to 40gs in 4 weeks. And that was her choice. If they are miserable, change career. There are 3 types of clients
1) An experienced clients who knows what level of service they expect for the money they spend.
2) An inexperienced client who makes mistakes and later become experienced.
3) An asshole client who just don't care about the SP.
Many SPs don't have to worry about client #1 and #2. But the #3 is the ones they have to watch out for. Now, the #3 becomes that way, because of many reasons. Bad divorce, bad relationship with GF, or even multiple rip offs from SPs. Some guys have sucker written all over their face, and women will take advantage of that.
Jenn,
You fall into the category of someone who seems to enjoy their job and that probably goes a long way.
For the get in and get out I disagree.
Loved my time with you (Granted only once back in the HFH days) and trust me it was much better than the home alone slow jerk with lube and porn.
The getting in and out is in reference to sticking to enjoying hte session rather than wanting to get with the MPA in any capacity beyond business. If it happens by accident great. Otherwise don't bother.
To me massages are supposed to be fun and the risks of emotional injury from hoping for more is just not worth it.
Ok, cheating may be ok if circumstances warrant?Not every john is a 'cheater', BUT who are we to judge such 'cheaters' when you don't know what's happening at home. Furthermore, sex does not equal love for many guys.
P.S. If every gal was like Jennifer, maybe fewer would cheat
Let's ask some women when it would be ok for their man to step out.
if anything, i found that SP/MPA are more "strict" about fidelity than the avg woman (and some are completely "open"). Industry girls know the value of sex to men, and how to use it. Infidelity is taken very personally because its like an insult to her skills as a professional lover.
Cheating doesn't have to meet people's approval.
There are people who would disapprove oa single men seeing prostitutes.
If no one is getting hurt what is the problem?
There are people who would disapprove oa single men seeing prostitutes.
If no one is getting hurt what is the problem?
Viggo, please read my post carefully. I wrote "because of many reasons", therefore this does not point to women only. I only listed some examples. Some clients are "bad" by nature. Let me make this very simple. Prostitution is probrably if not the oldest occupation in the world. Guy pays a girl for sex, and girl takes money and give him sex. 2 people are happy, because they both got what they wanted. Now, all this drama about girl despising her client, is nothing but drama at the end of the day. Now, SPs should be lucky that there are decent and honest clients out there. Otherwise, they will have to work a legit full time job just to make what mrsCALoki makes in 4 weeks. Or they can study their asses off to get a degree and make the same amount as what mrsCALoki makes in 12 weeks.
If you despise your clients you are in the wrong business. We are here to provide positive energy and physical/sexual contact. Intention in that is really important, ethically, if you consider yourself an actual professional and not a crook. If you hate your job as an SP it could be because of your approach. In my experience, the best approach to doing this work and keeping it positive and enjoyable, is to put out what you want. Express yourself honestly in your ads or on your site. Don't try to be someone you are not or offer services you dislike. That is what will make you hate your job and despise your clients. There is no reason for that to happen. I learned long ago that it is easy enough to just say what you want and don't want and then make it happen. It is called boundaries
It's unfair to say she despised her clients, that's a term someone else came up with. She made her own feelings known in response.
What you wrote makes perfect sense to me. And by the way, you look hot.If you despise your clients you are in the wrong business. We are here to provide positive energy and physical/sexual contact. Intention in that is really important, ethically, if you consider yourself an actual professional and not a crook. If you hate your job as an SP it could be because of your approach. In my experience, the best approach to doing this work and keeping it positive and enjoyable, is to put out what you want. Express yourself honestly in your ads or on your site. Don't try to be someone you are not or offer services you dislike. That is what will make you hate your job and despise your clients. There is no reason for that to happen. I learned long ago that it is easy enough to just say what you want and don't want and then make it happen. It is called boundaries
