Do all escorts despise clients?

ready2rock

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the road of life.....
wanna tell that to the client I think is falling head over heels in love with me?? I was and always am very clear about the boundaries of our 'business relationship' but it seems the lines are blurred in his mind. He's been a regular for over 15 months... just recently clued in by something he said that this was way way more for him. You're right, he's single and unattached. Suggestions?
that's where I'm at right now. I've received a couple of emails that sound more like they came from a jeleous boyfriend than a client... I'm going to keep my distance ; )
Precisely my point, Jess. Ironically, this guy who thinks he's in a relationship with you is only proving how unworthy he is to be with you by acting like a jealous boyfriend.

R2R
 

Ms.FemmeFatale

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I love how SP's have commented saying different then Ms. Jaded and yet she only replies to the gentlemen in this thread. Not to my comment, not to Jessica or Jennifer. Not to Kyra. Just to the men to keep telling them they are hated by the women they see. Give me a break!

I was not in chat so I don't know, I am not an escort so I don't know, but it is written here clear in black and white. What Ms. Jaded has said is simple not the facts, not how ALL, or even most SP's feel and should be therefore ignored. It is trolling and in case you did not know, yes women can be trolls too.
 

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Pay them, fuck them, enjoy the fantasy and leave.
Wait. Not so easy.

"Pay"--Money in an envelope or not? Beginning of app't or after?
"Fuck"--What positions allowed? MSOG?
"Fantasy"--If it's young schoolgirl you may be a pedophile psycho who has to go to jail.
"Leave"--Do you tip when you leave? Do you promise to rebook?

Nothing is simple.
 

mrsCALoki

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well here's my 2 cents...

I don't have a client that I 'despise'. Not a single one. I have no issue with your looks, height, weight etc. The biggest attraction for me is how you treat me. Respect and immpecable personal hygiene are all I require from any gentleman to have a smashing good time. And I'm absolutely sure I'm not alone.

I have had clients show up less than clean... they have two choices, the shower or the door. I'm kind and non threatening and doubt I've ever hurt anyone's feelings by suggesting they're less than squeaky clean. I am very selective about the type of gentleman I spend time with, I spend time screening them and chatting with them beforehand. I don't take last minute calls or calls for 'a quick blowjob' because I'm almost always pre-booked.

I take great offence when some retired sp comes on here and speaks for me. Piss off. Nuff said.

Did you notice that the "all" was simply an invention by HH and not something I ever said?

Most sex workers I know have been robbed at least once (grab and run of envelope content included).

My statement was that many SPs dislike and did not trust some clients. Have you never been robbed, short changed, etc? If you have do you dislike or worse the person who did it? I NEVER SAID ALL SPs and ALL CLIENTS.

I did say that any working SP who voices my comments publicly will reduce the client base, and reduce those seeing her.

Is that not true?
 

mrsCALoki

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Mrs Loki,

I look at it a different way you were an opportunist..... got in got out. I don't mean that as an insult just classifying the reason that you did the job.
Nothing we do leaves us unchanged. I got in, paid all my debts and tuition and got out. I had never had an older man as a bed partner before and it changed me. I discovered that I loved being someone's little princess again, and having sex with an older experienced man was far better than with guys my age. My goals in life, and my desires changed because of my working as an SP. But yes you are right, I did it because I had few options. None that I could think of.

However, like any job there are different reasons for why people get into it and as a result of it they have different outlooks.

Furthermore, like any job the ones who enjoy it are the best ones. If you hate kids you'll be a bad teacher, if you don't like germs or sick people medicine is not for you, hate suits business would suck and so on. That's not to say that they can't do the job but their lack of passion can be seen.

As a side note I agree Hurricane Hank does come across as a weirdo and I have only read the odd post here and there from him over the years. Probably should have just burst his bubble you were too nice to make him think that it was the girls who despise clients when the truth is that they probably are creeped out by him.

So yeah some hate the job, some need the job, some tolerate the job, some enjoy the job.
Very true. Bulls eye. Also some days I start pushing back on the BS.
 

mrsCALoki

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Wow. You can't even tell the truth here. ...I did not try to book anyone in CHAT.
How odd, I guess she was lying or perhaps you do not think Chat PMs trying to book and not taking hints is excluded from 'trying to book in Chat'?

As well, you did paint all clients, except your husband, with the same brush. Clearly you were wrong trying to speak for all escorts, former and past. You and/or Janexxx also accused me of hating women.
I am fairly certain I did not do the all/all. no one who was there commented on it. I thought that the you hating women part was after you left was after you left when everyone was commenting about you. My two cents was that you seemed to be posting to build your ego. The never wanting to see you was Jane :)

I posted this thread knowing full well it would be a touchy subject. Upon leaving CHAT I also posted a review from 2 months ago regarding Lola in Burlington. I did so in order to try to provide you with a sense of my "feelings" regarding this hobby. Again, you and Janexxx exchanged your thoughts on how I must have come to hate women since that review.
My take on it is you posted it because your ego was bruised and you wanted people to support your position and tell you that you are a wonderful lover / client / cyber human being. But that is just an opinion.
 

mrsCALoki

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Emotional connections do happen, but only to a degree (or should), since the john who respects her privacy and goes his separate way, isn't dating her or isn't exclusive to her off the clock. GFE sessions, including dinner dates, etc. serve the purpose of dealing with loneliness, or boredome between girlfriends.

If you treat SPs like human beings, with respect, and aren't cheap (or make them feel cheap), they won't despise you.

SPs who learn to ignore the physical in their line of work, can learn to like the person inside, and if that person is nice, they also won't despise them, and perhaps connect with them moreso to.

I would go further and say that after a few hundred hours on the clock, if the guy is being honest and open and makes us feel special and cared for and not cheap, it may be impossible to not feel something. After 100 hours if an SP is starting to feel anything, I hope she steps back and thinks long and hard about the entire thing.
 

mrsCALoki

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... there is no ''All'' when describing service providers as we do not ''all'' have the same views.
There is no all when it comes to sex workers. I cannot even say 'all sex workers have vaginas'.

I can say most sex workers have had clients approach them that were creepy, many have had had abusive clients show up, and some despise some types of men.

I also can say that given SPs are in general paid to allow men to have a certain degree of reality attached to a fantasy, saying the men are horrible lovers, saying they are the kind of man who would be great candidates to be 'just friends', saying the client is creepy, saying you would never let him touch you without the effect of soothing money, are all counter productive statements.

I see you have been involved in Terb since 2003, I can only assume you enjoy it and see it as a long term profession. If I was a client I would book you :)
 

mrsCALoki

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Means some civilians could learn alot.
Yes, both the innies and danglers. It has to be a two way street. If you are not using $ to make it a fair exchange, you need to pay in other ways. Affection, respect, back rubs, foot rubs, more foot rubs, going out and bringing back fresh fish even though you hate fishing, remembering anniversaries, letting your eyes light up when she comes into a room, being polite, making us laugh, and a thousand other ways.

I guess money is easier for most men to provide. Working as an SP made me realise my mon used to get money from my father instead of all those things. My guess is a lot of wives may be like that.
 

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Yes, both the innies and danglers. It has to be a two way street. If you are not using $ to make it a fair exchange, you need to pay in other ways. Affection, respect, back rubs, foot rubs, more foot rubs, going out and bringing back fresh fish even though you hate fishing, remembering anniversaries, letting your eyes light up when she comes into a room, being polite, making us laugh, and a thousand other ways.

I guess money is easier for most men to provide. Working as an SP made me realise my mon used to get money from my father instead of all those things. My guess is a lot of wives may be like that.
I think milehigh meant the civilian GF's could learn alot.
 

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Given all the "nice guys" you see in session, how can you reconcile their "niceness" with the fact that they are also cheaters?
Not every john is a 'cheater', BUT who are we to judge such 'cheaters' when you don't know what's happening at home. Furthermore, sex does not equal love for many guys.

P.S. If every gal was like Jennifer, maybe fewer would cheat ;)
 

mrsCALoki

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I love how SP's have commented saying different then Ms. Jaded and yet she only replies to the gentlemen in this thread. Not to my comment, not to Jessica or Jennifer. Not to Kyra. Just to the men to keep telling them they are hated by the women they see. Give me a break!

I was not in chat so I don't know, I am not an escort so I don't know, but it is written here clear in black and white. What Ms. Jaded has said is simple not the facts, not how ALL, or even most SP's feel and should be therefore ignored. It is trolling and in case you did not know, yes women can be trolls too.
Sorry, I had not commented till I read things I felt like commenting on. Since there were some there when I peaked in today, and I replied.

No I did not comment about your post. I am not certain what your status is. Are you female? Are you an SP? Oh you just said you were not. Is the sex trade industry a source of income for you?

So you are telling me that some Sex Workers do not dislike (to use a mild word) some clients? That is just silly. While working it is great to foster denial, but really? Even the clients can just look around and see some Terb guys they would not want to see for coffee. What is a Troll? I do not want any men to visit me and leave 'an offering'. I find it offensive to feed men's ego to extract their money. Is that trolling? Is pointing out the obvious trolling?

Is labelling people Trolls just to be able to ignore their words and the truth behind the words appropriate?
 

mrsCALoki

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I think milehigh meant the civilian GF's could learn alot.
I know hun; but I pointed out that it takes two for a relationship to grow and survive. Both GFs and BFs must learn a lot
 

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Sorry, I had not commented till I read things I felt like commenting on. Since there were some there when I peaked in today, and I replied.

No I did not comment about your post. I am not certain what your status is. Are you female? Are you an SP? Oh you just said you were not. Is the sex trade industry a source of income for you?

So you are telling me that some Sex Workers do not dislike (to use a mild word) some clients? That is just silly. While working it is great to foster denial, but really? Even the clients can just look around and see some Terb guys they would not want to see for coffee. What is a Troll? I do not want any men to visit me and leave 'an offering'. I find it offensive to feed men's ego to extract their money. Is that trolling? Is pointing out the obvious trolling?

Is labelling people Trolls just to be able to ignore their words and the truth behind the words appropriate?
n Internet slang, a troll is someone who posts inflammatory,[SUP][2][/SUP] extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community, such as an online discussion forum, chat room, or blog, with the primary intent of provoking readers into an emotional response[SUP][3][/SUP] or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion.[SUP][4][/SUP] The noun troll may refer to the provocative message itself, as in: "That was an excellent troll you posted".

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Troll_(Internet)
 

mrsCALoki

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n Internet slang, a troll is someone who posts inflammatory,[SUP][2][/SUP] extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community, such as an online discussion forum, chat room, or blog, with the primary intent of provoking readers into an emotional response[SUP][3][/SUP] or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion.[SUP][4][/SUP] The noun troll may refer to the provocative message itself, as in: "That was an excellent troll you posted".

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Troll_(Internet)
Thank you, that was very kind of you. So HH started a Troll thread. And I got involved responding to people. I must be on topic since it is the topic. Although ALL / All was a false statement by HH. So am I a sub-troll? Sort of like a subordinate-clause is Santa's Elves?

Ok I made a pun. I hate puns but I did it. Spank me.
 
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