Do all escorts despise clients?
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Might want to see who is the OP? And that it was his words, not mine.
Ok 10% I have not done a survey. 25% was an opinion. Just like your 10%
Yes, and most (not all, most) of them will have left the business within 6 months to 18 months of having entered it.
Yes dear, and as in any job some clients are assholes, and some are great, and some become friends, and some you wish would just drop dead, and some you might even think of getting married to.
What is your point? Why do you object to us admitting that most of us have clients who we dislike, occasionally ones we despise, and that possibly a lot we would never spend time with except for the money? You do know "client" includes the ones we only see once and then avoid?
Have you never been with other SPs when the conversation turns to stories and laughter aimed at the loser clients?
Why are you getting so emotionally involved in this? Why do you go on and on about ALL ? Are you a troll ? lol
Many people confuse Love with Obsession.
The former is benevolent and inspirational. The latter can be destructive and soul draining.
Pm away hon. I won't despise you for it.
Nah, even the rude and disrespectful can be treated like Kings. Just treated like the Kings that had their kingdom taken away and revolts in the cities, etc. You get treated how you treat people. It is that easy.
You are right however, it should not matter the clients age, weight, height, race, job, martial status, etc. All men need a little lovin' from true women. Thankfully there are more true women here on TERB.
Hey people, can we get a chair (preferably with armrests) in the bedroom? Why do so many incalls don't have chairs? Where are we suppose to sit?
I completely disagree with you milehigh. There is clearly a difference between SP and SO. SO wants to be with you with no strings attached. There is a special bond between you and SO, that is why they are called SO. There is not only physical love, but emotional love attached with SO.
SPs are different. Do you think a SP will want to be with a client without money? Do you think a SP will spend a minute of her time if she knew that you had no money? A SP will only see a client if she can get something valuable out of them. In most cases, 99% is cash. It's a business transaction and it's clear cut. Sometimes you get a discount because you made their work easier, or there was a small element of physical attraction, but that is where the line is.
Many watched movies similar to "Pretty Woman" and at the end, it's only a movie. I've dated a stripper once, and her view of the world is completely different from that of mine. Her world is all about cash transaction, and saving everything she had, so that she does not have to worry about her future, when her career comes to an end. She had a very selfish view of the world, and that is her way of surviving. I'm not generalizing that all strippers and SPs.
And let's talk about "treating SP or SO better". Do you go and pay an SP to treat them better? So you pay an SP for the hour or HH and fullfil their sexual desires? This is my view of SPs.
1) They are people. They are born equal to men, so they deserve equal respect.
2) They are Professional Service Providers. This means that they are paid for the service that they provide.
The SPs who think that they are gods gift to men, and have attitude that all men should worship them, ends up with a complex and a problem with despising their clients. So when they meet a client like me who thinks that respect is a 2 way street, they will think that I'm an asshole and I'll be one of their despised clients.
THIS IS WHAT I SAID. My first comment on the board. Yes I am suggesting that some clients are not very likeable. Why are you so upset about what I said? HH the OP is the one using ALL, not me.
I am not getting emotionally involved in anything. I can post with thought, not emotion. I know that as a woman that might be hard for people to believe but it is actually possible.
I have heard the stories as well. The great client stories and the loser client stories {which you only like to talk about the one side}. That does not mean the SP's despise their clients which is what you have repeatedly said.
As for blaming the OP, sorry but there were more then just you and him in chat. There are more then just this thread posted on this board. What you have said in chat, and on this board in other threads have shown what most of us already know. You are jaded.**
And to be clear, I am not objecting to SP's discussing clients they dislike, hate, like, love etc. I am objecting to you. Period. It is as simple as that.
My honest opinion: You are a lonely full time SP to your rich hubby who has you as a kept woman and you hate it. You are bored and frustrated that you can find happiness. You are mad at all the guys here because in reality, you would prefer to be sleeping with random fat and ugly men for money over your rich, but old hubby. You don't understand why when you were working, all you wanted was the fat wallet whale to take you away from it all and now that you have it, you are even more miserable. All of which is fine. I could care less. So why am I posting? Because the members here don't deserve to be fed lies and bullshit just because you are bitter and jaded. They did nothing to you. SP's have spoken, clients have spoken, but you don't care. You just continue to post your drivel.
These true women who work in this industry deserve more then the brush you paint them all with. These true men who are here using these services who show so much respect and appreciation for the SP's and what they do, deserve more then the brush you paint them with. The main stream world makes all the members here look like the scum of the earth, they don't need a BSing prissy little tart like you adding the negativity, and stereo-typical and morally taboo bullshit in their own community. And being as I am taking a break from working hard for my money, I felt why not post that.
So there you have it. Not to hard to figure out.
mrsCALoki, are you one of those SP devas who think that all men should bow to your feet and service you? You love all the attention and drama that men and some women provide?
Femme_Fetale, I give you my sincerest respect! My hat goes off to you!
Honestly, I can't tell if Mrs. CA Loki hates clients, or SP's more. She looks highly upon herself though. She thinks she's SO SUPERIOR over others.
I feel so sorry for Mr. CA Loki...
Honestly, I can't tell if Mrs. CA Loki hates clients, or SP's more. She looks highly upon herself though. She thinks she's SO SUPERIOR over others.
I feel so sorry for Mr. CA Loki...
No Jessica you are not alone, the majority of the Ladies I know all love their work and genuinely like their clients.
Been there, done that. She's still a friend! Pretty too. She did confess one drunken night that whenever clients hit on her she does a query on their accounts to see how much the earn, so maybe she's got more in common with mrsCALoki than you might think.
You have to see the more expensive call girls/agencies that use good hotels Rock.
Excellent! I have a great position for nice comfy armchair/ ottoman combination! Wanna try it with me? :eyebrows:
Bang on. Sp's like some of their clients, are neutral with of some of their clients, and dislike a few of their clients but can tolerate them. That is no different than any corporate environment where sales or customer service staff like, dislike and are ok with their clients.
If an SP despises a guy, then he is really not a client and she should not see him anymore.
