Do all escorts despise clients?

[Hurricane Hank]

Recently in CHAT, I have been assured by a former escort, that all working girls despise the men who see them. Some (namely me) moreso than others.

Now, I know it's a business. I am sure there are plenty of crappy clients. But surely, there must be the odd guy who hobbies, is clean and polite, and maybe not even totally repulsive. The thing is, this "lady" holds all johns, even those she never met, in absolute contempt. She assures me that the only reason I don't hear it straight from them, is that it would be bad for business. (duh).

Of course everyone is entitled to an opinion. I normally would not care about such a statement from a bitter former escort. But the fact that she married one of those very johns seems........hypocritical.

I would really like to hear from any former SPs or MPAs.

 

[Hangman]

I don't think they all do. I've formed friendships with some outside the industry even after being a client, which would unlikely if they despised me.

 

[mrsCALoki]

Recently in CHAT, I have been assured by a former escort, that all working girls despise the men who see them. Some (namely me) moreso than others...... She assures me that the only reason I don't hear it straight from them, is that it would be bad for business. (duh).

Actually I said that most escorts dislike at least some of their clients. Why do you think most of us retire after a short time? If you had heard the conversation after you left, I suspect you would have understood why I included you in type that is disliked. Men we like get our home phone numbers and know where we live. Others we would fear their knowing.

Men who have swollen heads, and try to intimidate and insist they are wonderful and nice guys seldom are. Men who write reviews geared to impress other men are just not something we women respond to. We might want the free advertising, but repelled by most of the men who do it.

Am I a hypocrite? No, I always said some guys are great. The man I picked was not cheating on a SO. He was not the kind of guy who had trouble talking to and picking up women. I was not embarrassed or humiliated walking into a restaurant with him. He was funny, charming and good company. So why would I not want to be involved with him? Well maybe because he was emotionally damaged / unavailable but not that badly damaged and after a few hundred hours together he did become emotionally available.

 

[69Shooter]

Actually I said that most escorts dislike at least some of their clients. Why do you think most of us retire after a short time? If you had heard the conversation after you left, I suspect you would have understood why I included you in type that is disliked. Men we like get our home phone numbers and know where we live. Others we would fear their knowing.

Men who have swollen heads, and try to intimidate and insist they are wonderful and nice guys seldom are. Men who write reviews geared to impress other men are just not something we women respond to. We might want the free advertising, but repelled by most of the men who do it.

Am I a hypocrite? No, I always said some guys are great. The man I picked was not cheating on a SO. He was not the kind of guy who had trouble talking to and picking up women. I was not embarrassed or humiliated walking into a restaurant with him. He was funny, charming and good company. So why would I not want to be involved with him? Well maybe because he was emotionally damaged / unavailable but not that badly damaged and after a few hundred hours together he did become emotionally available.

Pussy fatigue?

 

[frankcastle]

why do you care? does your accoumtant doctor or lawyer like you? do you get good service?

blows my mind when guys continue looking for a personal interaction in an impersonal business.

it is like going to the bank and hoping to be friends with the teller.

just be polite get off then go home.

 

[fuji]

The ones who despise their clients are far more likely to be "former" escorts.

 

[Partyman1970]

All escorts cannot be classified as the same. Some may be emotionally damaged or something & actually hate all men. Just as people can have a group of people they do not like or prefer as friends, so too escorts. the group they may like can be different from escort to escort. I did say in another thread & will say here. Escorts & 95 % of women are not attracted to a particular set of men ( the very ugly & those that are short).

 

[mrsCALoki]

why do you care? does your accoumtant doctor or lawyer like you? do you get good service?

blows my mind when guys continue looking for a personal interaction in an impersonal business.

it is like going to the bank and hoping to be friends with the teller.

just be polite get off then go home.

Hug. exactly!

 

[VIPhunter]

Actually I said that most escorts dislike at least some of their clients. Why do you think most of us retire after a short time? If you had heard the conversation after you left, I suspect you would have understood why I included you in type that is disliked. Men we like get our home phone numbers and know where we live. Others we would fear their knowing.

Men who have swollen heads, and try to intimidate and insist they are wonderful and nice guys seldom are. Men who write reviews geared to impress other men are just not something we women respond to. We might want the free advertising, but repelled by most of the men who do it.

Am I a hypocrite? No, I always said some guys are great. The man I picked was not cheating on a SO. He was not the kind of guy who had trouble talking to and picking up women. I was not embarrassed or humiliated walking into a restaurant with him. He was funny, charming and good company. So why would I not want to be involved with him? Well maybe because he was emotionally damaged / unavailable but not that badly damaged and after a few hundred hours together he did become emotionally available.

I don't think sex work is as unique as many pretend it to be. Many people like their customers. Some are easy to deal with and respectful of your time. They may get extra's or a small discount because of their attitude. That does not mean that they are not charged for the work or service, however. There are some customers who are nightmares to deal with, and the choice is, work for them and greatflly accept their money, or say thanks, but we can't accomdate your requirements.

There are a few posts where some SPs lash out at potential customers because of any number of behaviours that the SP does not like.
As some have written, there are SPs who seem to think they have a golden pussy, and men are lucky to pay to get access. Like any business, The supplier must be thankfull for the money the customer pays, and the customer, should be both satisfied that it was money well spent, and thankfull for the service provided.

 

[dreamblade]

I don't think they all do. I've formed friendships with some outside the industry even after being a client, which would unlikely if they despised me.

Seconded. Two of my best friends are ladies I met through the industry.

 

[Rockslinger]

"Despise" is too strong a word in most cases. Just like many wives, it is likely that many escorts dislike what they do sexually with men. Maybe that is why 81% of the women in my neighbourhood are lesbos.

 

[buttercup]

why do you care? does your accoumtant doctor or lawyer like you? do you get good service?
blows my mind when guys continue looking for a personal interaction in an impersonal business.
it is like going to the bank and hoping to be friends with the teller.
just be polite get off then go home.

If you're just getting off and then going home, you might as well have stayed at home and done it yourself.

It's so much better when it's mutual.

 

[frankcastle]

If you're just getting off and then going home, you might as well have stayed at home and done it yourself.

It's so much better when it's mutual.

please most fake it just enjoy the fantasy and stop looking for reality in a session

 

[frankcastle]

All escorts cannot be classified as the same. Some may be emotionally damaged or something & actually hate all men. Just as people can have a group of people they do not like or prefer as friends, so too escorts. the group they may like can be different from escort to escort. I did say in another thread & will say here. Escorts & 95 % of women are not attracted to a particular set of men ( the very ugly & those that are short).[/QUOTE

fuck are u still on about height you dont know what she thinks about you unless she wants you to.

if she doesnt like you it is probably something else before height

besides you are talking attraction and height is not a mood killer.....hairy or smelly or rude yes

 

[nondescriptive]

I've formed friendships with some outside the industry even after being a client,

ditto

 

[VirginJohn]

If you're just getting off and then going home, you might as well have stayed at home and done it yourself.

It's so much better when it's mutual.

Exactly. That's why I have a fleshlight and look at escort pics. I have never actually physically been with an escort but have elaborate fantasies about them.

But even when I do that, I like looking at "sub" fetish escorts, or any particular types that I may get vibes they actually enjoy their work otherwise I don't even like masturbating to it. Key words like "sub", "no-gag reflex" will clue me into that type. I like looking at websites of escorts where it actually says they enjoy having sex, or reviews which says they have loads of fun all the time because she's really into it. So, even on a fantasy level, it's important that she also enjoys it otherwise it feels disgusting and humiliating. Very few escorts seem to like what they are doing, but they are usually on the fat side from what I see.

 

[red]

all escorts are the same. they have no individuality. if one despises all clients then they all do.

 

[mrsCALoki]

all escorts are the same. they have no individuality. if one despises all clients then they all do.

You forgot to add that if several escorts find a guy worthy of despising, all clients are instantly despicable? Right?

 

[Viggo Rasmussen]

Good reason to stay out of review board chat rooms.

 

[Kyra.Graves]

all escorts are the same. they have no individuality. if one despises all clients then they all do.

I just got some new pics, do ewe like them?