thanks JessicaI doubt it too... you're right on with your comments... all of them ; )
thanks JessicaI doubt it too... you're right on with your comments... all of them ; )
.... she's super hawtWhat you wrote makes perfect sense to me. And by the way, you look hot.
Your comments are fair. I will admit that I do-indeed probably worry about my SO cheating more than the average girl - and it's very likely due to what I've seen.You get out what you put in. By all accounts, you're a nice person. It would take a real jerk to be nasty to a nice girl.
You also have a very positive disposition, and yes, I do think that your attitude is part of defensive mechanism that is needed for the job.
Let's talk after you retire. I've chatted with a few retired MPAs/SPs. I have been very surprised by their views. Maybe they don't despise clients, but they are very happy to have gotten out of the job.
Anyway, "despise" is a harsh term. But, I'd be willing to bet big bucks that all escorts develop a deep distrust of men and possibly of romance. Given all the "nice guys" you see in session, how can you reconcile their "niceness" with the fact that they are also cheaters? You know the odds are against you in finding true, everlasting, fairytale love....
Look at all the SPs on here who poo-pooed Valentine's Day...
lol....that was bit mean but still lolmrsCAloki kinda reminds me of Nancy Grace of CNN...
Jennifer, you look hot too. But Viggo is right, in what he stated. "It's unfair to say she despised her clients, that's a term someone else came up with. She made her own feelings known in response." All SPs have a share of good days and bad. This goes for all the occupation out there. But I would have more empathy for a girl who works at a local burger joint saying "Some customers are shit heads", than a SP who drives a nice BMW carrying an LV purse wearing a rolex watch..... she's super hawt
... some girls find solace in material items. Not all of us but some do. I'm not looking for empathy- I'm happy with what I do. TRUST ME - There's no way in hell you'd catch me carrying an LV purse - and there are a lot of girls out there just like me..... We aren't alll superficial like the stereotype claims we are...Jennifer, you look hot too. But Viggo is right, in what he stated. "It's unfair to say she despised her clients, that's a term someone else came up with. She made her own feelings known in response." All SPs have a share of good days and bad. This goes for all the occupation out there. But I would have more empathy for a girl who works at a local burger joint saying "Some customers are shit heads", than a SP who drives a nice BMW carrying an LV purse wearing a rolex watch.
For the record, I'm not saying that all SPs drive a BMW or carry LV purses, or materialistic. I just want to make a point that there is a huge difference in what a girl makes in a burger joint, as opposed to an SP. Wouldn't you feel more empathy for a guy who complains working in a burger joint, than a guy who services women who make more than 6 figures?... some girls find solace in material items. Not all of us but some do. I'm not looking for empathy- I'm happy with what I do. TRUST ME - There's no way in hell you'd catch me carrying an LV purse - and there are a lot of girls out there just like me..... We aren't alll superficial like the stereotype claims we are...
I love your honest opinions. It's refreshing to see the truth from a former SP who is no longer in the service. You are definitely not a troll.So you are telling me that some Sex Workers do not dislike (to use a mild word) some clients? That is just silly. While working it is great to foster denial, but really? Even the clients can just look around and see some Terb guys they would not want to see for coffee. What is a Troll? I do not want any men to visit me and leave 'an offering'. I find it offensive to feed men's ego to extract their money. Is that trolling? Is pointing out the obvious trolling?
but we aren't all looking for empathy. I'm not looking for it. I make a decent income and I work in the sex industry. I like my clients and I'm not searching for anyone's pity...For the record, I'm not saying that all SPs drive a BMW or carry LV purses, or materialistic. I just want to make a point that there is a huge difference in what a girl makes in a burger joint, as opposed to an SP. Wouldn't you feel more empathy for a guy who complains working in a burger joint, than a guy who services women who make more than 6 figures?
But look what mrsCALoki quoted earlier.but we aren't all looking for empathy. I'm not looking for it. I make a decent income and I work in the sex industry. I like my clients and I'm not searching for anyone's pity...
I don't feel sorry for anyone who chooses to do something they don't want to do for the sake of making a few dollars.
And then toughb quoted.That is possible. For many there are few option. For a single mom with no education, no family to help, who has heard her child cry at night because he was hungry, or a student in her last year who has borrowed from everyone she can and will never even be able to pay it off unless she works as an SP the options are limited.
As for how we feel about clients.... go to the food store, and imagine having to sleep with every woman you see. And to get paid you must convince each one you are having the time of your life. Now add about 25% who are abusive. Can you claim you would like doing it?
I agree with toughb. And Jennifer, you don't fall under the category of SPs that seek empathy. I never claimed that you did.Oh please, give me a break. The old bleeding heart story.
You know quite well that this scenario does not fit the majority of SP's. They are all here for the money. Doctors deal with a lot of patients that they may not like but have to treat. The difference is that SPs can pick and choose who they deal with. The highlighted section is not true.
You think so? I think she looks more like Liv Tyler.Jezebel, you have that Tori Spelling look.
Hmmm, perhaps we should ask the members to vote on it. I wonder if Jennifer and Jezebel would perform a duo session? Now that would be very sexy.You think so? I think she looks more like Liv Tyler.
agreebobistheowl said:You think so? I think she looks more like Liv Tyler.kenpachi said:Jezebel, you have that Tori Spelling look.
You said that johns aren't 'nice' to SPs since they cheat. I'm saying, don't judge a john who's nice to an SP, even if he cheats. That doesn't make him despicable. SP's may very well cheat themselves. Nobody is assessing the association on those terms, lest they be hypocritical, judgmental, etc.Ok, cheating may be ok if circumstances warrant?
Let's ask some women when it would be ok for their man to step out.
if anything, i found that SP/MPA are more "strict" about fidelity than the avg woman (and some are completely "open"). Industry girls know the value of sex to men, and how to use it. Infidelity is taken very personally because its like an insult to her skills as a professional lover.
Don't need to ask.. I can read pages and pages of reviews. That tells me the good, bad and ugly of almost any SP that ever lived.some might despise others might not
if you had a good time that is enough
when you click it is better but who knows it could just be part of the act
but that should not matter
could flip it around and ask what we think of the women
If your BF knows what you really do with your clients, the probability of him being faithful ... is low. Really low. If he doesn't know, then your whole relationship is based on a lie.The fairytale is attainable - despite what we know. i am living the fairytale ('nuff said)
Yes, it simply means to just be physical & possibly cerebral with a woman and not emotional.The getting in and out is in reference to sticking to enjoying hte session rather than wanting to get with the MPA in any capacity beyond business. If it happens by accident great. Otherwise don't bother.
To me massages are supposed to be fun and the risks of emotional injury from hoping for more is just not worth it.