told to change

[rgkv]

I knew it.. After being single for 20 years now, after meeting someone who I thought I was going to finnish out life with, it happens.. "You need to change"..she said to this 70+ man... who just happens to have a pretty good life, retired, finacialy secure and now remaing single

 

[RZG]

I knew it.. After being single for 20 years now, after meeting someone who I thought I was going to finnish out life with, it happens.. "You need to change"..she said to this 70+ man... who just happens to have a pretty good life, retired, finacialy secure and now remaing single

Remember...relationships are about solving problems together, problems you wouldn`t have if you were single.

 

[xmontrealer]

What was you before you met her? Better off!

 

[rgkv]

What was you before you met her? Better off!

well, like they say.. you cant teach an old dog new tricks

 

[rgkv]

Remember...relationships are about solving problems together, problems you wouldn`t have if you were single.

and thats why i decided single is for me

 

[massman]

I knew it.. After being single for 20 years now, after meeting someone who I thought I was going to finnish out life with, it happens.. "You need to change"..she said to this 70+ man... who just happens to have a pretty good life, retired, finacialy secure and now remaing single

Out of curiosity, what/ how did she want you to change?

 

[coachbobby]

I knew it.. After being single for 20 years now, after meeting someone who I thought I was going to finnish out life with, it happens.. "You need to change"..she said to this 70+ man... who just happens to have a pretty good life, retired, finacialy secure and now remaing single

brother...go to a strip club, enjoy a cold one and blow a wad on a fine beautie.

 

[rgkv]

Out of curiosity, what/ how did she want you to change?

she wanted me to give up my dobbies because her family does not do it..

 

[Leimonis]

she wanted me to give up my dobbies because her family does not do it..

invite her family here and we will do our best to advocate for your hobby!

 

[bazokajoe]

And women wonder why they can't find anyone.

 

[rgkv]

The phrase "tough shit" comes to mind....whether you meant "hobbies", "doobies".....or both....

dobbies are my hobbies.. and thats what I said " tough shit"

 

[SchlongConery]

I knew it.. After being single for 20 years now, after meeting someone who I thought I was going to finnish out life with, it happens..
"You need to change"..she said to this 70+ man... who just happens to have a pretty good life, retired, finacialy secure and now remaing single

A man marries a woman hoping she'll never change. But she always does.

A woman marries a man hoping he will change. But he never does.

 

[shack]

Does she have any better options?

 

[xix]

I knew it.. After being single for 20 years now, after meeting someone who I thought I was going to finnish out life with, it happens.. "You need to change"..she said to this 70+ man... who just happens to have a pretty good life, retired, finacialy secure and now remaing single

When a woman say to a man " you need/have to change" and he changes, she dumps him.
Pretty much she was dumping you this is a dumping mechanism that women use when they want to break up the relationship.

She pretty much has someone else lined up. You were just her Sugar Daddy.


Dobbies Garden Centres is a British chain of garden centres based in Lasswade, Scotland. It is the biggest garden centre operator in the United Kingdom, operating over 75 stores, some of which it acquired from the previous biggest garden centre chain, Wyevale. Wikipedia

 

[rgkv]

She has other women....

and she can have them

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

I knew it.. After being single for 20 years now, after meeting someone who I thought I was going to finnish out life with, it happens.. "You need to change"..she said to this 70+ man... who just happens to have a pretty good life, retired, finacialy secure and now remaing single

Can you not take critisism ? If you can both communicate respectfully and make an agreement moving forward and have some resilience this isn’t an issue.do not retort that she needs to change. She’s approaching you with a concern, now discuss options and be open. Everyone can change. Everyday is a new opportunity and a new perspective. You
also you dont need to adopt new ways without discussion.
you can be curious. I have no idea what change she needs so I can’t be more specific on ways to approach other than divorce as you’re indicating.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

she wanted me to give up my dobbies because her family does not do it..

What is a dobbie? Isn’t that the character from Harry Potter under the stairs or something

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

What was you before you met her? Better off!

Grammatical correction : what “were” you before you met her?

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

When a woman say to a man " you need/have to change" and he changes, she dumps him.
Pretty much she was dumping you this is a dumping mechanism that women use when they want to break up the relationship.

She pretty much has someone else lined up. You were just her Sugar Daddy.


Dobbies Garden Centres is a British chain of garden centres based in Lasswade, Scotland. It is the biggest garden centre operator in the United Kingdom, operating over 75 stores, some of which it acquired from the previous biggest garden centre chain, Wyevale. Wikipedia

You’re lost. Have you been in more than one relationship? who do you listen to to get your view on women and relationships ? Your correlations are unfounded.
bad advice from lack of experience.
thank you for letting me know who dobbie is though. I don’t think they have online shopping he would need to give up.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

well, like they say.. you cant teach an old dog new tricks

But you very much CAN.
this saying was said by a man who was stubborn and unwilling to tame his ego to save his relation.
I wouldn’t be surprised if the first dog trainer
was a woman and was inspired by this over quoted phrase.
you are a human man. Not a dog.
we are smarter than a dog and we are conscious.
that’s enough of an answer.