I seen same profile/photos on SB and Bubble I think some women do want catch some feelings before entering an arrangement. Not a fraudster but I would be careful about entering a deeper relationship if you all you just want is casual sex
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some women simply want conventional boyfriends who are not broke and are willing to pay for shit.
Although haven't been on it for years, this has been my experience on SD.
I got into several meaningful long term relationships with really nice, top notch well adjusted girls I met on there that simply wanted to weed out broke dicks and date a successful guy that wasn't a cheapskate. Although none had "daddy issues" per se, they also liked older men for the experiences they could provide. In and out of the bedroom.
And then we are back to the old dilemma: would you rather pay for her spa and shoes and listen about her day or pay cash and not listen about it
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dayuse.com or hotelsbyday will give you day use hotels at a variety of price points depending on your location. Some good pricing can be found if the timing is right.
The old saying "I don't pay for sex, I pay for her to go home after."And then we are back to the old dilemma: would you rather pay for her spa and shoes and listen about her day or pay cash and not listen about it
I have a puzzling case I can't quite put my finger on. Got in touch with a woman from SA and from the get go she indicated she is very well off financially and that she does not want any financial compensation. She knows I'm married and that I'm not looking for a serious marriage-oriented relationship. OK, so red flags appeared. I'm waiting for a scam but not sure exactly what. Curious though to see where it goes. Surely enough, a day before we were to meet in person, she had a family event that forced her to go far enough to make meeting in person impossible. She kept texting multiple times a day, trivial things like "how's your day", "what you are doing?", "I'm taking a shower now", etc. Says she wants to really connect online before meeting in person to "take the awkwardness away when seeing each other in person for the first time". Right.
Now the only reason I kept texting back was because I was curious to find out what her scheme was. She mentioned several times how successful she is with her investments and even showed one trade transaction in which she profited a large sum of money. So naturally I'm waiting for her to ask me to invest with her (I had another scammer try that) but no, she never asked for money. I even told her explicitly that I will not be sending any money until we have met in person and she got offended that I even thought that. Ten or so days after we've been back and forth texting, I decided I've had enough - there was no sign of her "returning" to Toronto to meet and I didn't want to waste my time anymore. I deleted our texts (using Telegram you can delete both ends) and she got upset. Seemed really hurt. It's been over a day and haven't heard from her. I wonder what she was scheming to do. Extort me after collecting what she hoped would be enough personal information to find my identity? Any guesses?
Now the only reason I kept texting back was because I was curious to find out what her scheme was. She mentioned several times how successful she is with her investments and even showed one trade transaction in which she profited a large sum of money. So naturally I'm waiting for her to ask me to invest with her (I had another scammer try that) but no, she never asked for money. I even told her explicitly that I will not be sending any money until we have met in person and she got offended that I even thought that. Ten or so days after we've been back and forth texting, I decided I've had enough - there was no sign of her "returning" to Toronto to meet and I didn't want to waste my time anymore. I deleted our texts (using Telegram you can delete both ends) and she got upset. Seemed really hurt. It's been over a day and haven't heard from her. I wonder what she was scheming to do. Extort me after collecting what she hoped would be enough personal information to find my identity? Any guesses?
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it has got to be an investment type scheme. I don’t know if it makes sense to bother figuring out what exactly it is. In all likelihood it’s not gonna be interesting enough. And then you just wasted your time on something dumb as fuck. After all, we are there to get our dicks wet, not to research latest fraud.
Also considering how poorly SA is managed and how easy it is to get banned there I’m trying to avoid any situation where I would start trolling them and they would start reporting me. I used to troll the shit out of them all, but then I got banned a few years ago and barely was able to get back on. Now it is pretty simple. I see red flags, I block and I forget.
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Yeah, most likely an investment type scheme but surprised she didn't ask for money for so long. Not much time wasted really, I just spend a minute or two a day texting.
Keep playing coy. If you don't want to do that, tell her that there's no sense in chatting until she's back in Toronto and ready to meet. It's better to talk in person if someone is interested in learning about the other.
Showing you her transaction is very, very weird.
my latest convo with a similar (or maybe the same) girl on SA went like this:
-Are you interested in investments?
-yes, that’s why I’m on this site! To get an investment advice.
-are you trying to be rude? I just asked you a question
-“me realizing I have no energy or desire to continue trolling” BLOCK
Yeah, the only reason that makes sense to me to show me her transaction after just texting for a couple of days it to lure me into giving her money to invest on my behalf.
I was just trying to set up a date with a new SB. When I asked her how much she was looking for for a date. She gave me a high number and I told her that most of the girls I'd met were asking for half of that amount.
She said she would not settle for less. "I'm not and escort."
I couldn't resist when I replied, "at what price does it change from escort to SB?"
I suspect that I won't hear back from her.
She said she would not settle for less. "I'm not and escort."
I couldn't resist when I replied, "at what price does it change from escort to SB?"
I suspect that I won't hear back from her.
It’s not an easy question
but in all seriousness I’d say that the SBs honorarium should come to a full stop at a price of a duo ie about $700 or so in todays dollars.
Two women cannot be worth less than one.
Call small chains or independent motels and ask for the day rate.
Also the Hilton website is very usefull. Pick a city and when choosing the date click the same date for check in and check out. It will then search for properties that offer day rooms and give you the options across all the Hilton brands. Some properties offer day rooms from 9am to 4pm for a pretty good rate if you’re lucky. Good for an afternoon or morning hookup. (or all day if you and the young lady are so inclined
Often the bigger brands like Fairmont and Hilton offer day rooms because they have housekeeping on staff 24-7. The smaller properties cant turn over a room as fast with fewer staff.
They are pulling one of the oldest tricks in the book. Hint around, then wait until you ask them details. Then they say that this opportunity is pased, but they will keep you in mind for the next one and see if they can 'get you in'.
One of the funniest movies of all time... what an ending!
It's known as a 'long con'.
These con artist fraudsters are clever. They know human nature and how to size up, and also to move on from, a mark If the schemes didn't work, then they wouldn't keep working them.
On these sb and dating sites, the MOMENT anyone refers to investments in any way, report and block them. Women do NOT share their money and have no reason to let you think they have any money or are loaded. To the contrary. Real women who have money don't want to attract cons or mooches.
Funny thing about victims of fraud, is they refuse to believe they've been convinced to believe something is real. When it is not. Even when the evidence is right in front of them. Some even continue to refer to "him"or "her" even when it was a man behind it. Like the guys who get suckered by the Leolist deposit scammers. These are guys in some phone room in Nigeria or India, yet the marks still think that "she" ripped them off.
And often people who have been conned, double down. Just look at the people who that clever, con-artiste extraordinaire who were targeted by him ("I love the poor and uneducated") . They simply WILL not believe anything that he does not say himself or that agrees with what he says.
The only better victims are horny, succesful guys who think they are too smart to fall for the con.
REPORT and block. You may be saving some other lonely hard working simp from getting conned out of his life savings.
