Sugar Dating Experience

[GeeBee]

Yeah, I am sure she's not a fraudster at this point since she hasn't even asked for any money yet.

I am more so surprised because it's still a SB site, not Hinge or Tinder. And I am fine building something with her just a little confused since she hasn't even mentioned any sort of arrangement details yet and this would be my 3rd time seeing her in basically a span of 12 days.

There are girls on the Sugar sites who are legitimately looking for a long term relationship with an older guy. (Yes for most of us it’s bullshit but they are there) Seeking’s current marketing to girls really does make it look like a place to score a whale, and the CEO of Secret Benefits claims to have married his young sugar baby. He’s bringing her on as an exec soon apparently. That kind of thing sends a really strong impression to the ladies that it’s not always sex for money, escorting lite. (even though for the vast majority of guys on the sites it’s complete nonsense)

Unless you really like this girl’s company and don’t want to rock whatever boat you seem to be sailing in, I’d mention the idea of sex with her pretty soon. Either before or shortly after you raise the subject of a PPM or an allowance and the whole “mutually beneficial” euphemism. Unless she’s going to sleep with you for nothing of course

 

[Funtimez77]

I’d mention the idea of sex with her pretty soon. Either before or shortly after you raise the subject of a PPM or an allowance and the whole “mutually beneficial” euphemism. Unless she’s going to sleep with you for nothing of course

Yeah, I am going to frankly ask about hanging out at my place for our next date and see what's she says.

 

[Adrian45]

What the fuck is PPM?

 

[netsurfer]

What the fuck is PPM?

Pay per Meeting

 

[dchoye]

Yeah, I am sure she's not a fraudster at this point since she hasn't even asked for any money yet.

I am more so surprised because it's still a SB site, not Hinge or Tinder. And I am fine building something with her just a little confused since she hasn't even mentioned any sort of arrangement details yet and this would be my 3rd time seeing her in basically a span of 12 days.

I seen same profile/photos on SB and Bubble I think some women do want catch some feelings before entering an arrangement. Not a fraudster but I would be careful about entering a deeper relationship if you all you just want is casual sex

 

[Leimonis]

I seen same profile/photos on SB and Bubble I think some women do want catch some feelings before entering an arrangement. Not a fraudster but I would be careful about entering a deeper relationship if you all you just want is casual sex

some women simply want conventional boyfriends who are not broke and are willing to pay for shit.

 

[SchlongConery]

some women simply want conventional boyfriends who are not broke and are willing to pay for shit.

Although haven't been on it for years, this has been my experience on SD.

I got into several meaningful long term relationships with really nice, top notch well adjusted girls I met on there that simply wanted to weed out broke dicks and date a successful guy that wasn't a cheapskate. Although none had "daddy issues" per se, they also liked older men for the experiences they could provide. In and out of the bedroom.

 

[Leimonis]

That’s very true. This might be a new trend for now!

And then we are back to the old dilemma: would you rather pay for her spa and shoes and listen about her day or pay cash and not listen about it

 

[futt bucker]

What's a good source for relatively cheap places to rent? Day or by the hour?

 

[GeeBee]

What's a good source for relatively cheap places to rent? Day or by the hour?

dayuse.com or hotelsbyday will give you day use hotels at a variety of price points depending on your location. Some good pricing can be found if the timing is right.

 

[Soccersweeper]

And then we are back to the old dilemma: would you rather pay for her spa and shoes and listen about her day or pay cash and not listen about it

The old saying "I don't pay for sex, I pay for her to go home after."

 

[futt bucker]

I have a puzzling case I can't quite put my finger on. Got in touch with a woman from SA and from the get go she indicated she is very well off financially and that she does not want any financial compensation. She knows I'm married and that I'm not looking for a serious marriage-oriented relationship. OK, so red flags appeared. I'm waiting for a scam but not sure exactly what. Curious though to see where it goes. Surely enough, a day before we were to meet in person, she had a family event that forced her to go far enough to make meeting in person impossible. She kept texting multiple times a day, trivial things like "how's your day", "what you are doing?", "I'm taking a shower now", etc. Says she wants to really connect online before meeting in person to "take the awkwardness away when seeing each other in person for the first time". Right.

Now the only reason I kept texting back was because I was curious to find out what her scheme was. She mentioned several times how successful she is with her investments and even showed one trade transaction in which she profited a large sum of money. So naturally I'm waiting for her to ask me to invest with her (I had another scammer try that) but no, she never asked for money. I even told her explicitly that I will not be sending any money until we have met in person and she got offended that I even thought that. Ten or so days after we've been back and forth texting, I decided I've had enough - there was no sign of her "returning" to Toronto to meet and I didn't want to waste my time anymore. I deleted our texts (using Telegram you can delete both ends) and she got upset. Seemed really hurt. It's been over a day and haven't heard from her. I wonder what she was scheming to do. Extort me after collecting what she hoped would be enough personal information to find my identity? Any guesses?

 

[Leimonis]

I have a puzzling case I can't quite put my finger on. Got in touch with a woman from SA and from the get go she indicated she is very well off financially and that she does not want any financial compensation. She knows I'm married and that I'm not looking for a serious marriage-oriented relationship. OK, so red flags appeared. I'm waiting for a scam but not sure exactly what. Curious though to see where it goes. Surely enough, a day before we were to meet in person, she had a family event that forced her to go far enough to make meeting in person impossible. She kept texting multiple times a day, trivial things like "how's your day", "what you are doing?", "I'm taking a shower now", etc. Says she wants to really connect online before meeting in person to "take the awkwardness away when seeing each other in person for the first time". Right.

Now the only reason I kept texting back was because I was curious to find out what her scheme was. She mentioned several times how successful she is with her investments and even showed one trade transaction in which she profited a large sum of money. So naturally I'm waiting for her to ask me to invest with her (I had another scammer try that) but no, she never asked for money. I even told her explicitly that I will not be sending any money until we have met in person and she got offended that I even thought that. Ten or so days after we've been back and forth texting, I decided I've had enough - there was no sign of her "returning" to Toronto to meet and I didn't want to waste my time anymore. I deleted our texts (using Telegram you can delete both ends) and she got upset. Seemed really hurt. It's been over a day and haven't heard from her. I wonder what she was scheming to do. Extort me after collecting what she hoped would be enough personal information to find my identity? Any guesses?

it has got to be an investment type scheme. I don’t know if it makes sense to bother figuring out what exactly it is. In all likelihood it’s not gonna be interesting enough. And then you just wasted your time on something dumb as fuck. After all, we are there to get our dicks wet, not to research latest fraud.
Also considering how poorly SA is managed and how easy it is to get banned there I’m trying to avoid any situation where I would start trolling them and they would start reporting me. I used to troll the shit out of them all, but then I got banned a few years ago and barely was able to get back on. Now it is pretty simple. I see red flags, I block and I forget.

 

[futt bucker]

it has got to be an investment type scheme. I don’t know if it makes sense to bother figuring out what exactly it is. In all likelihood it’s not gonna be interesting enough. And then you just wasted your time on something dumb as fuck. After all, we are there to get our dicks wet, not to research latest fraud.
Also considering how poorly SA is managed and how easy it is to get banned there I’m trying to avoid any situation where I would start trolling them and they would start reporting me. I used to troll the shit out of them all, but then I got banned a few years ago and barely was able to get back on. Now it is pretty simple. I see red flags, I block and I forget.

Yeah, most likely an investment type scheme but surprised she didn't ask for money for so long. Not much time wasted really, I just spend a minute or two a day texting.

 

[shack]

Yeah, most likely an investment type scheme but surprised she didn't ask for money for so long. Not much time wasted really, I just spend a minute or two a day texting.

Keep playing coy. If you don't want to do that, tell her that there's no sense in chatting until she's back in Toronto and ready to meet. It's better to talk in person if someone is interested in learning about the other.

Showing you her transaction is very, very weird.

 

[Leimonis]

Keep playing coy. If you don't want to do that, tell her that there's no sense in chatting until she's back in Toronto and ready to meet. It's better to talk in person if someone is interested in learning about the other.

Showing you her transaction is very, very weird.

my latest convo with a similar (or maybe the same) girl on SA went like this:
-Are you interested in investments?
-yes, that’s why I’m on this site! To get an investment advice.
-are you trying to be rude? I just asked you a question
-“me realizing I have no energy or desire to continue trolling” BLOCK

 

[futt bucker]

Keep playing coy. If you don't want to do that, tell her that there's no sense in chatting until she's back in Toronto and ready to meet. It's better to talk in person if someone is interested in learning about the other.

Showing you her transaction is very, very weird.

Yeah, the only reason that makes sense to me to show me her transaction after just texting for a couple of days it to lure me into giving her money to invest on my behalf.

 

[shack]

I was just trying to set up a date with a new SB. When I asked her how much she was looking for for a date. She gave me a high number and I told her that most of the girls I'd met were asking for half of that amount.

She said she would not settle for less. "I'm not and escort."

I couldn't resist when I replied, "at what price does it change from escort to SB?"

I suspect that I won't hear back from her.

 

[Leimonis]

She said she would not settle for less. "I'm not and escort."

I couldn't resist when I replied, "at what price does it change from escort to SB?"

I suspect that I won't hear back from her.

It’s not an easy question

but in all seriousness I’d say that the SBs honorarium should come to a full stop at a price of a duo ie about $700 or so in todays dollars.
Two women cannot be worth less than one.

 

[IMBob]

What's a good source for relatively cheap places to rent? Day or by the hour?

Call small chains or independent motels and ask for the day rate.