Usually, photos have to be approved or checked, and putting your number will probably just get it declined. I'm sure the girls posting "Don't have a paid membership, DM me your number" would have figured this out before if worked
Sugar Dating Experience
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I’ve never heard of such a donation. Try 4500+ where I’m from for an overnight
If the SB wants to keep the cash flowing, she'd better be damn sure that she keeps things discreet.
I still see his concern. Even if discreet it’s still more involving than simply seeing an SP.
Although a ton of SBs have mentioned that they had married daddies. It’s definitely a thing.
My experience after a couple of weeks:
There are some scammers but are easy to spot if you're not a total nincompoop. Example: I want to establish a real connection online first, oh, something came up and I can't meet you in person (like a family emergency that requires a trip away), I am great at investments, here are some (fake) examples to show you how great I am, and do you want to deepen our connection by investing with me (i.e. give me your money and I'll invest for you).
Then there are those who ask for ridiculous sums of money. 3-4K monthly allowance or that one woman who said that men in their 30s give her 600 PPM, men in the 40s give her 800 PPM, etc., another asked for 800 PPM and 200 for just a coffee date (my time isn't free, hun, she said). Many ask for 500-600 PPM but can be talked down to 300-400.
So far I've found two: one who can host so no added hotel expense; she's young and cute but I think she sees a few men and is what I would describe as part-time escort. Another who simply did not specify any amount but said anything you can help! She's young and cute.
I've also agreed with a couple on 300 PPM but I'd need to find a place.
So yeah, you can find decent ones but the search is long and be careful of all those scammers.
There are some scammers but are easy to spot if you're not a total nincompoop. Example: I want to establish a real connection online first, oh, something came up and I can't meet you in person (like a family emergency that requires a trip away), I am great at investments, here are some (fake) examples to show you how great I am, and do you want to deepen our connection by investing with me (i.e. give me your money and I'll invest for you).
Then there are those who ask for ridiculous sums of money. 3-4K monthly allowance or that one woman who said that men in their 30s give her 600 PPM, men in the 40s give her 800 PPM, etc., another asked for 800 PPM and 200 for just a coffee date (my time isn't free, hun, she said). Many ask for 500-600 PPM but can be talked down to 300-400.
So far I've found two: one who can host so no added hotel expense; she's young and cute but I think she sees a few men and is what I would describe as part-time escort. Another who simply did not specify any amount but said anything you can help! She's young and cute.
I've also agreed with a couple on 300 PPM but I'd need to find a place.
So yeah, you can find decent ones but the search is long and be careful of all those scammers.
I posted on Reddit toronto sugar dating and got lucky once. FOB Indian girl looks really sexy. (22) monthly allowance was $800 but allows only two meets per month and downside in each meet she only allows one shot telling me I am too big it hurts. Hotel costs me $120 and need to buy lunch too. Too much.... after few months I was getting board and getting too expensive. She young , hot 36 DD and cute but the sex part not like SP. Not experienced. Bbbj not great either.
I think I am going to stick to SPs going forward.
I think I am going to stick to SPs going forward.
I am not sure to expect an uphill or downhill of SB available. Maybe people are getting bored or tired of it.
This article sort of explains it.
www.thespec.com
This article sort of explains it.
‘I don’t want this anymore.’ The dating app backlash is here
What went so wrong with the digital era of dating — and what it’ll take to fix it.
And this
www.thestar.com
Women are quitting dating because it’s a “dumpster fire” out there. How we got here and what can help
“Why I quit dating” videos citing bad behaviour like ghosting and game-playing are proliferating on social media, and the apps are taking note.
Men are getting wise to the massive number of FB groups created by women under the context of "safety and protecting each other"...where they post men's pics and either ask if anyone has red flags about them...or slander the posted men for whatever reason....usually cuz the women have been ghosted, or they got banged then ghosted etc. These women are referred to as the "Un-picked" and are generally bitter. Men are starting to realize dating apps are stacked against them on multiple levels, and since they are the majority who pay for the subscriptions....And this
Women are quitting dating because it’s a “dumpster fire” out there. How we got here and what can help
“Why I quit dating” videos citing bad behaviour like ghosting and game-playing are proliferating on social media, and the apps are taking note.
Well if they...... ( women)
1. paid their own
2. real photo
3. truth who they are
4. not looking for a handy man temporary - no transactional sex
I think both sides be happy.
You have link to one of these FB groups?
My 2 cents after a few weeks.
* My profile is pretty clear that I just want "one or two FWB-meetings a month where they host. No one reads my fucking profile. I get a lot of "I'm not looking for that".
* there is a lot of, "I need, $1500 for tuition tomorrow but I'll see you next week". Riiiiight.
* Under 25 sincerely believe that men just want to throw $ at them for being young and pretty
* Most escorts west of Toronto are say $350 to $400/Hour. The PPM SB/SD rate seems to be $500 per meet. Given that the timing is very "flexible", this MIGHT be the same price from a certain point of view. I have no desire to push the time limits and see how flexible
* KWC-G area, there's no non-escort sub-25 year old lSB looking for sex. They've bought into the whole dinner, dance, travel thing. Maybe they get it, no idea.
* However, I've done really well with a certain demographic. They have kids, going to school, they can host and they need $. I'm one of many SDs but most of their SDs want dinner and stupid shit. The two SBs that I see hate it as it works out to be $100 to $150 per hour. They appreciate that I show up, 60-90 minutes, I'm gone.
* I'm completely aware that some girls are low-balling themselves because they just don't know any better. Sorry guys, I send them LL & Tryst links to show what social rates & Escorting rates are. What goes around comes around so I'm not cheating anybody.
* It's a LOT more work and it's a bit of shit show. Going to Escorts via Tryst and Leolist is a lot easier.
July 1st update: there must be a bunch of SBs must trade “who’s safe” messages because in the last little bit I’ve gotten 5 messages and they’re all very quick to say they can host during the day, kids are in school, they just want hookups, for an hour and their PPM is remarkably similar.
* My profile is pretty clear that I just want "one or two FWB-meetings a month where they host. No one reads my fucking profile. I get a lot of "I'm not looking for that".
* there is a lot of, "I need, $1500 for tuition tomorrow but I'll see you next week". Riiiiight.
* Under 25 sincerely believe that men just want to throw $ at them for being young and pretty
* Most escorts west of Toronto are say $350 to $400/Hour. The PPM SB/SD rate seems to be $500 per meet. Given that the timing is very "flexible", this MIGHT be the same price from a certain point of view. I have no desire to push the time limits and see how flexible
* KWC-G area, there's no non-escort sub-25 year old lSB looking for sex. They've bought into the whole dinner, dance, travel thing. Maybe they get it, no idea.
* However, I've done really well with a certain demographic. They have kids, going to school, they can host and they need $. I'm one of many SDs but most of their SDs want dinner and stupid shit. The two SBs that I see hate it as it works out to be $100 to $150 per hour. They appreciate that I show up, 60-90 minutes, I'm gone.
* I'm completely aware that some girls are low-balling themselves because they just don't know any better. Sorry guys, I send them LL & Tryst links to show what social rates & Escorting rates are. What goes around comes around so I'm not cheating anybody.
* It's a LOT more work and it's a bit of shit show. Going to Escorts via Tryst and Leolist is a lot easier.
July 1st update: there must be a bunch of SBs must trade “who’s safe” messages because in the last little bit I’ve gotten 5 messages and they’re all very quick to say they can host during the day, kids are in school, they just want hookups, for an hour and their PPM is remarkably similar.
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Is there one titled:
Am I dating a crazy woman?
Believe me I heard stories where they make themselves the victims.
I signed up for a one month membership on seeking to see what the field looks like. Lots of bots / OF girls, but then some girls which I assume are escorts or semi-escorts, right away asking for 400-600PPM. I am not sure what's the point of this site if it's super transactional like this, might as well stick to SPs and known indys. The only interesting prospect has been this mid 20s woman who hasn't talked about a PPM but I have seen her twice for a coffee and a long walk. She said she's not sure what she's looking for and wants to build an emotional connection before we "do anything". I am just going along with it for now to see where this ends. Our next date is going to be a dinner (before anyone thinks I am taking her out to some expensive place, it's actually relatively decent place, dinner for two plus a drink each will be under $100). I don't mind spending that, since it is my 3rd time seeing her and she's fun to talk to.
If anyone has experienced this before or can tell me what the long-game here with this woman is, let me know lol.
If anyone has experienced this before or can tell me what the long-game here with this woman is, let me know lol.
A woman typically prefers selling sex wholesale (eg via a long term relationship or marriage) as opposed to retail (eg sex work). An emotional connection is a classic way to achieve that. Not sure why you are surprised.
FWIW she’s definitely not a fraudster since fraudsters would never bother to waste so much time on any given target.
Yeah, I am sure she's not a fraudster at this point since she hasn't even asked for any money yet.
I am more so surprised because it's still a SB site, not Hinge or Tinder. And I am fine building something with her just a little confused since she hasn't even mentioned any sort of arrangement details yet and this would be my 3rd time seeing her in basically a span of 12 days.
Seeking is currently advertised as a conventional dating site and I see new girls there looking for a conventional relationship.
That being said I would have never went to a first date let alone a second date leaving it in the air. I’m not there to entertain toe dippers and other variations of civvies.
