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simon482

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To Judge: To form an opinion or assumption; to suppose

Is to form an opinion concerning the rightness of an act that someone performed? Or to form an opinion regraded the character of the person who performed an act?



If that is not judging someone, then you and the rest of the world have very different meanings for the word "judge".

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me judging him would be me saying he is a bad person cuz he's gay. Which i never did.
 

massman

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You are absolutely right, "psychology" and sexuality are rooted in biology. None the less anyone who ever wrote a paper at university level knows that when the person you are talking with says "biology and sexuality" they are separating the sexuality form the physical biological part of the discussion. It is sort of a SOP in the language. Oh I do so hope no one wants to argue basic critical thought and fundamentals.


Within that context I simply said that my ass hole cannot tell a penis from a man made device. I guess I could have added "until I feel the rest of the body slam into me" but it seemed redundant. The physical stimulation is identical. But I can see and accept your point that the recipient "knows" a woman is doing it. Their
'brain' is saying fun. Their body is feeling the same thing as a guy doing it. I get it :)
So in the end we basically agree. The sensation is similar, whether the stimulus is coming from a man or woman; but the experience differs greatly, due to what is between the ears, rather than what's going on between the legs.
 

kukari11

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Do you also find it difficult to understand why straight guys pay women lots of money to get a blowjob, when they could very easily walk into any bathhouse or gay club, or even peruse the M4M section on CL and get it for free?

Why do people find it so difficult to understand that a straight guy wants to engage in a specific sexual activity with a woman, and not a man, whatever the activity is? The OP doesn't want a real penis attached to a guy being shoved up his ass. What rocks his boat is a woman wearing a strapon giving him a good pegging. The two are quite different for anyone with a basic understanding of biology and sexuality.
Thanks for helping me out here...
 

kukari11

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Funny post, yet completely off base as gen said.

As someone who has experimented with a variety of stuff in sex, including prostate massage, toys on me an strapon stuff once or twice, I can honestly say that I've never once thought "gee wouldn't it be cool if a dude did this to me". I just like variety and broadening my own sexual horizons. It doesn't make me gay any more that getting a hj, oral or anal with a girl does- and all those acts gay guys do to each other.

But in the end if some guys want to call "gay" on others for wanting a hot chick to bang him with a strapon, let them. Leave more for the rest of us more open minded guys ;)
Thanks pal...
 

kukari11

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You can't tell the difference between something plastic and hard from someting made of flesh? So you are saying you can't tell thell the diference between a real dick and a dildo?You either aren't very bright or haven't experienced the two and should then keep your yap shut. Of course that will never happen. The more you talk the more you sound lile a 50 year old virgin in a basement.:D
haha... like it
 

Scarey

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I read the first 5 posts and formed my own gutteral opinion.I can't believe this thing has gone 117 posts so far.Will someone just fuck this guy in the ass already?!?
 

kukari11

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I read the first 5 posts and formed my own gutteral opinion.I can't believe this thing has gone 117 posts so far.Will someone just fuck this guy in the ass already?!?
haha, funny!!! but remember strictly a hot woman is allowed to do that.
 

Medman52

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"Sex Play" should be organic and include anything/everything at least once (and hopefully a whole lot more)!

Vanilla sucks, and any dude who thinks his woman playing with his ass is gay, must have a sh*t load of insecurities about his own masculinity!
 
...a staff who are not going to snicker their assess off when you make the request for information.
Well they will, but at least they'll wait until you're out the door. ;-)

I went shopping at a Stag Shop to get a couple of stocking stuffers for an SO a couple of years ago. I was the only customer there, and had two twenty-something hotties helping me out for a half hour. I was hoping to get a demo session, but it was not to be. Good fun though.
 

Mister K

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For the OP, on your behalf I asked an SP and a couple of MP's that I know about your request. All three indicated that they found the idea of a little DP to be hot. I guess flipping the dominance thing the other way has it's own appeal for women.
 

mrsCALoki

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You can't tell the difference between something plastic and hard from someting made of flesh? So you are saying you can't tell thell the diference between a real dick and a dildo?You either aren't very bright or haven't experienced the two and should then keep your yap shut. Of course that will never happen. The more you talk the more you sound lile a 50 year old virgin in a basement.:D
train, I am sorry you seem to speak without any thought, knowledge, experience or common sense.

1) Most modern strap ons, dildos etc are very soft and life like and can hardly be called "plastic and hard". get with the 21st century. We do not use wooden dildos any more either.

2) No hun my ass does not have enough nerve endings to tell a modern dildo from a penis. I can barely tell a thmb from a penis till other parts of the body touch me. You seem to think you can. My guess is you never have had them both in you. My guess is you are so full of shit you just say anything that spurts out of you.

3) The following comment is true, but gross. Sensitive readers may want to skip it. We all shit. Can you of tell if the movement is smooth and uniform or made up of compressed pellets? The texture is obviously utterly different. SO how do you expect any ass, even your, to tell the difference between a silicone cock and a flesh and skin cock? Never had a bowel movement? Keeping all the shit inside to spew out in posts?

4) The 50 year old version comments you make are just silly. Mildly insulting, but mostly just silly.


I do not understand why so many guys are so "OH NO I AM NOT GAY ! I just want to feel a dick rubbing on mine ". My lack of understanding is centred on why some men are so incredibly anti gay. Who cares? (well who is obvious) Why care? (Very hard for me to understand.)

Even Loki has serious hangups over it. Watching me with another woman, he can accept. Me watching him with another man, he can never even discus. Sharing our bed with another woman, it would required very little effort to talk him into it. Sharing our bed with another man, maybe once he is dead and cremated, maybe. Talk about double standards.

Seems that OP has huge issues about even being perceived as gay.

I see the behaviour in many men. I forget occasionally to paint the universe with a thick film of homo phobia to see it the way some men do.

Sorry I do not understand it. I know it is there, but it seems insane.

Way to many prudes out there, and just about as many in here.


Why rehash this? Because OP went off into a series of posts about how he appreciates all the support. It seems to me he really could benefit from some therapy to deal with his issues around and fears of being gay. Great money maker for the SPs you see, but might be easier on everyone if you just discovered that sex is sex and "gay" is just a word :).

Anyway, who really cares? I bet he can find a little corner of the internet where what he wants is the norm :)
 

kukari11

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For the OP, on your behalf I asked an SP and a couple of MP's that I know about your request. All three indicated that they found the idea of a little DP to be hot. I guess flipping the dominance thing the other way has it's own appeal for women.
Great, and they said the right thing. Can you pm me their links?
 

S.C. Joe

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I don't know if wanting a fake dick up the butt is the same as being attracted to men.

Heck I have joked with a few SP's when they told me they don't do greek, I laugh that is gay to want to butt fuck and ALL those SP's laughed back in agreement.

BUT if you do want to butt fuck, are you really gay...I would not go that far. Its just different strokes for different folks...the same might be for strap on sex.

I would say being gay is you find some guys very attractive like sometimes it is with chicks. Your not even thinking about sex, just shopping for grocery's and wow, you see this person who looks totally hot and you would love to screw them right then and there, lol...if your a male and sometimes find other males super hot, then yeah your gay--right ? To drag other things in to being gay might be stretching it, IMO
 
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