Strap-on Sex...

[train]

Biology is pretty much the same. I doubt if at a biological level I could tell a guy from a strap on entering me from behind.

But I will take your word for it I just do not understand it.

You can't tell the difference between something plastic and hard from someting made of flesh? So you are saying you can't tell thell the diference between a real dick and a dildo?You either aren't very bright or haven't experienced the two and should then keep your yap shut. Of course that will never happen. The more you talk the more you sound lile a 50 year old virgin in a basement.

 

[Questor]

I do know that. I don't have and never had an issue with gay people.

You're such a fag, Simon.

 

[massman]

Biology is pretty much the same. I doubt if at a biological level I could tell a guy from a strap on entering me from behind. I know if I close my eyes I cannot tell a man's from a woman's tongue nibbling on me.

But I will take your word for it I just do not understand it.

Your point is basically proof of what the rest of us are trying to argue. An act on a particular region of the body has nothing to do with sexual identity/ preference etc.....

The difference is who you KNOW is nibbling, sucking or fucking. If you like girls, and it is a girl doing whatever, then tht iny mind is pretty hetero. Even if she has a finger in your bum, or is fucking you with a straight penis / dildo.

 

[Ridgeman08]

at no point did i judge him or his activities

Really????

i said in my opinion he is a closet gay...

 

[simon482]

Really????

that's not judging someone.

 

[mrsCALoki]

The two are quite different for anyone with a basic understanding of biology and sexuality.

Biology is pretty much the same. I doubt if at a biological level I could tell a guy from a strap on entering me from behind. I know if I close my eyes I cannot tell a man's from a woman's tongue nibbling on me.

You seem confused about what biology means.

No hun. You seem to not realize that when you use the terms biology and sexuality are both used to refer to the same thing most people who have more than a passing knowledge of the terms assumes that the person using them is referring to the biological (physical) and sexual (psychological) aspects of an act or activity. If used by itself biology is considered the science of life, and includes both.

I am terribly sorry, I assumed you knew that when I responded.

 

[mrsCALoki]

You can't tell the difference between something plastic and hard from someting made of flesh? So you are saying you can't tell thell the diference between a real dick and a dildo?You either aren't very bright or haven't experienced the two and should then keep your yap shut. Of course that will never happen. The more you talk the more you sound lile a 50 year old virgin in a basement.

My goodness you have such strong opinions for some one so ignorant. Have you seen a strap-on in the 21st century? They come in all kinds of material (shocked look) and textures, and degree of flexibility. Real dicks, even on the same guy go from soft little mushy tubes to rock hard depending on the day, the guy and the mood.

Surprise surprise, except for temperature the top end man made ones feel a lot like real dicks even to ones hand. Anus are great at recognizing liquid from solids, and normal size from huge, but they just do not have that many nerve endings. Try to predict the texture and length of a bowl movement before you look into the bowl.

'You either aren't very bright or haven't experienced the two and should then keep your yap shut. Of course that will never happen. The more you talk the more you sound like' a sad frustrated boring little man who has never been intimate with a woman.

Actually my bet is you ever have, if you did you were too busy in a fantasy to think about the feeling, but most likely you might just be stupid.

 

[Ridgeman08]

What does it mean to judge someone?

that's not judging someone.

To Judge: To form an opinion or assumption; to suppose

Is to form an opinion concerning the rightness of an act that someone performed? Or to form an opinion regraded the character of the person who performed an act?

i said in my opinion he is a closet gay

If that is not judging someone, then you and the rest of the world have very different meanings for the word "judge".

:hand:

 

[mrsCALoki]

Your point is basically proof of what the rest of us are trying to argue. An act on a particular region of the body has nothing to do with sexual identity/ preference etc.....

The difference is who you KNOW is nibbling, sucking or fucking. If you like girls, and it is a girl doing whatever, then tht iny mind is pretty hetero. Even if she has a finger in your bum, or is fucking you with a straight penis / dildo.

Thanks that was helpful. So they want the added stimulation of KNOWING it is a woman. It is not about the physical, it is about the psychology of the act.

For me the only good part is making my partner happy and the rush of the ejaculate's hormone bundle being absorbed when it hits me. SO much faster and harder than from other places, it is more of a rush. But without it being safe BB I would only be doing it to please my partner.

 

[fuji]

No hun. You seem to not realize that when you use the terms biology and sexuality are both used to refer to the same thing most people who have more than a passing knowledge of the terms assumes that the person using them is referring to the biological (physical) and sexual (psychological) aspects of an act or activity. If used by itself biology is considered the science of life, and includes both.

I am terribly sorry, I assumed you knew that when I responded.

The only thing worse than a pedant is someone trying to be pedant but failing.

Considering she said "sexuality and biology" in the post you responded to..

And yes the biology is different. Women smell different, have different body parts, different shape, I guess that all matters to the OP. In fact, I bet he doesn't want just any woman, I bet he wants an attractive one, so biological aspects like age, symmetry, physical fitness will matter.

 

[rld]

No hun. You seem to not realize that when you use the terms biology and sexuality are both used to refer to the same thing most people who have more than a passing knowledge of the terms assumes that the person using them is referring to the biological (physical) and sexual (psychological) aspects of an act or activity. If used by itself biology is considered the science of life, and includes both.

I am terribly sorry, I assumed you knew that when I responded.

Your schtick, and lack of thinking ability, both seem to have hit the wall some time ago.

 

[massman]

Thanks that was helpful. So they want the added stimulation of KNOWING it is a woman. It is not about the physical, it is about the psychology of the act.

Exactly- however what you term "psychology" is rooted in biology IMO. For a straight guy having a woman blow you is miles away from having a guy do it. Similarly for a straight guy, even though it would be hard to tell a male mouth from a female one. I think a lot of this - that is attraction to opposite sex or same sex - is in fact biologically determined, with a heavy social influence as well.
So for most of us sex = the biological act (intercourse, oral, hj whatever) + some kind of attraction to the partner.

 

[BSLover]

While not technically gay, I can think of a lot straighter things than what the OP posted. lol

 

[james t kirk]

BTW, if you're going to try pegging, or you are into pegging, I think it wise (very wise) to have your own strap on dildo to use.

At least you'll know that it has been properly cleaned and you won't be risking catching Hepatitus A, or worse.

I would recommend "Come as You Are" on Queen Street as having a good selection of strap on gear - properly designed, not too soft, not too hard and a staff who are not going to snicker their assess off when you make the request for information.

http://www.comeasyouare.com/

Not that I would know. :biggrin1:

 

[Celticman]

BTW, if you're going to try pegging, or you are into pegging, I think it wise (very wise) to have your own strap on dildo to use.

At least you'll know that it has been properly cleaned and you won't be risking catching Hepatitus A, or worse.

I would recommend "Come as You Are" on Queen Street as having a good selection of strap on gear - properly designed, not too soft, not too hard and a staff who are not going to snicker their assess off when you make the request for information.

http://www.comeasyouare.com/

Not that I would know. :biggrin1:

Good advice about owning your own toy for health reasons. I would think that ladies providing this service with their own strapon place a condom over it?

As a general health precaution related to this hobby, I have taken Twinrex injections for Hep A & B.

Has anyone been to any of the Come as You Are workshops? They look interesting.

And I suspect that james t kirk knows more that he is leading us to believe

 

[mrsCALoki]

Exactly- however what you term "psychology" is rooted in biology IMO. For a straight guy having a woman blow you is miles away from having a guy do it. Similarly for a straight guy, even though it would be hard to tell a male mouth from a female one. I think a lot of this - that is attraction to opposite sex or same sex - is in fact biologically determined, with a heavy social influence as well.
So for most of us sex = the biological act (intercourse, oral, hj whatever) + some kind of attraction to the partner.

You are absolutely right, "psychology" and sexuality are rooted in biology. None the less anyone who ever wrote a paper at university level knows that when the person you are talking with says "biology and sexuality" they are separating the sexuality form the physical biological part of the discussion. It is sort of a SOP in the language. Oh I do so hope no one wants to argue basic critical thought and fundamentals.


Within that context I simply said that my ass hole cannot tell a penis from a man made device. I guess I could have added "until I feel the rest of the body slam into me" but it seemed redundant. The physical stimulation is identical. But I can see and accept your point that the recipient "knows" a woman is doing it. Their
'brain' is saying fun. Their body is feeling the same thing as a guy doing it. I get it

 

[mrsCALoki]

Your schtick, and lack of thinking ability, both seem to have hit the wall some time ago.

oh my, that was as informative as it was factual. Stating an opinion really has little or no value in general, I am however very glad to hear you do not like me


Your not liking me some how feels like a great compliment . Maybe next time you can even add some context or facts to your little rant? Just to add some variety to your comments?

 

[james t kirk]

Good advice about owning your own toy for health reasons. I would think that ladies providing this service with their own strapon place a condom over it?

As a general health precaution related to this hobby, I have taken Twinrex injections for Hep A & B.

Has anyone been to any of the Come as You Are workshops? They look interesting.

And I suspect that james t kirk knows more that he is leading us to believe

Never been the workshops. I was also vaccinated against Hep B only I believe. Dunno if A was in there or not.

Even if you use a condom on a toy, it's going to roll up the shaft - potentially exposing you to the nasty stuff. Just makes more sense to have your own.

 

[las venganza]

I have a friend who likes to have his wife f**k him with a strap-on but I know he'd never dream of doing anything with a guy. His wife likes the power it gives her and he likes the feeling of it.

Try explaining that to the kids if they ever walk in on you!! :Eek:

 

[dshaw4096]

I would be fucked in the ass by Megan Fox and I dare you to call that gay. If you do - then you are a latent homosexual.