Strap-on Sex...

[MayDay Malone]

In the context of THIS site... it is safe to say we all have our own sexual preferences and proclivities... why judge a guy for his?

Perfectly said! Let's face it, general society is very judgemental on those who visit massage parlours or hire the services of an escort. Every member of this site would be judged by those in our social circles for our "hobbying" which of course is why we try to keep ourselves anonymous. Yet so many of us are so quick to judge fellow members whose tastes differ from our own. Hypocrites!

There's a reason each thread has a subject -- to give the reader a brief synopsis of the thread's discussion topic. A thread titled Strapon-Sex is most likely not created because the author wants to hear from you that he might be gay for enjoying this activity, and his post clearly shows that.

If you have nothing worthy to contribute to the thread, stay out of it. If you feel the need to preach your opinion that this is a homosexual act, then create your own thread inviting debate on the subject. The OP was not seeking that, instead he was searching for some suggestions on a lady who can provide that. If you can help the dude out with a suggestion then please do so. If not, then don't hijack his thread with your misinformed opinions, that frankly no one asked for.

 

[james t kirk]

If having a chick pound your ass with a strap-on makes you gay, I guess I'll be the Parade Queen at next year's gay pride day parade.

I've done way more twisted shit than a little strap on play.

To me (maybe it's denial) but sexuality is a sliding scale with 100% straigtht at one end and 100% gay at the other. Being gay or straight (to me) is more about which sex you are ROMANTICALLY attracted to. Do you fall "in love" with the opposite sex exclusively? Well, that makes you hetero. Do you fall "in love" with the same sex exclusively - well, you're homo.

Sex and love are two vastly different things.

As far as sex play goes, I view it like a phased shifted Bell Curve of sorts. Slide the pointer somewhere between 100% straight and bi (the middle) and you'll find me somewhere in there. Moderately bent and extremely kinky.

Since I don't know any of you, and I doubt I will ever meet any of you in person, I don't care what label you want to apply.

 

[Jessica S]

If having a chick pound your ass with a strap-on makes you gay, I guess I'll be the Parade Queen at next year's gay pride day parade.

I've done way more twisted shit than a little strap on play.

To me (maybe it's denial) but sexuality is a sliding scale with 100% straigtht at one end and 100% gay at the other. Being gay or straight (to me) is more about which sex you are ROMANTICALLY attracted to. Do you fall "in love" with the opposite sex exclusively? Well, that makes you hetero. Do you fall "in love" with the same sex exclusively - well, you're homo.

Sex and love are two vastly different things.

As far as sex play goes, I view it like a phased shifted Bell Curve of sorts. Slide the pointer somewhere between 100% straight and bi (the middle) and you'll find me somewhere in there. Moderately bent and extremely kinky.

Since I don't know any of you, and I doubt I will ever meet any of you in person, I don't care what label you want to apply.

Here, here. Totally not gay

 

[great bear]

Never realized so many Terbies were into "Greek" as "receivers". Obviously Chad Owens fans.

 

[MayDay Malone]

Here, here. Totally not gay

There's the gay test right there: if you see that pic of Jessica* and are totally aroused, then you ain't gay!

If she doesn't get your motor running, then you're uber homo.

*Or the pix of any of the other lovely ladies who contributed to this thread.

 

[fijiman]

<------undefeated and legen...wait for it...dary.

You do know that the actor responsible for "legen...wait for it...dary" is gay, right?

 

[nuprin001]

Since this has (predictably) devolved into gay/not gay, let me toss a monkey wrench into the works:

I have a very good friend who is as gay as anyone I've ever met or heard of. He is only ever interested in men. Period. A few years ago, he had sex with a woman. She told us later he came in about 5 seconds. Total two pump chump territory for a one-night stand. A few months later, she recommended him to a (female) friend of hers. Again, 5 seconds. Meanwhile, knowing some of his old boyfriends, he's pretty good with the guys. Love you long time and all that.

So, a gay guy who comes really quickly (ie- can't handle how good pussy feels) with a girl, but can fuck all night with a dude.

My friend is still gay. No, he's not straight. But a pussy feels good, even to a gay guy. He just has zero interest in forming anything beyond a friendship with a woman, while he tries to fuck his way through half the gay population of the city he lives in. But pussy feels good, so the few times he's fucked one he's lost his edge very quickly.

Some Things Just Feel Good. If you're too caught up in your own little world to try them, if you're too uptight to try your own boundaries because you're afraid of being gay if you like it, if you insist on categorizing sexual acts with a female partner as gay/not gay, then I'm sorry for you.

If the OP finds what he's looking for, great for him. Personally, I don't particularly enjoy prostate massages, let alone going full monty with a strap on, but the world is full of people doing things that I don't enjoy.

 

[MIRAGE]

I wanted to ask every one if you guys know a girl who will provide a strap-on service? It’s not that I’m gay and like it in the ass, I just find it very erotic to see a girl wearing a dildo bigger than my little guy and massaging my guy with her dildo LOL. Just to clarify again, I am not gay and only like doing it with girls… I would like to suck it while the girl looks me in the eye and humiliates me. Does any one has a fetish like this or it’s just me? Also, any girl out there who provides this service please pm me

Feel free to call Mirage and book an appointment with Jamie

Cheers

Dave

 

[kukari11]

Feel free to call Mirage and book an appointment with Jamie

Cheers

Dave

Thanks Mirage, this Jamie girl looks fucking sexy with huge ass. I can't wait to see her

 

[Twister]

I HATE THE WORD ‘HOMOPHOBIA’. IT’S NOT A PHOBIA. YOU’RE NOT SCARED. YOU’RE JUST AN ASSHOLE. Morgan Freeman (not yelling just a cut and paste)

 

[mrsCALoki]

I do not get it. I guess I just cannot understand men.

Option #1 Pay money to a woman to have a plastic penis shoved up your ass
Option #2 Get paid lots of money by a guy to shove a real penis in you

And men jump for #1 I do not get it.

 

[train]

I do not get it. I guess I just cannot understand men.

Option #1 Pay money to a woman to have a plastic penis shoved up your ass
Option #2 Get paid lots of money by a guy to shove a real penis in you

And men jump for #1 I do not get it.

Yet another post where you sound like a 55 year old Republican male

PS Who still doesn't understand his sexuality

 

[genintoronto]

I do not get it. I guess I just cannot understand men.

Option #1 Pay money to a woman to have a plastic penis shoved up your ass
Option #2 Get paid lots of money by a guy to shove a real penis in you

And men jump for #1 I do not get it.

Do you also find it difficult to understand why straight guys pay women lots of money to get a blowjob, when they could very easily walk into any bathhouse or gay club, or even peruse the M4M section on CL and get it for free?

Why do people find it so difficult to understand that a straight guy wants to engage in a specific sexual activity with a woman, and not a man, whatever the activity is? The OP doesn't want a real penis attached to a guy being shoved up his ass. What rocks his boat is a woman wearing a strapon giving him a good pegging. The two are quite different for anyone with a basic understanding of biology and sexuality.

 

[massman]

I do not get it. I guess I just cannot understand men.

Option #1 Pay money to a woman to have a plastic penis shoved up your ass
Option #2 Get paid lots of money by a guy to shove a real penis in you

And men jump for #1 I do not get it.

Funny post, yet completely off base as gen said.

As someone who has experimented with a variety of stuff in sex, including prostate massage, toys on me an strapon stuff once or twice, I can honestly say that I've never once thought "gee wouldn't it be cool if a dude did this to me". I just like variety and broadening my own sexual horizons. It doesn't make me gay any more that getting a hj, oral or anal with a girl does- and all those acts gay guys do to each other.

But in the end if some guys want to call "gay" on others for wanting a hot chick to bang him with a strapon, let them. Leave more for the rest of us more open minded guys

 

[simon482]

You do know that the actor responsible for "legen...wait for it...dary" is gay, right?

I do know that. I don't have and never had an issue with gay people.

 

[mrsCALoki]

Do you also find it difficult to understand why straight guys pay women lots of money to get a blowjob, when they could very easily walk into any bathhouse or gay club, or even peruse the M4M section on CL and get it for free?

Why do people find it so difficult to understand that a straight guy wants to engage in a specific sexual activity with a woman, and not a man, whatever the activity is? The OP doesn't want a real penis attached to a guy being shoved up his ass. What rocks his boat is a woman wearing a strapon giving him a good pegging. The two are quite different for anyone with a basic understanding of biology and sexuality.

Biology is pretty much the same. I doubt if at a biological level I could tell a guy from a strap on entering me from behind. I know if I close my eyes I cannot tell a man's from a woman's tongue nibbling on me.

But I will take your word for it I just do not understand it.

 

[Hangman]

Biology is pretty much the same. I doubt if at a biological level I could tell a guy from a strap on entering me from behind. I know if I close my eyes I cannot tell a man's from a woman's tongue nibbling on me.

But I will take your word for it I just do not understand it.

I think you must be retarded or deliberately obtuse.

The biological level is pretty easy to understand. In one scenario, it is a MAN with a REAL penis. In the second scenario, it is a WOMAN, wearing a FAKE, NOT REAL, plastic replica shaped similarly but often not identical to, a penis.

 

[mrsCALoki]

I think you must be retarded or deliberately obtuse.

The biological level is pretty easy to understand. In one scenario, it is a MAN with a REAL penis. In the second scenario, it is a WOMAN, wearing a FAKE, NOT REAL, plastic replica shaped similarly but often not identical to, a penis.

I guess your ass has more experience than mine. I doubt I could tell without looking or using me hand to feel for evidence.

 

[simon482]

Strap on dick/ AKA Dildo: A dildo is a sex toy, often phallic in appearance, often, but not exclusively made of plastic and or derivatives (e.g. silicon, latex, etc) intended for bodily penetration during masturbation or sex with partners.

Penis: is a general term for the organ with which male and hermaphrodite animals introduce sperm into receptive females during copulation. They also are the means to expel liquid waste from the owners body... Made of flesh and blood and come in various sizes and shapes.

About the only similarities I can see are the fact that they are shaped similarly and can be used for insertion... but aside from that, completely different in material and function. Is a cucumber also a penis? How about a banana? Or for that matter anything phallic in appearance.

NOW... Simon is defeated.... (Whereas your "looks like a duck/ dick" analogy is cute... it is completely invalid...)

In the context of THIS site... it is safe to say we all have our own sexual preferences and proclivities... why judge a guy for his? Grow up dude.

Just sayin. :hand:

i didn't say a strap on was real, i said it looks like a dick. which it does. strap on's are not real, that are fake dicks. i never judged him and still don't. i said in my opinion he is a closet gay and it's a shame in 2012 there are still people that think they need to hide in a closet. he said he wasn't, i said cool. at no point did i judge him or his activities. as for my looks like a penis, act's like a penis...

yup there is nothing penisy about that, i was way off.

still undefeated.

 

[genintoronto]

I do not get it. I guess I just cannot understand men.

Option #1 Pay money to a woman to have a plastic penis shoved up your ass
Option #2 Get paid lots of money by a guy to shove a real penis in you

And men jump for #1 I do not get it.

Biology is pretty much the same.

You seem confused about what biology means.

But that doesn't answer the question. Why do you find it so difficult to understand that a straight guy would prefer to engage in a sexual activity with a woman - even if he has to pay for it - rather than engaging in the same activity with a man? Do you also find it confusing that guys around here are willing to pay for women who will blow them or let them fuck them up the ass instead of just going cruising for some gay dude willing to do it for free?