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When I worked as a bartender, I was never attracted to the guys who sat at the bar and drank for hours on end. That's not attractive to me. I felt sorry for those guys and wished they had a life.
Exactly. Spending most of your time and money in a bar is just sad! When I was young I didn't really think about it, but as I got older,,,I realized how lonely and sad they actually were that the highlight of their day was drinking all evening.
 
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When I worked as a bartender, I was never attracted to the guys who sat at the bar and drank for hours on end. That's not attractive to me. I felt sorry for those guys and wished they had a life.
Why so judgy? You were the one earning your livelihood by spending hours in a bar serving alcohol to guys with "no life"...what does that say about your life, escapefromstress? Are you really so much better?


 
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Exactly. Spending most of your time and money in a bar is just sad! When I was young I didn't really think about it, but as I got older,,,I realized how lonely and sad they actually were that the highlight of their day was drinking all evening.
Hate all you like...The chic digs me! I can tell! I can feel it!

There's a vibe...Sometimes you just know!
 

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SexB

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AAAnnnddd goodbye.
I'm guessing because Conway was posting here and trying to stir up shit, he was likely on the outs with his master over on the other board.
 

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I think of that every time I'm served by an attractive waitress or bartender ... how many times a day does this poor woman get hit on by schmucks thinking they're the one that she is going to say yes to.
Yes not an easy job for an attractive women & chances are if your a bar fly just there to drink it ain't ever going any further. A good indicator of your stock is if a bartender, server, waitress at a strip club, flight attendant gives you there number
 

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I'm guessing because Conway was posting here and trying to stir up shit, he was likely on the outs with his master over on the other board.
I don't see this thread as stirring up shit, it was a simple story about his progress with his favourite bartender.

I'd say 93% of your posts are about the other board, some would say you're baiting him.
 

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I bartended in the Stratford hotel 30+ years ago. There was a club upstairs and a fine dining restaurant downstairs called 'Daniel's' at the time. The hotel owner named the restaurant after his son when he was born. The head bartender was this cute little ball of fire named Doris. She wasn't even 5' tall but she could stare down the knarliest dudes no problem.
 

LisbethNova

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Well, they still have more chances to talk to other people at the bar than sitting at home and watching TV
I agree with that. But to think you will actually pick up the bartender....that's delusional. And by the way there are other ways to meet people that doesn't involve sitting in a bar.
 

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The chic digs me! I can tell! I can feel it!

There's a vibe...Sometimes you just know!
You and me both ... I know the jealousy but sometimes you got it and know it !


The female bartenders .. they smile when they serve you .. and although they are stuck behind the bar and working for tips .. there is a sexual connection .. I can feel it too !

I wander into a strip club and those girls are all over me ! Where do I work, do I come in often ... they can't wait to date the master !

Just feel sorry for them Conway ... they live in alternate reality than we do.
 

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I agree with that. But to think you will actually pick up the bartender....that's delusional. And by the way there are other ways to meet people that doesn't involve sitting in a bar.
Come on Lizzy it's not that hard! Tell her a few jokes & pay her a few subtle compliments & most importantly act like a gentleman, if your decent looking & confident you stand a chance... But ya if your there with your buddy's every nite pounding back drinks or obnoxious you don't have a hope in hell! The key to picking up any hot women in the service industry is sincerity, bartenders & waitresses are usually a pretty good judge of character & are use to guys hitting on them & trying to bang them... you gotta act differently than the other 90% & show them a little respect
 

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I don't see this thread as stirring up shit, it was a simple story about his progress with his favourite bartender.

I'd say 93% of your posts are about the other board, some would say you're baiting him.
I was just placing a "Don't Feed the Troll" sign next to Conway; he was the one who reacted like a child.

Conway is a narcissist and his master over on blue drama feeds into his ego so he'll keep the pot stirred. I don't want to see him bringing 411-style bullshit to this board. The fact that he continues to post on that board speaks volumes to his character, or his complete lack thereof. I hope that his ban is permanent.
 

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...The key to picking up any hot women in the service industry is sincerity, bartenders & waitresses are usually a pretty good judge of character & are use to guys hitting on them & trying to bang them... you gotta act differently than the other 90% & show them a little respect

I have to agree with you surferboy. I would say that aside from sp's and online dating, I have dated more hot women I met as my waitress than any other way. Some have gone on to be significant girlfriends. I think they have time to get to see how you act with people and your vibe etc.
 

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Big difference is that is in real life, I don't even go to places where I'd even come into contact nor interact with toads like you, least of all have the heart to make fun of you in person.

Such is the nakedness of human cruelty exposed through the mask of the internet...
 
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