Falsely accused by ugly female colleague of inappropriate staring

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superstar_88

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... this should be made into a mystery/thriller tv movie. A whodunwhat
Casting for ghosted and butterface the two leads

Suggestion for other tv movies off of Terb threads:
Bra in the Hamper ... will be a romantic comedy
 
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Maybe he will answer you then - how did she ghost him? What was the context of the ghosting? Because usually that is reserved for some type of romantic gesture.

If it was work related, he would have explained that considering the way he has been laying out the details.
I'm a little late to the party and very confused by the 'she ghosted me' comment also. There are two terms of ghosting that I'm familiar with: 1) You have a date and your intended companion doesn't show up, call or return your calls. 2) You ignore any type of social interaction as if he/she doesn't exist (like a ghost).

How does someone that you aren't interested in and try avoid get in the position of ghosting you ? How would you notice ?

Thank God I'm not the manager in charge here.
 

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...I don't even talk to this person, we work in a shared workspace, I have zero interest in her, and she's usually at least 20 to 50 meters away. She started ghosting me a few months ago for some unknown reason, I've tried to show professional courtesy to this person by greeting her but she's always skulking around, sometimes when I run into her it would be 2 in the afternoon. I'm not comfortable standing near her or without witness. Now I got a warning from the department manager for this "staring" bullshit, and apparently if she complains again there will be an HR investigation, and one of her buddies is willing to commit perjury because according to the manager "somebody else also noticed". Now it's 2 vs 1. Any advice what I should do? Thanks!
If you work for a large/fortune 500 company you should speak to your Manager/Superior immediately about the situation.. Then seek professional advise/consultation from a lawyer..

That said. I'm a little confused about the ghosted comment. There likely more to the story
 

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so couldn't you tell that to human resources? she approached me asking if i wanted a blowjob.
I'm the supplier, she was my client.
The client did what they had to do to protect themselves. I get it. but it completely threw my life into a tailspin at the time.
Just bought a house had a baby on the way and then this whale of a client, basically dumped my six figure/year project because of this piece of dog shit that basically fucked me over.
yes, still bitter about it.
 

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Do I even want to know what the bra in the hamper situation was lol
OMG the Bra!!!!!

a poster went to a party and went into the master bathroom of the house because they were close friends and the other bathroom was in use or something stupid.

Anyways, the poster saw the bras partly out of the hamper and took it and if I remember correctly, he jerked off to it in the bathroom.

Or he stole it maybe.

He did something with his friends wife’s bra. That is all I remember. And it was in their private space.

There was a huge debate about beech of privacy and what type of friend he is by doing this to his friends wife etc etc.
 

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you reminded me of my first month at one job where we were in one meeting and this ugly b**** whom I wont f*** even if I get paid saying "THIS IS CALLED HARRASMENT" out loud in a meeting room full of people just because I tried to take an extra pen that was in front of her! Later she whispered to me "I was just kidding"
What a b*******


Edit: BTW, how can one f*** someone he like at work? especially if its a married MILF? isnt it better to stay professional at work?
I have this girl who is about my age who is my definition of 10/10 chinese MILF - damn she visits me in my dreams overnight !
 

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OMG the Bra!!!!!

a poster went to a party and went into the master bathroom of the house because they were close friends and the other bathroom was in use or something stupid.

Anyways, the poster saw the bras partly out of the hamper and took it and if I remember correctly, he jerked off to it in the bathroom.

Or he stole it maybe.

He did something with his friends wife’s bra. That is all I remember. And it was in their private space.

There was a huge debate about beech of privacy and what type of friend he is by doing this to his friends wife etc etc.
Nooooooooo, what the actual fuck is wrong with people.
 
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Edit: BTW, how can one f*** someone he like at work? especially if its a married MILF? isnt it better to stay professional at work? I have this girl who is about my age who is my definition of 10/10 chinese MILF - damn she visits me in my dreams overnight !
Put her staff photo through a porn star face reverse search website, chances you'll find some porn star resembles her, watch some videos of that porn star.
 
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And still no explanation for saying she ghosted him 😆
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2. After that at some point, I got questioned about my time management by the direct supervisor regarding a job, I considered it a double standard, and complained about excessive cellphone usage by other members, which includes butterface. After that, cellphone usage declined but butterface started to look at me in a hateful manner, sometimes walking right past me without saying "Good Morning".


3. First day after I came back from a monthly business trip and made some serious OT, and said Good Morning to butterface, she never responded. I tried that for a couple of weeks, she responded maybe 3-4 times. After that, it became a nod. Then just completely ignoring. I didn't want to add fuel to the fire so I let her work out her own shit.
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Cough cough.

In my day we would call that ignoring but I am not cool and with it. I was cool and with it but then it changed and now I find it frighting and scary.
 

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Put her staff photo through a porn star face reverse search website, chances you'll find some porn star resembles her, watch some videos of that porn star.
Back in my day dag nabbit we had this thing called memory.

It got me though the 1980s when I was young, still kinda smart for my age and full of cum.
 

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2. After that at some point, I got questioned about my time management by the direct supervisor regarding a job, I considered it a double standard, and complained about excessive cellphone usage by other members, which includes butterface. After that, cellphone usage declined but butterface started to look at me in a hateful manner, sometimes walking right past me without saying "Good Morning".


3. First day after I came back from a monthly business trip and made some serious OT, and said Good Morning to butterface, she never responded. I tried that for a couple of weeks, she responded maybe 3-4 times. After that, it became a nod. Then just completely ignoring. I didn't want to add fuel to the fire so I let her work out her own shit.
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Cough cough.

In my day we would call that ignoring but I am not cool and with it. I was cool and with it but then it changed and now I find it frighting and scary.
that is not what is normally meant by ghosting, and he did not say that was the ghosting.
 

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Did I read that right...you ratted that they were on thier cell phones?

Fuck lol.
 
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Cough cough.

In my day we would call that ignoring but I am not cool and with it. I was cool and with it but then it changed and now I find it frighting and scary.
It feels alienating, because when there's something like a Christmas party, you won't be comfortable sitting with that person in the same room.

From my end, I never forgave her for going above the ranks to complain about my "disrespect for her experience", and with this staring allegation, no way in hell I will ever talk to this person again.

 

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that is not what is normally meant by ghosting, and he did not say that was the ghosting.
Maybe he isn't hip to the lingo. It's close enough kinda that it makes sense to me. All these new words, who can keep up.
 
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2. After that at some point, I got questioned about my time management by the direct supervisor regarding a job, I considered it a double standard, and complained about excessive cellphone usage by other members, which includes butterface. After that, cellphone usage declined but butterface started to look at me in a hateful manner, sometimes walking right past me without saying "Good Morning".
Of course she hates you. Just fuck off man lol.
 
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