At that point why not just use a reputable agency with minimal verification?
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I like the layout of places like Elevate they seem nice and clean whereas when I’ve done incalls at agency places you can see totally wrinkled sheets and super dirty carpeted floors. Don’t get me wrong I like the girls and obviously see them but the bedrooms are sometimes pretty gross. Especially in calls that aren’t hotels. Maybe an Indy is a better experience
That would be something to politely mention to the agency when done. I've been lucky with my incalls, and I get outcalls when I'm on the road.
Guilt and I wasn’t raised to act so selfishly. And to have
I’m not sure maybe it’s to clear part of my conscience? But if I take a step back from that thought, it can’t be true because I’m asking to be able to have permission to be greedy, so it’s likely a more narcissistic reason. Or combination of both.
There’s no absolutes here, but mostly seeing indies from tryst, ie higher end ones, I’ve found the incalls to typically be quite nice condos.
Shockingly, many men think that until they do get divorced. Then they feel freer then they have ever felt and wondered why they didn’t do it sooner.
At least this is what many clients have told me.
Yes, falsely accused at Just Relax, where I only received HJ's.
"Guilty" though at other spas and with escorts.
That said, I never had an extra-marital "affair" with a civilian and actual emotions involved, which in my self-justifying opinion would have been actual "cheating", as opposed to what I did...
I’m the same my behaviour has been horrible “but” I’ve never had an emotional affair. I want to feel wanted, and have, but “only” sexually. I’ve never felt the desire to run out on the family, it’s been some of a have your cake and eat it too (because there’s nothing fun going on at home). Totally trying to justify it I know.
She will probably tell it to everyone. So maybe just keep it a secret.
If your wife is not meeting your needs because she is unwilling or lacking interest, or if she has physical restrictions that get in the way, then a conversation should be had about getting you looked after.
I believe that, us men, if we are not sexually active we start to lose interest in life, weaken, stop exercising and age fast. You don't want that, you need to keep the juices moving through and constant masturbation is a lonely substitute.
I'd also say if your wife is willing to engage sexually then you should never, ever deny her, especially for the reason that you were banging a pro that day, or plan to the next day. Never deny your wife.
If there is not a lot going on at home, then stepping out with a professional is the way to go. You will not get emotionally involved, you will not leave for her and you will not embarrass you wife with people finding out.
All this is assuming you want to stay with your wife because you are compatible in all the other ways.
I believe that, us men, if we are not sexually active we start to lose interest in life, weaken, stop exercising and age fast. You don't want that, you need to keep the juices moving through and constant masturbation is a lonely substitute.
I'd also say if your wife is willing to engage sexually then you should never, ever deny her, especially for the reason that you were banging a pro that day, or plan to the next day. Never deny your wife.
If there is not a lot going on at home, then stepping out with a professional is the way to go. You will not get emotionally involved, you will not leave for her and you will not embarrass you wife with people finding out.
All this is assuming you want to stay with your wife because you are compatible in all the other ways.
Wow thank you for that in-depth feedback and response I appreciate it a lot (and anyone else I haven’t replied to I really appreciate it all). We’ve barely been intimate for many years. My horrible behaviour started with going on Tinder and over the years escalated from dating while married to seeing MPs and not having sex, then to SPs and then had an ad pop up for sugar dating and because I can afford that as well (it’s no more money than seeing an SP it’s just a different experience) started hooking up with SB’s. And then getting hit on in my industry with female suppliers texting me outside of work and asking to see each other. So absolutely disgusting behaviour. So a big part of all this and I love her in every other way except the lack of sex I looking in the mirror and not feeling worthy of anything. That must be part of the sex addiction as well. My wife cheated on me early on in our relationship when we were still quite newly married and that didn’t help anything. And it was so messed up because I had already been propositioned several times as a newlywed but would never dare to even entertain another girl. And now it’s spiraled into a very sordid pattern of behaviour where I could write a book or novel of everything I’ve done and where I’ve done it and the circumstances. And the women I’ve done it with and all the standing invitations of single and married women that are still there with girls from 19 to almost 50 years of age. Maybe we’re all messed up to some extent and I’m just extra.
