Married Hobbying

[FunInToronto2023]

Should I tell my wife that I want to see MPs? Has anyone on here ever told their significant other out of guilt, exasperation at their home sex life or put serious thought into it? If yes, what was the reaction like?

Don’t skewer me it’s something I’ve thought about for awhile and of course each situation has endless variables.

Note I said MPs and not SPs as that immediately means FS in pretty much every case.

 

[southpaw]

Yes, you definitely should. Let us know how it goes. I'll make some popcorn.

 

[shakenbake]

Should I tell my wife that I want to see MPs? Has anyone on here ever told their significant other out of guilt, exasperation at their home sex life or put serious thought into it? If yes, what was the reaction like?

Don’t skewer me it’s something I’ve thought about for awhile and of course each situation has endless variables.

Note I said MPs and not SPs as that immediately means FS in pretty much every case.

Do you have a good divorce lawyer lined up? Sorry, but I have to be brutally truthful with you. Rarely is a wife understanding in these matters.

 

[southpaw]

Do you have a good divorce lawyer lined up? Sorry, but I have to be brutally truthful with you. Rarely is a wife understanding in these matters.

Party pooper I just finished making the popcorn!

 

[lanaorg]

Should I tell my wife that I want to see MPs? Has anyone on here ever told their significant other out of guilt, exasperation at their home sex life or put serious thought into it? If yes, what was the reaction like?

Don’t skewer me it’s something I’ve thought about for awhile and of course each situation has endless variables.

Note I said MPs and not SPs as that immediately means FS in pretty much every case.

What's the point? Do whatever you want mp/sp but don't announce that. If you need to share that with someone, tell your friend but not your wife.

 

[Butler1000]

Should I tell my wife that I want to see MPs? Has anyone on here ever told their significant other out of guilt, exasperation at their home sex life or put serious thought into it? If yes, what was the reaction like?

Don’t skewer me it’s something I’ve thought about for awhile and of course each situation has endless variables.

Note I said MPs and not SPs as that immediately means FS in pretty much every case.

Make a choice. Either keep the secret and hobby, or ask for the divorce so you are free to hobby. It is incredibly unlikely she will accept anything else.

As well depending on your circumstances(kids etc) no fault will apply and you won't be that bad off. Especially if you initiate it due to spousal alienation. Talk to a lawyer.

There are not many variables here. That really is the stark choice.

 

[whynot888]

Should I tell my wife that I want to see MPs? Has anyone on here ever told their significant other out of guilt, exasperation at their home sex life or put serious thought into it? If yes, what was the reaction like?

Don’t skewer me it’s something I’ve thought about for awhile and of course each situation has endless variables.

Note I said MPs and not SPs as that immediately means FS in pretty much every case.

MP's or SP's, its the same shit to them. My suggestion is to keep it to yourself.

 

[agatsyayag1087]

I totally get from where you are coming from, having said that coming out means that even in the best case scenario this will be used against you at the time and the situation of your spouse's liking if not immediately.

 

[missarielle111]

Should I tell my wife that I want to see MPs? Has anyone on here ever told their significant other out of guilt, exasperation at their home sex life or put serious thought into it? If yes, what was the reaction like?

Don’t skewer me it’s something I’ve thought about for awhile and of course each situation has endless variables.

Note I said MPs and not SPs as that immediately means FS in pretty much every case.

Chiming in with a woman’s opinion - If I was your wife I’d rip it right off after you told me this.

 

[slyjoker666]

 

[LTO_3]

Unless your wife has hinted at this in some way or that she's open minded enough to say yes but otherwise have a lawyer on speed dial. Wives are not forgiving when they find out their guy is getting serviced elsewhere.

LTO_3

 

[Mandalorian]

Sorry, dumbest most naive post I’ve ever seen on terb.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

Yes, you definitely should. Let us know how it goes. I'll make some popcorn.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

Make a choice. Either keep the secret and hobby, or ask for the divorce so you are free to hobby. It is incredibly unlikely she will accept anything else.

As well depending on your circumstances(kids etc) no fault will apply and you won't be that bad off. Especially if you initiate it due to spousal alienation. Talk to a lawyer.

There are not many variables here. That really is the stark choice.

Thank you for this

 

[FunInToronto2023]

Chiming in with a woman’s opinion - If I was your wife I’d rip it right off after you told me this.

OK got it thank you

 

[massman]

Should I tell my wife that I want to see MPs? Has anyone on here ever told their significant other out of guilt, exasperation at their home sex life or put serious thought into it? If yes, what was the reaction like?

Don’t skewer me it’s something I’ve thought about for awhile and of course each situation has endless variables.

Note I said MPs and not SPs as that immediately means FS in pretty much every case.

Are you fucking crazy? If you have those feelings, bury them, stop seeing mps and do what you can to improve things at home, and accept the results. Or, option 2 get out, and accept the results.

 

[brualex33]

Chiming in with a woman’s opinion - If I was your wife I’d rip it right off after you told me this.

Interesting.

 

[Screwtape]

If you're so unhappy that you're stepping out, why not just get divorced? Maybe meet someone you actually like.

 

[massman]

If you're so unhappy that you're stepping out, why not just get divorced? Maybe meet someone you actually like.

Seems logical, but a gross oversimplification. Keep in mind that at least half of the guys here are married/ attached.

 

[xmontrealer]

Should I tell my wife that I want to see MPs? Has anyone on here ever told their significant other out of guilt, exasperation at their home sex life or put serious thought into it? If yes, what was the reaction like?

Don’t skewer me it’s something I’ve thought about for awhile and of course each situation has endless variables.

Note I said MPs and not SPs as that immediately means FS in pretty much every case.

My ex (wife at the time) was fine with my getting RMT massages at a health club to which we both belonged. She knew they were totally legit.

She was not happy when a friend of hers saw me going into "Just Relax", a semi-legit spa, and "ratted" on me, as my wife (at the time) assumed I was at getting at least a bj there (which wasn't the case).

That despite our not having had sex for years...

What would you possibly have to gain by telling your wife about your extra-curricular adventures?