Sugar Dating Experience

RobI

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Recently I've looked into SB by accident. I'm a newbie here and I'm wondering when you guys text with the girls, is it safe to use your main phone number or go with a second or burner number? I'm just thinking along the line of potential spammers or tracing personal info.
How did you accidentally look into a sugar baby? :)

yes, like a few guys have said, use a burner app like Textnow (I heard it loses messages, though) or Hush or even buy a second phone.

A cheaper option is just to use a Snap account; a lot of girls are on that now because the messages/pictures auto-delete after a day.
 

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How did you accidentally look into a sugar baby? :)

yes, like a few guys have said, use a burner app like Textnow (I heard it loses messages, though) or Hush or even buy a second phone.

A cheaper option is just to use a Snap account; a lot of girls are on that now because the messages/pictures auto-delete after a day.
I agree about SnapChat. most SB age girls use it. Also KIK is old school now, but the choice of many on sites like AFF and FetLife, and I’ve used it in the SB world as well. Anonymous and pretty much designed for pervs and cheaters. I use both those terms in the best possible sense :)
 
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RobI

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This Question is for everyone .

Has a MILF /GILF / Single Mom ever after the deed or before, or when ever asked you if you know how to fix things around the house?
Then asked you to fix it for her?
Not a MILF, but a 20-something who had moved to a new place, and something was wrong with the curtain blinds. It took 5 minutes to fix while she sat on the bed watching me fix it - she seemed grateful after ;)
 
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How did you accidentally look into a sugar baby? :)

yes, like a few guys have said, use a burner app like Textnow (I heard it loses messages, though) or Hush or even buy a second phone.

A cheaper option is just to use a Snap account; a lot of girls are on that now because the messages/pictures auto-delete after a day.
Actually I was looking around at Ashley Madison and stumble upon these other SB sites. As I'm researching, Idk if I have the game for this just based on some of the feedback I'm seeing here. Lots of misses than hits and the amount of time to go through. So is Seeking still the prefer site to go? despite all the fake profiles I'm hearing... Thanks for the heads up on Textnow app...new to me too but definitely useful.
 
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RobI

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Actually I was looking around at Ashley Madison and stumble upon these other SB sites. As I'm researching, Idk if I have the game for this just based on some of the feedback I'm seeing here. Lots of misses than hits and the amount of time to go through. So is Seeking still the prefer site to go? despite all the fake profiles I'm hearing... Thanks for the heads up on Textnow app...new to me too but definitely useful.
Ah ok, I see what you mean :D

All the sites have some level of fake profiles, but either Seeking or SDM are good choices. Seeking has more members, but you can't ask about PPM or anything that sounds like money-talk, SDM works the same way, has less members, but they don't care about money talk as far as I know. Only sugar site I'd ignore is Secret Benefits/SugarDaddy.ca, I've heard from two sources they send out fake messages from real girl's profiles which then cost the guy credits to read.
 

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https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/myPoints SDM started a credit system for those without full membership. You could send a message for 30 credits.
That's interesting. I guess that's one way of getting more engagement, but probably more aimed at the women, afterall guys still have to have enough cash to take the girls out :) Still maybe a way to try out the site see if it works for you.

Just as long as they don't scrap the regular memberships and turn into credits crap like SecretBenefits :(
 
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This Question is for everyone .

Has a MILF /GILF / Single Mom ever after the deed or before, or when ever asked you if you know how to fix things around the house?
Then asked you to fix it for her?
This is just another form of bartering, repair service trading for sexual service just as long as this is understood and there is no emotional attachments which can lead to obvious complications. In the digital world people expect instant gratification.
 
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I just want to say that the SD world has become terrible post covid. The girls are less attractive and the asks are much higher.
I'm definitely done with that process. Takes so much time and it costs wayyyy more than any other option out there.
Most of the girls are very entitled now and stand offish. Its basically a huge time and money suck.
We have to stop putting these girls on a pedestal and have more respect for ourselves and our hard earned money.
 

shack

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I just want to say that the SD world has become terrible post covid. The girls are less attractive and the asks are much higher.
I'm definitely done with that process. Takes so much time and it costs wayyyy more than any other option out there.
Most of the girls are very entitled now and stand offish. Its basically a huge time and money suck.
We have to stop putting these girls on a pedestal and have more respect for ourselves and our hard earned money.
Read my post in the "Conversion" thread. Maybe you're doing something wrong?
 

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Anyone notic that a lot of SD conversations the women on always about to leave or go on a long trip? Thus they have to meet this week or it may never happen? Lol - that and the urgent personal issue for a pre-payment ahead of the next meeting are common. I guess these girls have a forum just like this to work these situations to their advantage too...
 
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I just want to say that the SD world has become terrible post covid. The girls are less attractive and the asks are much higher.
I'm definitely done with that process. Takes so much time and it costs wayyyy more than any other option out there.
Most of the girls are very entitled now and stand offish. Its basically a huge time and money suck.
We have to stop putting these girls on a pedestal and have more respect for ourselves and our hard earned money.
Just spend money on hinge and get a consensual date off that. Do a quick hour date at first and do the date at your house or apt after that first initial meeting. Hit rate is a as long as girl is early 30s or younger.
 

shack

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ty man. I did that, and got nothing, which is why I asked. np though.
It was in a thread titled Sugar Baby Conversion. Last I looked (before you'd asked), it was on the front page.
 
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