Would you marry an SP?

[GPIDEAL]

I'd stop hobbying if I married any woman I adored.

Yes, there are SPs that I wouldn't need to hobby if they were my S.O.'s (they'd give me a reason to head straight home!).

And like you say, SP or no SP, if I was in a happy relationship (I'm single), I don't think I'd hobby. I haven't been tested in that regard though.

I'm getting older. I don't need to sow my wild oats forever.

 

[GPIDEAL]

If I were to get married I would prefer it be a somewhat open marriage. Swinging at least so it likely wouldn't bother me if my husband occasionally hobbied. If he was seeing a ton of SPs (or repeating with the same SP) and ignoring me, that would be a very different story.


If he was out of town on business and wanted to call up an escort I'm cool with that. He will still be coming home to me where he can tell me the details.

Aha I totally envy your position and ideally I'm like that. When I put it to practice I get insecure though.

Although -- with the RIGHT man, I know I'd be ok with it in practice and find it sexy and enriching.

Feeling insecure or having doubts is a natural, human reaction.

I think having an open marriage or knowing someone's history, is something that needs to be tested in any relationship. Total communication and honesty is key for any success. Empathy is also important.

Monogamy is not necessarily bad either if both of you are happier.

Soft swinging together might add spice to the relationship if need be.

 

[GPIDEAL]

When I was younger I was also insecure about it but now not so much.

Yup. Getting older makes us wiser and perhaps, less critical or sensitive, and more confident.

 

[DaleyDDD]

Couldn't agree more. If you're in a happy relationship with an SP or civil, just be happy. When I'm married, I'm out of this industry. End of story.
And Fuji...I've never agreed with your posts more. Given my experience, I see where unfaithfulness falls. And that's fine. But it's definitely (on my side, and chew me out for this comment if you like) on the guys end. Thats what happens when you see 99% men as an SP.

Yes, there are SPs that I wouldn't need to hobby if they were my S.O.'s (they'd give me a reason to head straight home!).

And like you say, SP or no SP, if I was in a happy relationship (I'm single), I don't think I'd hobby. I haven't been tested in that regard though.

I'm getting older. I don't need to sow my wild oats forever.

 

[DaleyDDD]

And angry me is coming out again, but YOU are stupid to post this.
Be with a girl cause you like her not because of how many guys she has been with. End of story.

Those guys are stupid.

 

[peter4025]

Those guys are stupid.

So it's ok for a man to see many women but not for a woman to have multiple partners? I think that you have double standards.

 

[peter4025]

And angry me is coming out again, but YOU are stupid to post this.
Be with a girl cause you like her not because of how many guys she has been with. End of story.

OMG Daley, I'm starting to like you even more when you are angry ��

 

[DaleyDDD]

Couldn't agree more. Sheesh too many on here that "do what we do" but the guy is judged way less than the girl? It's the same stuff bruh....we are doing the same thing. OWN it. Cant stand that. I don't care who you tell about your hobby but to yourself, own it.

So it's ok for a man to see many women but not for a woman to have multiple partners? I think that you have double standards.

 

[GPIDEAL]

Those guys are stupid.

A woman with experience, knows what she wants in a partner.

 

[Frankunderwood]

I'm amazed that this thread is still going. Last time I checked, SP's were women just like any others? Everyone has a past, don't fool yourself.

 

[peter4025]

I don't know if YOU are stupid however, you have poor comprehension skills.



I didn't say that. I implied that it would be stupid to prefer girls with 12+ sexual partners to those with 0-11 sexual partners. More sexual partners is not better, and it may even be worse. You also you have poor comprehension.

That's exactly what you implied. Guys who marry or date girls with more than 12 partners are stupid, so by default women with 12+ partners are not worth to marry. English might be my second language but I'm not dummy.

 

[DaleyDDD]

Gosh I wish everyone could have your outlook, same as Frankunderwood.
There's unfortunately too many underaged and of aged d bags on here. It's all a matter of weeding through them and taking the time to do so...

That's exactly what you implied. Guys who marry or date girls with more than 12 partners are stupid, so by default women with 12+ partners are not worth to marry. English might be my second language but I'm not dummy.

 

[DaleyDDD]

I wish us ladies were allowed to speak this candidly on here.
Oh to be a boy on terb...
Such a different world.

You are not worth my time. If I call you stupid I would be offending the mentally handicapped people. Just stop insulting the amazing woman in this industry. I just wish you would properly introduce yourself to them before you meet them, I bet you no money would get you through their doors.

 

[peter4025]

It's also not anatomically correct. The whole concept of "looseness" based on amount of partners isn't real.

http://www.laweekly.com/news/demystifying-the-vagina-does-too-much-sex-make-her-loose-2530297

This type of Looseness is just a myth. It's an old folk story to keep women oppressed , same as the say that if man masturbates will grow hair in the palms of the hands. People who believe in this are really insecure ignorants.

Ps. By the way, I love your signature picture. Beautiful tattoos ��

 

[geeky]

I wish us ladies were allowed to speak this candidly on here.
Oh to be a boy on terb...
Such a different world.

I don't know about anyone else, but I wish more of the women here would speak candidly. Your, and a few other's posts are quite refreshing.

 

[Frankfooter]

I wish us ladies were allowed to speak this candidly on here.
Oh to be a boy on terb...
Such a different world.

I'd be all for it.
You sound like a smart and fun one.

 

[VinnyBlaze]

Have not kept up with most of the convos, but to answer the question:
Yes...
If she's into me & i'm into her. It's a genuinely mutual desire.
Let's do it.
Fck the rest.

 

[Titalian]

You are not worth my time. If I call you stupid I would be offending the mentally handicapped people. Just stop insulting the amazing woman in this industry. I just wish you would properly introduce yourself to them before you meet them, I bet you no money would get you through their doors.

Most of these persona's are mentally underdeveloped men that sit behind a keyboard hiding and spewing out their frustrations.
That's the only way they can get their points across, because in the real world, no one listens to them.

 

[DaleyDDD]

I believe there are GREAT guys on here...some of which I know. Yes we all have fake names (mostly) but that's the way the cookie crumbles..
Accept what you do and reveal the truth to those you trust.

Most of these persona's are mentally underdeveloped men that sit behind a keyboard hiding and spewing out their frustrations.
That's the only way they can get their points across, because in the real world, no one listens to them.

 

[pagliaccio]

Have not kept up with most of the convos, but to answer the question:
Yes...
If she's into me & i'm into her. It's a genuinely mutual desire.
Let's do it.
Fck the rest.

Agreed.