Would you marry an SP?
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I could care what the "Housewives of Rosedale" think, but I don't know I would have enough compersion to deal with it if my wife/lover was still active. If she was retired? Absolutely.
This is very true, but there are exceptions, one of my close friends married an escort/dancer. She and my ex-wife became the best of friends.
As I said before I've met civiie women, who make escorts look like saints. Its judgemental and also prejudice.
Absolutely, and I'd prefer he was a rather frequent client of other women before me (and after, I suppose, but different story). How else is someone supposed to have a realistic perspective of some of the experiences I've been through if it's not through living similar ones themselves?
I really don't care what other people think about me. So it wouldn't bother me showing up with a woman much younger than me.
On Saturday I took my younger sister ( who is visiting me) to a wedding even if she wasn't feeling too good. She is 25 years younger than me. You should see the looks of the people were giving us. I loved the envious look that the men were giving me, but the women's look was priceless. Specially when their faces turned red once I told them that she is my sister.
I might stop hobbying if I married an SP I adored, or we would hobby together.
Completely agree with Becky. I think any marriage between two people should be based on love, openness, understanding, respect for each other and trust. I don't agree with stop SPing or hobbying after marriage, that to me is double standards and are conditions that will not be sustainable given the propensity of the couple to have sex with multiple partners.
SPing is a service, it is job like any other that is serving a certain natural demand in society. If we can learn to respect this service and the providers, then I don't see the need for this condition of no SPing after marriage. Love for your wife should not be based on their sexual activity. It should be because you actually care for this person.
I am a hobbyist and I am married. If I were to find out tomorrow that my wife is an SP and is doing it out of free will, I would not stop her and would not stop loving or respecting her. It's a profession she has chosen and she gets to decide when to do it and how long to do it, like any other job
It isn't only the housewives. These days women are breaking through the glass ceiling and occupying positions of power in companies, professional jobs, key organizations, etc.
Few workplaces and few social organizations are old boys clubs. Those days are gone.
So if that judgmental women is your boss or the decision maker at your largest client or the organizing busy body at your condo board or whatever she may be able to make your life a real hell. And even a housewife might make your life miserable through the PTA once she decides you are a bad influence on her children.
Not saying that is likely, but watch out saying you don't care what others think or that you don't care what "women" think. You do care, whether or not you admit it. Thus an ex SP will prefer that in general people don't know.
Lol, that's up to you, but why marriage with this luv in your life, if your going to continue hobbying, Why don't you
just live in common law with her, I mean lets be realistic, it can't be a true marriage union if your planning to fuck
other women and vice versa. Its defeats the purpose. So why not just live with each other.
You should get married to procreate and have a family, it offers contracted commitment to the offspring. Otherwise forget it, just be sexy friends and in either case stop worrying about who your partner plays with for fun and variety. It's only sex for Christ sake !!!!
Well, I think Sp's are woman like everyone else myself, and I see 3 Milfs who are in relationships and 2 are in fact married. I only know this, as I have seen the same ladies for years. One lady has pictures of her husband in the house. Not the bedroom. So that is their life and we must understand that this is a business to them and hell, some of us are married, so I say, What we all do and Sp's do is their personal life.
But to answer honestly, Yes If I were single and if the SP did fall in love with me and Me with her. I would not have a problem to live with her. But of course would want her to quit. I guess only some men can handle it. Not me. But its great if they can. Maybe my ego would get in the way.
But in the real World, SP's are making money, and they should. So pay them, enjoy and they can live their life as they wish.
I agree with the raising of siblings but You seem overly confident, This might work for you and your open minded wife. You
being well off doesn't hurt either. But many times these extra out of marriage affairs do turn sour at home. Apparently some do take this
type of relationship seriously, otherwise why bother getting married if only for the sake of children.
Fortunately I am the boss and and our largest customers are in the the US.
Anyway how many people outside brokers and a couple of investment bankers would actually recognize more than a couple of Toronto high sps's. I say that list likely includes no women - clients or employees.
If I were to get married I would prefer it be a somewhat open marriage. Swinging at least so it likely wouldn't bother me if my husband occasionally hobbied. If he was seeing a ton of SPs (or repeating with the same SP) and ignoring me, that would be a very different story.
If he was out of town on business and wanted to call up an escort I'm cool with that. He will still be coming home to me where he can tell me the details.
If he was out of town on business and wanted to call up an escort I'm cool with that. He will still be coming home to me where he can tell me the details.
Twice = 2 x 100Finally someone who gets it
It's a hard struggle.
Have dated someone who saw escorts twice a few years before he met me, and every day I'd wonder.
