Would you marry an SP?
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Thats what its all about, True friendship first Always. Without that, there is nothing but idle promises.
I gather a typical SP would demand their future husband to
hold their profession in high regard.
Does her husband know about her business? If he isn't a pimp
I will be tempted to visit her even though I am not really into SPs--I
am a MP hobbyist. It always feel great to sleep with wives of other
people.
I don't think it works well with demands on either side. They just want to be accepted for who they are and who they were, no different if they were doing something else.
Why in the world would you think that. Most SP's, contrary to the phantasies here on Terb, are in the racket because they need the cash. Single mothers, foreign students who are not allowed to work, some dependent on drugs or expensive toys, etc.
Of course, there are exceptions to any rule, and I have known a few SP's who genuinely love their job and would not do anything else. Young girls who just love to be intimate with older, overweight strangers lacking in social skills, are few and far between.
Exactly. Whoever I marry will know what I've done. If he can't handle who my friends are then he can't handle me. That's that and that's it. My closest friends are "clients" (which I hate the word) but those are the closest relationships I've built.
lol and I suppose you know what i had for breakfast. I am single. One day I may choose to be in a relationship.
Yes, I've probably left out a few more reasons why women, normally, don't have as many sexual partners as men. Whether one reason is more central to a particular woman's decisions is neither here nor there. All that matters for my point is that its out of the ordinary for women to choose to have as many partners as men do. And for women, it's really a choice. Many men would love to have more sexual partners than they do, but they can't manage it for variety of reasons. As a practical matter, women can have as many sexual partners as they want.
As to your second point, if you're not finding out something about your partner's sexual history, you're not looking out for yourself. Her history is relevant to so many things:
1. Are there possible health issues?
2. Can she make a relationship last? Why do her relationships end?
3. Are you her "type", or has she chosen "off menu" for some reason?
4. Are any of her ex'es still in her life in some way?
These are all highly relevant to your prospects of staying together in the long term. You don't need to know micro details about the sex she's had with other people, but you do need to know about her past relationships, where they went wrong, and whether your current relationship with her is different in the ways that matter.
I would say that a woman who doesn't care about your past relationships would be foolishly gambling in the very same way.
If you're just seeing someone for a lark, and you're using all of the precautions, I guess this kind of background doesn't matter. If you are in (what you think) is a serious relationship, they do.
Trying to make this a "woman's equality" issue is a total red herring. If a woman that you have a serious relationship with doesn't want to tell you about her past, it's because she knows there's something about it that you won't like. And, chances are, she's right.
This can obviously be an issue with many men. One of my exes is still very much a big part of my life and I think that is harder for guys to deal with than the escorting.
I'm taking numbers. Don't worry.You'll have to get in line. Lots of proposals already
